OttersSwim
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Joined: 9/1/2008 Status: offline
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Come on you guys...we get this young fellow in here, he can spell, he can punctuate, he is not asking for wank material...and we greet him with "you don't make enough money"?! Anyone remember how it was to be young and broke? At 20 I had no money either, but managed to date just fine - we just did things that did not require a lot of money. Wraith, So if you go over to Fetlife.com and do a search on your area - Bothell, Seattle, etc. You will find a vibrant and quite active community. There are munches and events within a stones throw of where you live - almost 11,000 people on Fet from the greater Seattle area, 25 groups (including a TNG group), multiple events... For CM, you need to work on your profile. It needs to say more than "I'm submissive". You need to interest a female of the species. To do that, you need to be more than just your penis, your fetish, your desire. You need to be sane, interesting, engaging, confident and competent. Your initial posts show that you have all of these qualities, you just need to harness them. You need to know what you bring to a relationship, what you offer to a Lady. The fact that you are looking for long-term is good. It really isn't about money. It is about being someone that potential Ladies will want to get to know and engage with.
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