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How can l get a Man to take me home with him and turn m... - 4/8/2012 9:32:57 PM   
Girl2takehomenow


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Status: offline 		I can't find a good Man to take me home with him, lock all the doors and help me become his Girl-Sub for the weekend. Shave, wash, dry, dress me up in girls clothes, and teach me how to be a good little Girl-Sub. Then slowly he do as he pleases with me. Can anyone give me an idea on how to find the right MAN for the task at hand??? Thanks for your time Guys n Gals
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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/8/2012 11:07:40 PM   
antipode


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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/8/2012 11:10:55 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		How nice.  You join today and come to the boards begging for some stranger to take you home.  I can't imagine why you would have any trouble.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 1:11:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Girl2takehomenow

I can't find a good Man to take me home with him, lock all the doors and help me become his Girl-Sub for the weekend. Shave, wash, dry, dress me up in girls clothes, and teach me how to be a good little Girl-Sub. Then slowly he do as he pleases with me. Can anyone give me an idea on how to find the right MAN for the task at hand??? Thanks for your time Guys n Gals


Go into a biker bar, dressed provocatively and tell the guys what you like. Pretty sure somebody will be willing to accommodate, for your sake I hope he's not too drunk/drugged, out of control, crazy, unaware what he's doing and doesn't have any STDs....

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 3:03:46 AM   
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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 3:08:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Girl2takehomenow

I can't find a good Man to take me home with him, lock all the doors and help me become his Girl-Sub for the weekend. Shave, wash, dry, dress me up in girls clothes, and teach me how to be a good little Girl-Sub. Then slowly he do as he pleases with me. Can anyone give me an idea on how to find the right MAN for the task at hand??? Thanks for your time Guys n Gals


This sounds like...you are excited about all this and are very hungry to experience some of this RIGHT NOW. In other words, "sub frenzy".

Take a deep breath. You will get what you want eventually. If you don't know how to find BDSM munch groups then put a note in my mailbox here and I will look them up for you. Kinksters meet in restaurants once per month and take care not to scare the vanillas. After going to a few you'll be invited to play parties. Yay for play parties and for meeting other kinksters!

Just say in your profile what you said here, it spells out clearly what you are looking for. If you want a relationship instead of just a good time, maybe tell something about yourself, your hobbies or whatever.

Have patience, read a non-porn, non-fantasy BDSM book like SM101 by Jay Wiseman (I ordered mine from Ebay or Amazon.com). Protect yourself from STDs, negotiate before a scene and learn about safe calls. Have fun, and good luck with your search.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 3:29:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Girl2takehomenow

I can't find a good Man to take me home with him, lock all the doors and help me become his Girl-Sub for the weekend. Shave, wash, dry, dress me up in girls clothes, and teach me how to be a good little Girl-Sub. Then slowly he do as he pleases with me. Can anyone give me an idea on how to find the right MAN for the task at hand??? Thanks for your time Guys n Gals


Most men like their girls to not have a penis.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 3:34:51 AM   
Soyokaze


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Most men like their girls to not have a penis.


Balderdash! Seriously though, yea not having a penis and maybe trying to not break the ice with hey take me home with you would be a better approach.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 4:01:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: Girl2takehomenow

I can't find a good Man to take me home with him, lock all the doors and help me become his Girl-Sub for the weekend. Shave, wash, dry, dress me up in girls clothes, and teach me how to be a good little Girl-Sub. Then slowly he do as he pleases with me. Can anyone give me an idea on how to find the right MAN for the task at hand??? Thanks for your time Guys n Gals


Go into a biker bar, dressed provocatively and tell the guys what you like. Pretty sure somebody will be willing to accommodate, for your sake I hope he's not too drunk/drugged, out of control, crazy, unaware what he's doing and doesn't have any STDs....



I thought he said he wanted a man to take him home, not send him to the hospital.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 4:49:28 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Sweetie, you do realize most men don't have a clue how to dress you up in girls clothes, right? I mean, so that you actually look like a girl.

My man doesn't have a clue about how I style my hair, do my nails and makeup, or even what looks good on me on the hanger.

