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How many years have you seeked a dom or sub?


Less than one year
  32% (12)
One Year
  8% (3)
Two Years
  10% (4)
Three Years
  5% (2)
Four Years
  13% (5)
Five Years
  8% (3)
Six Years
  2% (1)
Seven Years
  2% (1)
Eight Years
  2% (1)
Nine Years or more
  13% (5)


Total Votes : 37


(last vote on : 10/8/2012 8:09:34 PM)
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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/21/2012 9:53:19 AM   
seababy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Yachtie

I've chatted with a few subs here and there. So far all have taken "can you man a winch or tail a sheet"   the wrong way.

I'm doomed



Yachtie you need to photoshop your boat onto a tropical water location. :)

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/21/2012 11:17:43 AM   
Daddysredhead


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I met my ex (Dom) almost 9 years ago and was brought into the lifestyle at that point, so I wasn't looking. The last year we were "together" was basically non-existent because I rarely saw him and had mentally checked out of whatever that mess was. I decided I wanted a male sub about that same time but didn't actively seek one for about 6 months, which is when Geoff and I started talking regularly. It was a good match, and I'd say I didn't really look after that point. So, less than a year.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/21/2012 4:48:36 PM   
ResidentSadist


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It's never taken me a year to find a partner.  Seems like it takes a anywhere from a few days to a few months at the most by my experiences. 

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/21/2012 6:19:26 PM   
Daddysredhead


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That's because you are the hawtness, RS

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/21/2012 9:46:58 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Dear red,
That's just because we met in person... it wasn't my hawtness, that was actually hotness.  My temperature goes up when your fine self is within reach.  In fact, you make me 'red hot'... or you make me hot for red?  Either way, I feel my temperature rise when you are around.  

Luv ya,
Kalon Eric 


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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/23/2012 5:43:00 AM   
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i didnt even know i needed a Dominant . all i wanted was a birthday spanking and nsa sex.


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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/23/2012 5:51:30 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: seababy

quote:

ORIGINAL: Yachtie

I've chatted with a few subs here and there. So far all have taken "can you man a winch or tail a sheet"   the wrong way.

I'm doomed



Yachtie you need to photoshop your boat onto a tropical water location. :)



Yeah. Buffet had it almost right. Beaches, Ballads, Bars... and Bondage. The boat's a lucky girl. Triple spreader bars as standard equipment.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/23/2012 7:01:49 AM   
Fornica


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The title of this thread continues to irritate me.
For an academy, they ought to have more propers letterings.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 12:44:48 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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I think I'm just bouncing around bumping into people. Bursts of "active search" mixed with moments of "meh" - if it's to be, it'll be, and if not, I'll just get more pets. :p

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 12:52:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Yachtie

I've chatted with a few subs here and there. So far all have taken "can you man a winch or tail a sheet"   the wrong way.

I'm doomed



I can, I can!! But alas, I'm not a sub...


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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 3:15:31 PM   
Delilya


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Let's see, about 7 months. He had been looking for over 3 years.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 5:40:03 PM   
dovie


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Still looking for one....about 4 years now...hopefully my search will come to an end sometime soon. I'm an oddball so I need an oddball Master . LOL..

dovie

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 5:43:05 PM   
xXLithiumXx


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I have been looking for a decent Dom since I started in the lifestyle. I wore a collar for a few months once, but he was a jack ass and I tore it off and threw it at him.

I had a female sub once, but she was obsessed with sex and wouldn't listen to anything, so I am not totally interested in having a sub to keep.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 6:03:28 PM   
Epytropos


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This is a strange question. How do we define "seeking" exactly? If I'm engaged in casual play but not interested in a slave, is that "seeking" time? I mean, I'm "seeking" play partners in that scenario, I guess, but unless someone perfect falls into (across ^.^) my lap I'm not "seeking" to possess anyone. By the same token I wouldn't mind having someone to cook for me (seriously... come cook for me. Anyone. Please. If I have noodles one more bloody time I'm going to shoot myself in the head) which counts as service, and given that they'd be serving me and I'd no doubt boss them around and/or inflict various indignities on them as they worked their service would probably could as BDSM and by extension my desire for them could probably count as "seeking." For a strict enough definition it's probably sitting a <1 year, and for a loose enough definition you could include my entire time in the lifestyle.

I guess what I'm saying is, I'm hungry and hate standing up.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 8:21:25 PM   
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I haven't been on the market very long, looking for my nice, smart, sweet, strong, sensual Dom, but I have a feeling he's right around the corner. He's so close I can almost taste him! Yippee and yum!

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/24/2012 11:22:06 PM   
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When I was 18 I was introduced to kinky sex by a Lady who I met through a friend. After some submissive sessions and then some dominating sessions I realized that vanilla just wasn't for me. I enjoyed it so much when she gave up all control and trusted that my hands would let her breath in time. She always thanked me and got off. Ever since then it has been an on and off thing. 22 years old now, still looking. 22-18 is 4, Regis. Final answer, locking it in.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/27/2012 10:22:56 AM   
r1a2y3m4o5n6d7


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I have been on here 5 years and nothing. Is anyone really on here??????

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/27/2012 2:42:18 PM   
OsideGirl


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My first relationship lasted 8 months. I had been looking for about 1 month.

I was single 4 months, when I met my second Dominant. We were together for 6 years.

I was single 3 months when I started dating Master. We had been platonic friends for 3 years prior to that.

We've been together 12 years, married for 11.

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RE: How many years have you seeked a dom or sub? - 1/27/2012 3:02:25 PM   
Yachtie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


quote:

ORIGINAL: Yachtie

I've chatted with a few subs here and there. So far all have taken "can you man a winch or tail a sheet"   the wrong way.

I'm doomed



I can, I can!! But alas, I'm not a sub...








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RE: How many years have you sought a dom or sub? - 1/28/2012 6:27:34 AM   
kalikshama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: r1a2y3m4o5n6d7

I have been on here 5 years and nothing. Is anyone really on here??????


If you'd like suggestions specific to you, start a thread for that and you'll get lots of advice.

(Your question has already been answered by the other posters in this thread. Also see Positive Experiences.)







< Message edited by kalikshama -- 1/28/2012 6:35:44 AM >

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