RE: New dom looking, from ontario, canada

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kalikshama -> RE: New dom looking, from ontario, canada (2/28/2012 7:34:15 AM)
Kill all the negativity. It's unattractive and won't prevent the undesired messages but will turn off your target audience. quote: Not real impressed with this site, since old London Ontario seems pretty desolate on here. But message me and I will message back. Standard caveats: 1) Do Not Message Me If You Are A Gay Male. I can't believe I actually have to post that here. 2) I do not beat the shit out of girls, if that's your thing, don't involve me. The numbers on this site are so low i'm not even going to bother with what I want or what i'm looking for. Rephrase this: "2) I do not beat the shit out of girls, if that's your thing, don't involve me." Put it after what you do like and change it to something like, "While I am into aggressive sex, I'm not into leaving you black and blue." Regarding this: "But message me and I will message back." Um, no, not likely. YOU need to be the proactive one. Tip - comment on something VANILLA in her profile - women say they respond to this and men say they get responses. Send me a sample first email and I will critique it.

kalikshama -> RE: New dom looking, from ontario, canada (2/28/2012 7:42:00 AM)
quote: Again though, judging by the one girl local to me who has been on her profile this year, I expect very little. Dude, you are totally creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. When I was looking, I considered collarme to be one tool of many. There is also OKCupid (which has a surprising amount of kinksters - look for people who have taken the kinky tests or who have kinky keywords in their profiles) and fetlife - use to find local events and then network.

shrek1985 -> RE: New dom looking, from ontario, canada (2/28/2012 11:44:16 AM)
No, seriously. There is one, count em one girl in my area who has been online since the new year and just over 2-dozen who looked at their profiles sometime last year. also trying; Okcupid fetlife oceansofpeople flirtbox mingle2 and probably some others I am forgetting. One tool among several and not very sharp or useful by the looks of it, but i'll keep it around anyways. And maybe re-write my profile when I feel like it.

Casteele -> RE: New dom looking, from ontario, canada (2/28/2012 7:15:08 PM)
People are such funny creatures. So few of them are willing to do the work of being a pioneer that they'd rather follow and hope the masses jump in their laps. But if you're just following, the masses ain't in a position to go falling in your lap. In other words, until people from your area start coming on and finding something else interesting in your area, people in your area won't find anything interesting enough here to stay. It's a lose-lose situation. So be the one to change that. Be the one to have a real profile, have a real personality, to simply be real and interesting, so when others do come along hoping to find something interesting.. they'll find you. Win-win. Good luck :-)

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