Once it's all done he can pass judgement, but he's just not interested in how I got there. He says, "wear something sexy," and I start to ask questions: "slutty sexy or elegant sexy?"

What you have in your mind is a fantasy based in part at least by sub frenzy. And although if life were porn you could get your fantasy fulfilled exactly how you want it, you need to face up to reality.

Say this over and over again: Life is not porn.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 6:25:47 AM   
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Life is not porn.



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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 9:24:18 AM   
Rochsub2009


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ORIGINAL: Girl2takehomenow

I can't find a good Man to take me home with him, lock all the doors and help me become his Girl-Sub for the weekend.


Ahhhh, now I get it. I just looked at your profile. You're a man. So I get why you're having a hard time.

When I first read your post, I thought you must be the ugliest woman on Earth. After all, most women have no problem finding men to have sex with. But now I understand the root of your difficulty.

Ummmm, good luck with that.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 12:02:06 PM   
Karmastic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia


quote:

ORIGINAL: Girl2takehomenow

I can't find a good Man to take me home with him, lock all the doors and help me become his Girl-Sub for the weekend. Shave, wash, dry, dress me up in girls clothes, and teach me how to be a good little Girl-Sub. Then slowly he do as he pleases with me. Can anyone give me an idea on how to find the right MAN for the task at hand??? Thanks for your time Guys n Gals


This sounds like...you are excited about all this and are very hungry to experience some of this RIGHT NOW. In other words, "sub frenzy".

Take a deep breath. You will get what you want eventually. If you don't know how to find BDSM munch groups then put a note in my mailbox here and I will look them up for you. Kinksters meet in restaurants once per month and take care not to scare the vanillas. After going to a few you'll be invited to play parties. Yay for play parties and for meeting other kinksters!

Just say in your profile what you said here, it spells out clearly what you are looking for. If you want a relationship instead of just a good time, maybe tell something about yourself, your hobbies or whatever.

Have patience, read a non-porn, non-fantasy BDSM book like SM101 by Jay Wiseman (I ordered mine from Ebay or Amazon.com). Protect yourself from STDs, negotiate before a scene and learn about safe calls. Have fun, and good luck with your search.


Great advice! She's in the right place.

To OP:
You can go the munch route, and get into the "official scene" to meet your needs.

You can also go what I'll ignorantly call the "vanilla route", and focus more on meeting a man for a relationship (assuming you don't just want one night stands). The first thing I learned is that meeting a kink partner is FIRST about the relationship, just like any other vanilla, THEN it's about the kink. Put up a profile here, with clear pictures of at least your body (face is good too if you're okay with that). Briefly describe yourself just like any other personal ad. And briefly describe what you want sexually. Treat it just like going into any other relationship, only with additional (early) knowledge about their sexual desires, and that you do compliment each others kink or bdsm needs.

This site is absolutely fantastic for all of the above. The site functions better than most paid sites, and there seems to be more real people here. And this other side, the board, is a magnificent resource loaded with many people who have been through this transformative experience. All this said, I have to agree with the advice I received from knowledgeable people here, that it's really best to go out and meet people in person. But this site is a great first step in doing that!

Good luck in your search!


PS - I just viewed your profile. Interesting picture, I guess kind of artistic. I strongly suggest you write up the profile as I suggested.

< Message edited by Karmastic -- 4/9/2012 12:12:08 PM >

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 12:45:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Sweetie, you do realize most men don't have a clue how to dress you up in girls clothes, right? I mean, so that you actually look like a girl.

My man doesn't have a clue about how I style my hair, do my nails and makeup, or even what looks good on me on the hanger.

Once it's all done he can pass judgement, but he's just not interested in how I got there. He says, "wear something sexy," and I start to ask questions: "slutty sexy or elegant sexy?"

What you have in your mind is a fantasy based in part at least by sub frenzy. And although if life were porn you could get your fantasy fulfilled exactly how you want it, you need to face up to reality.

Say this over and over again: Life is not porn.





^^This, I mean this whole quote right there. Sunny quotes and all that, this is what you need to hear!! That and the penis part said above.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 1:00:31 PM   
Pyramus


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Status: offline 		Now you tell me life isn't porn!

