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MistressDarkArt -> RE: Just what is safer today? (4/6/2012 8:11:31 PM)
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Personally, I would use barriers for every activity involving an exchange of anything wet that isn't yours: pee, precum, ejaculate (male or female), blood and even saliva (no analingus without a barrier).
Your dom's problem w/condoms for oral sex is a cop-out, and he needs educating. Say, for instance, you are Hep B positive (many people are without their knowledge) and happened to have flossed too hard that day so there are trace amounts of blood in your mouth. Say, for instance, he happened to have picked up chlamydia and HPV from one of his various unprotected encounters last week and HIV from another. He may not know he has them yet. Oh, one of those women also gave him a UTI from the e-coli she got after licking his butt without a barrier, then sucking his unprotected cock. You two have unprotected oral. So your blood-borne Hep B goes up his chlamydia, HIV, HPV and e-coli-irritated urethral tissues and takes hold there. His chlamydia, e-coli, papilloma-laden precum and/or ejaculate settle nicely in the broken mucous membrane around your flossed gum, as well as down your throat, which is raw and tissue-compromised from a hacking cough from your allergies. Bing, bang, boom...two people, one unprotected encounter, 6 STIs exchanged, 3 of which can only be managed, NOT CURED, with medication.
Personally, I would not engage with a person that showed so little regard for protecting his partners and himself, and would take a pass altogether. But if you insist on proceeding I'd add: 'fine, no barriers, no oral or butt-licking for you, sparky. We can always just go to a movie.'
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