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xXLithiumXx -> RE: What Bugs You Re: Dommes & What Do You Like? (5/7/2012 12:37:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
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OK, I'll be serious, now:
Egos. Women with big, brittle, silly egos. See, men know all about egos, because they've been tangling with them for all their lives. The best of men are aware that they're egotistical and have learned how to deal with the way they are. They've learned how to bend and flex with them. But . . . women so often haven't learned that. It's as though they've just started to learn about pride, machismo, braggadocio, aggression, etc, etc, etc . . . in their late twenties or their thirties. Certain of we men look at women like that and see them talking and acting like we used to when we were fourteen or fifteen. It's *really* hard to deal with. The times I've thought, "OK. You want to win this one. Fine, consider yourself as having won it. That sort of fight I don't do now, because I feel old and tired and I can't see the point anymore". Dommes *really* do not have to try to match men at what men do, much less beat them at it. It's an utter waste of energy and does neither side any good.
I'm not sure if all that made sense, even to myself. ;-) Just saying.
That's a solid statement, and kind of leads into what I have been thinking all along....
Women do not need to be ball busting, hateful, egotistical bitches to be dominant. You can walk into a room, graceful and easy and have all of the mannerisms of Emily Post dressed in a flowered hat and exert the kind of dominance that is what I would consider picture perfect over the whole room. You don't have to come in comparing dick size with the lot of them.
I think I am very old fashioned in that regard...even if a man is submissive, he is still a man, and should be treated as such.
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