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hereyesruponyou -> RE: First time anal (6/4/2012 7:31:39 PM)
I'm often amazed by the number of guys who think women should "just take it" but would never offer up their own hole. Especially ridiculous since they are the ones with the sensory stimulation gland in there...here sir, let me introduce you to your prostate... I promise if you let me put a hand or two in there I WILL rock your world :) I'm lucky to keep my husband down to 2-3 times a week. And that's just to allow some variety, payback for me, and "real life" (ie. kids at home). And we craft our own lube, even if it means buying a new blender ever few months. I tried anal a few times, or more, and it was ok. Definitely an interesting experience. But there are SO many other things I want to do. Best part about this lifestyle...infinite options!

Buzzzz -> RE: First time anal (6/5/2012 3:43:19 PM)
quote: I'm often amazed by the number of guys who think women should "just take it" but would never offer up their own hole. Especially ridiculous since they are the ones with the sensory stimulation gland in there...here sir, let me introduce you to your prostate... I promise if you let me put a hand or two in there I WILL rock your world :) I'm lucky to keep my husband down to 2-3 times a week. And that's just to allow some variety, payback for me, and "real life" (ie. kids at home). And we craft our own lube, even if it means buying a new blender ever few months. I tried anal a few times, or more, and it was ok. Definitely an interesting experience. But there are SO many other things I want to do. Best part about this lifestyle...infinite options! Well, there you go!!! I am the same as you. I tried anal a few times and it was so, so. Now, the other way around, it is mucho good. It is the way I am build. nothing right or wrong. simple as that .

MasterAutarch -> RE: First time anal (6/26/2012 8:42:59 PM)
With a newbie who is scared or someone that needs the slow gentle approach, I follow some variation of the following: - Discuss it with her so that she is ready emotionally - Make sure she has cleaned herself out. I don't like having something pushing back. - Massage shoulders and other parts and get her to relax. If she is into BDSM a good long slow spanking might be as good - get the endorphins to flow. - Fuck her a while and do things that turn her on - Massage her perineum and ass hole gently - Use lots of K-Y Jelly (warmed?) and press gently on the sphincter while continuing to massage it - Slowly work a finger in. Sometimes while fucking her or fingering her. - Pause if she tenses up, then resume - Make sure I get the finger in past all sphincters. - Work the finger in and out without actually exiting for a few mintues. - Start working the finger around in circles pushing sideways to stretch the sphincters and relax her - Add a second finger and continue pumping in and out. Maybe start spreading the fingers a little over time. - Finally, make sure my dick is lubed, slide the fingers out and slide my dick in. - Pause. Listen for pain vs. pleasure sounds and feel when she starts to move. - Start sodomizing her slowly and pick up the pace as she loosens up and pumps back. Of course if she is a - willing, b - used to it, c - a little masochistic, then simply applying some lube and shoving it up her ass is fine. I'm a softy (at heart) so I pause to let her process it before I start moving hard and fast. Also, unless you discussed it before hand and agreed, telling the girl that it's a turn on that she is sucking you after you had been in her ass could result in an abrupt end to the BJ and a request that you go wash...

mike177 -> RE: First time anal (7/29/2012 7:07:47 AM)
I tried some anal relaxant spray a couple of times, I don't think it made any difference. Someone suggested the person on the receiving end ought to straddle the other - +1

EsotericLady -> RE: First time anal (1/20/2013 2:39:04 PM)
Honestly, Dark Steven? I'm sticking to the old rule: "Those who boast about getting the most, get the least." I'd gander a guess it fits in this instance. quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: Nyckname He sticks it whenever he feels like. You deal with it. I am suppressing the urge to call you what I think of you. Even if Alpha is out sick. May I please explain what a Dominant's responsibility is? He realizes that anal can potentially result in tearing tissue, and makes sure that he uses lube. He also checks to make sure that his partner is okay throughout. The "You deal with it" bullshit overlooks the fact that a trip to the doctor could be in order if he screws it up. A Dominant has responsibility for his sub. In other words, if HE screws up, HE deals with it. If there's anything else I can do to help you understand the difference between a Dom and an abuser, please let me know.

EsotericLady -> RE: First time anal (1/20/2013 3:01:07 PM)
LMAO I found this quite humorous! :) quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas What we do is "sexual magic" here. Honey, with a proper Dom, being ready for anal is the least of your concerns. Oh yeah.

EsotericLady -> RE: First time anal (1/20/2013 3:03:32 PM)
I don't think there are lots of people who realize this... quote: ORIGINAL: Hippiekinkster You actually have two O-rings to get past. The external sphincter doesn't have that much resistance. The internal sphincter has a large group of muscles controlling it, which make it tighter, and more resistant to penetration. It will open up with gentle pressure.

VideoAdminChi -> RE: First time anal (1/20/2013 5:47:52 PM)
FR, Please do not post on threads on which the last post is more than three months old. Thanks, Chi

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