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NibbyJibby -> RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... (1/16/2012 2:48:48 PM)
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In that so many are blatantly and strongly bias against financial domination why would one want to voluntarily jump into that shark infested pool. It's not as if such entrenched bias would change... mostly just feed the hunger of the sharks looking for something extra to close their jaws upon.
I do not see need for one to discuss or reveal finer details. Either one is acceptive to generalized aspects or they are not. Most who are curious have not ventured into such territory and tend to identify with the negatives of such. Revelation of specifics will not change such biased and entrenched mindset. Seldom happens in politics, religion or polarized topics such as this.
For example to say there is no difference between a financial Domme and a prostitute is to say there is no difference between a professional Domme and a prostitute. Perchance that is true, but also not something i give thought to and thus do not see a financial Domme as any higher or lower on a scale. There are varying degrees of character attributes and integrities in any and every profession. Financial Dommes are no different. Problem i see is too many newbies jump into it in belief it is easy money, a easy score. I do not view them as true Dommmes and indeed see that they give true financial Dommes a bad rap. They create so that mainstream readily identify with the negatives. Those that are rip off artists also are typically easy to identify. Common sense, gut instinct, focus to expectations and two primary traits are my initial guidelines to avoid scammers. Any sensible person can develop their own guidelines, same as they would in submitting in-person.
In interacting with skilled, experienced financial Dommes i never felt ripped off, never was scammed. Although my interests where psychological and physical, fact is the money Dommes i interacted with mostly fulfilled my cravings and needs. Managed to create fear, intensities, intense power exchange and a number of mind fucks. They put their full essence into it , were clever, dedicated and imaginative. I have been pained, marked, denied, humiliated, controlled to surprising satisfaction. I have experienced some in-person sessions that did not achieve that. I have experienced a few in-person sessions where i felt more scammed than i ever was with a online financial Domme. My longest in-person power exchange relationship was three years, longest online relationship four years. Obviously i prefer in-person and my greatest sessions and most intense experiences mostly have been in-person. But still i would never, ever belittle the skill, integrity and respect for the four wonderful financial Dommes i served. They were all with integrity and more than generous of themselves. Indeed with Goddess She on one occasion protected me from a careless decision i was about to make, has provided advice and demonstrated much generosity despite Her greed and love for money and the power of control it symbolizes.
If i partook with obvious newbies, fakes or scammers obviously my viewpoint would be different. In that i did not and do not makes so my experiences and viewpoint is equally valid and perhaps more so. As such i only wish to convey... as in any segment of society or occupation, or trade... there is the awesome, there is the good, there is the bad and there is the ugly. They can not all be lumped together as one!
There was mention of blackmail and how it is illegal. That comment made me chuckle in its truth and naivety. Activities deemed illegal happen in all walks of life. BM can be consensual and/or it can be subliminal. Little minor incidents can be BM and yet not constitute a illegality that will be pursued. I have found myself naively progressing through steps or to be cleverly maneuvered into a situation and to have it used against me or used to further subdue me. I do not subscribe to BM and it is one of the few limits i was able to maintain.... yet in essence and small ways it absolute happened. Although something i am against i found it powerful and found myself bending to it. Sometimes knowingly sometimes not. The world and power exchange do not exist in a universe of black and white. There is much varying degrees of grey area and much flux. The mind and emotions are very powerful combination.... sometimes surprising the journey they combine to take one upon!
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