leonine
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Joined: 11/3/2009 From: [email protected] Status: offline
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As I know and use the term, switching is about your BDSM life. Having different roles in the outer world and in BDSM is another matter. I know plenty of subs who are strong minded leaders in their public life, but I don't call them switches because in private intimate relationships they only want to submit. Personally, I believe that everyone into BDSM has the potential to go either way, but most people pick a role and stick with it unless something happens to shake them up. (Like my wife who thought she was only a Domme till she found herself wanting to submit to me.) If your fantasies go both ways, it may turn out that only one way works for you in real life, but you'll only find out by trying.
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Leo9 Gonna pack in my hand, pick up on a piece of land and build myself a cabin in the woods. It's there I'm gonna stay, until there comes a day when this old world starts a-changing for the good. - James Taylor
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