Had you told me sooner, I could have saved thousands on weekend Internet download overcharges in my misguided approach to get a submissive woman to go home with me so that I could turn her into my very own submissive sub girl for the weekend!

Alas. Porn is a poor ... but necessary ... substitute for life. Sigh.

EDIT:
As for the OP, who belatedly turns out to be a young six-foot tall gay submissive male in Australia, I am sure all you need to do is be willingly open with the right guy who's also gay (I think that's a key point) in addition to being Dominant over you.

Women aren't the same as men, so, you likely won't find the take-charge guy you want in 'regular' places (where 'regular' men reside). Given that, it seems to me gay hangouts would be a perfect place for you to start the balls rolling.

I know that if a woman (biological is a key point for me) came up to me with the same proposition you propose, I'd be all over it in a nanosecond! You just need to find a guy who feels the same about your proposition. Can't be all that hard to find, I would think.

< Message edited by Pyramus -- 4/9/2012 1:06:37 PM >

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 5:00:50 PM   
searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: Pyramus

Now you tell me life isn't porn!

Had you told me sooner, I could have saved thousands on weekend Internet download overcharges in my misguided approach to get a submissive woman to go home with me so that I could turn her into my very own submissive sub girl for the weekend!

Alas. Porn is a poor ... but necessary ... substitute for life. Sigh.

EDIT:
As for the OP, who belatedly turns out to be a young six-foot tall gay submissive male in Australia, I am sure all you need to do is be willingly open with the right guy who's also gay (I think that's a key point) in addition to being Dominant over you.

Women aren't the same as men, so, you likely won't find the take-charge guy you want in 'regular' places (where 'regular' men reside). Given that, it seems to me gay hangouts would be a perfect place for you to start the balls rolling.

I know that if a woman (biological is a key point for me) came up to me with the same proposition you propose, I'd be all over it in a nanosecond! You just need to find a guy who feels the same about your proposition. Can't be all that hard to find, I would think.



I would think he would be better off with a bi-guy rather than a gay guy. Don't most gay men want their partners to remain men rather than transform them into "women"?

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 10:05:42 PM   
graceadieu


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I would think he would be better off with a bi-guy rather than a gay guy. Don't most gay men want their partners to remain men rather than transform them into "women"?


It sounds like he just wants to be "made" to wear women's clothing for a weekend. While I've heard that's mostly a straight guy fetish, I'm sure there are some gay guys would be into it, or at least willing to indulge him.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/9/2012 11:58:26 PM   
pompeii


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Don't most gay men want their partners to remain men rather than transform them into "women"?


I always wondered about that.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/10/2012 3:41:58 AM   
WestBaySlave


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Status: offline 		To the OP - men who want this type of play are definitely around. I'd strongly recommend expanding your search and also join Recon, which has more men specifically than here.

quote:

ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

I would think he would be better off with a bi-guy rather than a gay guy. Don't most gay men want their partners to remain men rather than transform them into "women"?


A lot of this is cultural. In Europe and North America the BDSM scene has its roots in the Leather subculture, and there is a very strong push on "butch" looks and attitudes in the gay BDSM world, and those into androgyny or transvestite looks a small minority. I found in the Middle East, however, a huge portion of dominant gay men were seeking transvestites. I'd wager almost half who were advertising.

Still, you're not wrong about bi men. I have my default setting on the other side for gay an bi dominants and I'm often seeing ads by bi guys who want women or men on a scale anywhere from effeminate through transvestite to those open to transwomen in transition.

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RE: How can l get a Man to take me home with him and tu... - 4/10/2012 4:15:59 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Nice perspective.

I could be wrong, but I don't think the OP sees himself as gay or even bi. He seems to have more of a fantasy of a girl trapped in a man's body who needs help getting out.

Finding a good person to do this for him will not be easy. Most especially since it seems fantasy/porn based.

I'm sure you know from personal experience how tough it is to go from an intellectual understanding of who you are, to an *actual* understanding you can act on.

Just my POV, but I don't think the OP is there yet.

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