Daddysredhead
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Joined: 11/6/2005 From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia Status: offline
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I met my ex (Dom) almost 9 years ago and was brought into the lifestyle at that point, so I wasn't looking. The last year we were "together" was basically non-existent because I rarely saw him and had mentally checked out of whatever that mess was. I decided I wanted a male sub about that same time but didn't actively seek one for about 6 months, which is when Geoff and I started talking regularly. It was a good match, and I'd say I didn't really look after that point. So, less than a year.
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