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Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:14:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelface183 OK gentlemen and ladies in this thread I call upon you. How do I handle this misguided soul? I have politely and publicly told him that I am not interested in what he seeks. How polite do I have to be now? Hush angel I'm trying to draw his fire.... ~chuckles~ Maybe I'm not wiggling my toes invitingly enough

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:14:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelface183 How polite do I have to be now? You still have to be polite. Yet politeness does not require you pay attention to the lost soul. In polite society, one does not speak with one unknown to them without proper introductions to avoid just such a situation. Ignore him and hope he goes away...or point and laugh...either work. Taggard

Rumtiger -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:15:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelface183 Of course dear doggie. You can curl up next to my other pooch who is sleeping soundly at my feet. Um...so where do I get to lay down?

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:16:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Calandra You saw right through me and exposed my inner tumoil to all.... ~sniff, sniff~ I knew you had a thing for long tongued Indian businessmen. It was just so obvious...like Rosie is gay obvious (trying to stay somewhat on topic). Taggard

thetammyjo -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:17:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Calandra I wanted to ask for everyone's opinion... Do you think it is ethical to post email addresses, pictures, instant messenger ID's, and/or private correspondence to a popular vanilla website where "anyone" could run across it? I realize that even here "anyone" could run across it, but they'd have to have a reason for coming here first (curiosity, kinky needs of their own, checking up on a spouse if there's already suspicion)... On a vanilla website a person could easily find these posts, maybe recognize a picture, and then boom, that person is outed. Please explain why you answer the way that you do... I don't think this has anything to do with BDSM at all. Telling others what is rightfully the private or personal information of another person without that other person's consent, is at the very least rude and in my opinion highly unethical. I share my stuff with people on this website, people who visit my website, those members of my fansite, classes I speak to, and others I personally choose. No one has a right to talk for me or post for me anywhere for any reason. Yes, I do have permission from Tom and Fox to tell you the things I do about them on this website -- I do not tell you many things about them because I do not have permission. Even though Fox is my slave, I value his right to personal privacy and to make decisions about who else knows about us. He in turn has my permission to talk about me about certain things on the furry and bondage websites he is a member of. The same is true for Tom and his particular interest sites.

Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:18:51 AM)
naw, I figure the topic is tired and we're just visitng... and who told you I love indian businessmen with long tongues????? I've been OUTTED!!!!!!

angelface183 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:18:56 AM)
quote: You still have to be polite. Ignore him and hope he goes away...or point and laugh...either work. You are absolutely right. I got a little worked up and forgot my manners. If you don't mind though, I think I will just ignore him and let others point and laugh if they wish. whistles for benji (I may suppress a giggle or two, but don't tell anyone)

juliaoceania -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:20:37 AM)
I think people who share private communication without the permission of the person who sent that private communication are basically attention seeking or have some other deficit in their head. I do not understand it unless someone was stalking them. Even then I do not understand it. I do not know if it is unethical, but it certainly is immature

angelface183 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:21:25 AM)
quote: Yes but you have to remember how many men think that \|-------------------------> is 6 inches!! Do you know why men are so good at reading maps? Because only a man could figure out how an inch can equal 100 miles! forgot my manners again.....

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:21:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U Darn you and your solid moral code LOL. Here I was going to sign up for neked Taggard wallpaper. Well...there is this one baby picture of me out there somewhere... Taggard

sublizzie -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:21:46 AM)
Your admirer has moved on to other threads. Maybe if you stay here you can escape his attentions???? [:D]

diamonddreamlove -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:23:32 AM)
i do not wish to be outed by anyone for any reason. i have a son and husband i love very much i just also love the lifestyle more each day. to have someone deliberately hurt those i love by bring me out in the open is malicious and uncalled for. those in this life should know that about as well as any since in some areas of the world mine in particular outing would end careers, destroy families and friendships. on the other hand i would love to be able to be totally open in my life and not consider this my secret half but until other things in my life change i prefer to be quietly submissive without being threatened and held hostage by some "immature, malicious and possibly dangerous person" outing me.

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:26:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelface183 If you don't mind though, I think I will just ignore him and let others point and laugh if they wish. That is the classy way to go...and you, my dear, show a great deal of class in all of your postings. wink Taggard

gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:27:37 AM)
Okay. Here goes nothing. Ready? Point: ----> Laugh: LOL. Good enough? Yours, benji

theRose4U -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:29:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelface183 quote: Yes but you have to remember how many men think that \|-------------------------> is 6 inches!! Do you know why men are so good at reading maps? Because only a man could figure out how an inch can equal 100 miles! forgot my manners again..... [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]He he ehehe [sm=mrpuffy.gif]that's just too freakin funny...and yet explains so much about my job [strange]

angelface183 -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:29:32 AM)
quote: That is the classy way to go...and you, my dear, show a great deal of class in all of your postings. Thank you for noticing and with all due respect, your wife is hot!

gooddogbenji -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:30:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U Horney and desperate isn't your style benji. Besides bad little dogs that hump legs quickly find themselves at the vet's office for a neuter. But I try so hard!!!! Should I make my avatar a cock pic? Would that make me more horny and desperate? Yours, benji

Dustee -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:37:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Calandra quote: ORIGINAL: ExistentialSteel Don't you guys realize how many imposters are out there? Yeah, but the minute you ask someone to use a microphone, or webcam or telephone, your a shallow asshole who only thinks of sex... you perve!!!!! As a gross generalization, that is way out in left field. A dislike for audio or video exposure (that , by the way, can be recorded, spliced, and resued with far more convicing and devestating misinformational results than just reposting text) more often means you are a shy or very private person who finds using webcam, telephones, and microphones with utter strangers to be a far more extreme and odious invasion of privacy than simply typing text messages. For me, those tools strip privacy and expose me and make me vulnerable to people who often turn out to be total assholes, and I will not use them until or unless such people can establish some sort of trust or rapport via the written word. And yes I find the people who insist upon such methods of intruding upon my privacy to be extremely pushy bastards (or broads ;) ) and I ignore them instantly.

Calandra -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:42:55 AM)
Dustee, I was joking... I also don't agree that you should have to sacrifice your comfort for someone you've only just met online... I was kidding, honest... I tend to think the whole answering profiles thing is too stilted and unreal anyway... I almost exclusively contact people I've observed on the boards, because maybe I've enjoyed their viewpoints, or I love their sense of humor... Ya don't just pick up the phone book and start calling strangers do ya? well emailing people who have profiles on here is a lot like calling out of a phone book....

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Outing Collarme members on vanilla websites...? (6/3/2006 7:51:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Calandra Ya don't just pick up the phone book and start calling strangers do ya? I'll have you know that you can make a lot of friends that way...just ask my pals Aaron Abromaowitz and Adam Abernathy. wink Taggard

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