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DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Sensitive penis (5/4/2012 7:32:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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Lol....sorry it needed to be repeated......

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Sensitive penis (5/4/2012 8:01:58 PM)


OK...mistrust or not it bears repeating...

can you say std....

...all it takes is one mistake and you may be stuck with it for life or until the end of your life. I took sex education very seriously when I was a young one, and still do. I believe them. Something like you describe is something that need a doctors ok before you get jiggy with it.

What can I say the truth hurts sometimes.

What if it is "phimosis" like HomeQueen, ChatteParfaitt, and littlewonder suggest. That is real life stories of something similiar to what you said is going going on with your guy. Maybe your guy doesn't know this is a possibiliy. That is the problem with denial and maybe even an attempt at self medicating.

If he has the same feelings for you wouldn't it be worth it to him to go to the doctor and see the problem through whatever it may be. Even if it takes some healing time. Your new man will in this case be a new man with a healthy penis that you both will be able to enjoy to it's fullest, and not just be touch and go.

You may choose to ignore this very good advice given to you in this thread. Or choose to take your man by the balls and get him to the doctor to get the green light for your peace of mind. He may even respect you more for it. May even be very grateful you helped him. If he get's mad and break it off there may be underlying problems to that.

Don't play russian roulettes with your assets among other things because you are scared of his response. Love make you do some stupid things don't let your health pay for it.

Know your worth...if you don't find it. Many people have died from aids because they trusted someone not worthy of their trust.

I am just saying....




tsuta -> RE: Sensitive penis (5/4/2012 8:58:23 PM)

Alright it's kinda pointless to continue this thread for now, since i don't have a lot of details and this lack of knowledge is making people imagine the worst...
i might give updates on this in a few weeks after i'll have talked to him in person when i see him i think next weekend.

Honestly i really don't think it's anything more worrying than him having a sensitive head and just not doing much about it because he hasn't been with many people sexually.
From what i read on forums about this topic, many uncut guys have this problem and they get over this by various "training" methods to desensitive their glans. maybe he just didn't know he could do that, so he just kept masturbating over his foreskin. Also, he said with lube he's okay, so i guess when he had sex he used lubed condoms and was fine (just guessing here, i guess i'll have to ask him about that) ... as for the "extreme" reaction he got when i licked him, well there was the event of the Mistress sucking him not very gently, maybe he has this trigger now that he gotta get over (he DID tell me he wanted to try it out with flavored lube tho, people)

So yeah, more on this later maybe.




ConnossuerofPain -> RE: Sensitive penis (5/6/2012 7:19:21 AM)

I can relate to this particular issue. I busted up my back really good 3 years ago and did considerable amount of nerve damage. Sometimes it's like superman or the energizer bunny but no bang for the buck or it is super sensitive to where it hurts(alot of other side effects too). On the super sensitive days i will put on several condoms at once to minimize the issue, or just turn her down.

Having been through this there is no precise diagnosis for this as the nerve bundle can not be specifically narrowed down(unless your a multi-millionaire)they can try nerve blocks, radio-obliteration, nerve stims, etc..been there done them-lol.




Aswad -> RE: Sensitive penis (5/14/2012 9:05:00 PM)

~fr~

Xylocaine, 3% solution.

Apply for a minute the first time, then rinse thoroughly. If that's not sufficient, increase by a minute at a time. Beyond fifteen minutes, there's negligible increase in numbing action. This is the simplest OTC way to relieve the symptom. It won't do anything about the cause (and there is one, whatever it is), but it will permit you to have at it. Just make sure you don't leave it on for long enough to make him insensitive to stimulation. This is a fairly common thing to use when one needs to "last" longer, as well, since the reduced stimulation effectively means it will take longer to climax as well. Hence, making sure you find the right amount of time to let it work.

And whatever you do, remember to rinse the damn thing off.

Else, it'll numb whatever end he's hammering.

Apart from that, try using the underside of your tongue, and maybe some vaseline or the like applied to the lips if you intend to use them on his glans. Assuming his foreskin retracts easily, you may want to rest your lips on that, as it's pretty easy to slide it up and down (mimicks the movement that AFAIK is the most common way for us uncut folk to masturbate, since the foreskin buffers the sensitive glans). Indeed, if it does retract easily, then it may be a pleasant activity in and of itself. I know I like it, at least. And, of course, there's nothing wrong with not retracting it if he's too sensitive or it doesn't retract easily (e.g. phimosis, as mentioned). A tongue applied "through" the foreskin is also quite pleasant.

That's the upside to an uncut dick: the increased sensitivity gives you new options. The downside being you can't handle it quite as roughly unless he's hot enough for the discomfort to be readily ignored (e.g. I like dry anal, but I won't pretend it's all pleasure). It being the case that he's oversensitive doesn't necessarily change that. Play around with it. Find out what works and what doesn't. The top side of a tongue is actually quite rough, which is why it's so perfectly suited to cleaning (one of the things mammals use a tongue for). If you've got your gag reflex under control, consider that the tissues further back in the mouth are less textured and may be more lubricated.

Best of luck, in any case.

IWYW,
- Aswad.





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