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RE: Would you be flexible??? - 4/17/2012 2:42:48 AM

FrankAr

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Greetings,

Like others already..honesty. Another would be that the word...no...will never be in her vocabulary. Why would a person place another into a position of having to say...no.

Be well.

Frank Ar.

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RE: Would you be flexible??? - 4/17/2012 4:33:15 AM

kalikshama

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Like others, my non-negotiable list has more to do with her being a healthy human than being some nebulous sub/slave thingamabob.

Shall we define "healthy human being?" I'll start with:

- No harmful addictions (the "harmful" qualifier due to a poster finding her BDSM to be addictive although healthy.)

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RE: Would you be flexible??? - 8/5/2012 11:58:00 AM

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Trust honesty and some common sense . If I work late then don't think i am seeing someone other than the kid at the check out counter .

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RE: Would you be flexible??? - 8/5/2012 12:11:42 PM

SpaceSpank

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Honesty, ability to openly communicate, and a smattering of patience for important things.

Those are overall character traits I cannot do without. If any of them are missing then it just won't work. If they lie to themselves or me, are unable to talk to me about anything, or are so impatient with anything that is not instant... then it's going to crash and burn shortly after take off, assuming it even made it off the ground.

More general personality traits?
Kindness, humor, and at least detectable levels of common sense.

For kink? Just the willingness to try things and be open minded. I don't think there is any one kink I couldn't live without, but it would be a problem if she hated almost everything and was unwilling to experiment with anything new.

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