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ORIGINAL: Duskypearls

I suppose it depends on the reason for the apology, it's presentation, and the intent behind it.

Those of a self-denigrating nature, who apologize excessively, for no good reason, are a pain in my butt.

Those who do so to manipulate or play weak get no respect from me.

Those who do so poorly, without any true repentance, or to simply shut you up, are worthless.

Those who do so appropriately, and with good intent, are of good character.

Those who do so when they've done someone wrong or harm are honorable.

Those who have no ownership in wronging or harming another are wise enough to say, "I'm sorry YOU feel hurt/harmed/offended by what I did/said, but none of it was done with intent to hurt you." There's a difference between actually being responsible for harming another, and them feeling you've harmed them, when in fact, you have not.

To me, a truly, heart-felt, simple, apology (when appropriate and deserved) goes a long way towards earning my admiration, trust and respect. Never underestimate the value of humility.