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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 5:59:01 AM   
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Constant Stance,
I think you pick and choose the arguments you take on. For instance, I think you've consistently avoided my whole complaint about your ad hominem reasoning that you initially hurled at me.

And you consistently belittle my perspective based on some idea that you have more experience. I've seen no evidence of any experience you have regarding the dynamics of BDSM pick-ups and the rights or wrongs of deceptive behaviour before people have agreed to a relationship, which was after all, pretty much what my post was about, which itself was just a casual drop-in of an experiment i heard about that seemed vaguely relevant.

And just above these posts you say this: "you keep on mentioning some ethics experiment, yet you fail to provide a link with "Oh it was denied due to the ethics so it never happens, no documentation available" - let me point out that is is not how academia works."

firstly, it was not an "ethics experiment" .. go back and re-read

As to the rest, all I can say is that this was how this example of academia did work. I heard about the experiment from one of the people who was to have been one of the confederates (actors). She'd wanted it to go ahead. The ethics committee said no. Since she was not the original experimenter she was not privy to the details of the ethics decision, which in any case would have been a private matter between experimenter and committee which I could hardly have detailed more thoroughly here. So what's missing here ? Do you want the tapes from the bugged committee meeting ? Do you want the experimenter's proposal, because that won't be referenced anywhere since he'd rather pretend it didn't happen now and so would hardly have written it up sor public discussion ? Do you want a handwritten note from the actor who told me about it ? What part of this is not like real academia ? Why would i spill any details here if i had them ? Would I trust you with them ? Would i break the informal confidence of the actor who told me about the experiment ? Which part of this is not academia as you know it ?

A cynic would assume you're fishing for what you know are inappropriate details or trying to find out more about me .. more details you might use for further crude dismissive ad hominem attacks on me ??

so please explain how it is you're not bluffing here .. your turn .. go on .. How is what i've said about this experiment I've explained somehow not academia as you know it ? Do you think I'm lying ? What's the deal ? What more could i have sensibly and safely contributed to an anonymous but public discussion like this ?? What's wrong with my casually mentioning this experiment which seemed somewhat relevant ?

Go on, put up !! No trivialising dismissal that you didn't read everything i said all of a sudden, or that you're tired .. explain yourself !! How is my contribution wrong ? Where would I find a link ? How should academia work better ? Tell me and i'll pass on your concerns to a mate on the university council in that city .. go on, details, not vague dismissals, no more "I know best, so just believe me or else i'll beat you up behind the bike sheds for not automatically accepting my natural superiority !" stuff.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:00:56 AM   
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pressing ignore, what a cop out

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:04:38 AM   
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Years ago, I actually created a fake domme profile with every single red flag I could think of on it. It was still getting mail even after I hadn't logged in for 6 months.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:20:19 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JDee

Years ago, I actually created a fake domme profile with every single red flag I could think of on it. It was still getting mail even after I hadn't logged in for 6 months.



That's interesting. Would you mind detailing those 'red flags'?

A fake domme profile that I'd like to try would contain all the usual (you owe me tributes because I'm a Goddess with a *really* big capital 'G' and you males are all worthless scumly worms etc.) - but using the most shockingly hideous pictures I can find. (Actually, myself in a bad wig and make up that looks as though it was shovelled on from a bucket. Plus some photoshopped hairy warts and livid carbuncles. And strong hints that I have a chronic and deeply unmentionable bowel complaint.)

I wouldn't mind betting that such a fake domme profile would *still* trawl in lots of eager applicants. Let's face it: there are millions of men out there with the taste and discrimination of half-starved warthogs.



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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:25:16 AM   
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There are no pictures of me on my profile, good or bad. I still get mail from strangers. All you need to do is check the box that says FEMALE.

And Darling. Warthogs are fine animals. Hagfish, now, there's a creature with no discernment.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:28:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


quote:

ORIGINAL: JDee

Years ago, I actually created a fake domme profile with every single red flag I could think of on it. It was still getting mail even after I hadn't logged in for 6 months.



That's interesting. Would you mind detailing those 'red flags'?

A fake domme profile that I'd like to try would contain all the usual (you owe me tributes because I'm a Goddess with a *really* big capital 'G' and you males are all worthless scumly worms etc.) - but using the most shockingly hideous pictures I can find. (Actually, myself in a bad wig and make up that looks as though it was shovelled on from a bucket. Plus some photoshopped hairy warts and livid carbuncles. And strong hints that I have a chronic and deeply unmentionable bowel complaint.)

I wouldn't mind betting that such a fake domme profile would *still* trawl in lots of eager applicants. Let's face it: there are millions of men out there with the taste and discrimination of half-starved warthogs.




Just the kind of things that you referred to as "the usual". There was no photo.

< Message edited by JDee -- 8/10/2012 7:02:08 AM >

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:32:54 AM   
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I've always thought that the supply of female dominants and the much greater demand from male subs created this serious bargaining power imbalance. I've certainly met some irrational illogical would-be dommes online and my impression is that these are women out there who choose this lifestyle role because they enjoy always being right. Some of these women struck me as people who in the regular vanilla world would have been the ones who often lost arguments and bullied other people and were generally abrasive, so here was a role where they could finally get away with throwing their weight around.

I sure hope and assume they are in the minority, and I'd always end up calling their bluff in online discussions, usually provoking tantrums .. but then i'd always worry that my winding them up might have contributed to some powerless guy getting beaten up badly. I did find some of these women so nastily angry.

Of course I've met and chatted with numerous adventurous outgoing sensitive and beautifully nerved women over the years who've helped me get in touch with more of my feelings and me their light and darker sides.

It is a trap for me to respond to domineering people by treating them like they try and treat me, giving them a taste of their own medicine. My attraction to sane and smart dominant women is probably some sort of therapy for some of the awful crude domineering bullies i have come across, some of whom are unfortunately brutish bitter women hiding in this recently fashionable female dominant role.

Ad hominem attacks are the tactics of a dirty fighter.. I find they're a great early warning system about those few very destructive people out there, a useful red flag + hard limit.

I don't know much about Constant Stance Lady (?), but based on our exchange, I expect her ignorance of me will continue even while I'm relieved of her attention.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:35:57 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

There are no pictures of me on my profile, good or bad. I still get mail from strangers. All you need to do is check the box that says FEMALE.

And Darling. Warthogs are fine animals. Hagfish, now, there's a creature with no discernment.


A friend of mine made the same experiment because he thought women just make up the email flood, because he said in years of being on CM he only got very few unsolicited messages. He had no picture and no text and within 30 seconds he already had several messages and a few shots of cocks and gaping orifices, within days he had hundreds of messages... The poor guy was profoundly disturbed and kept on muttering "what the eye has seen can not be unseen..."

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:37:12 AM   
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That 'hover' feature with the mail is brilliant!

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:39:29 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

That 'hover' feature with the mail is brilliant!



Hell yes, I delete at least 5 messages every day just with the hover feature

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 6:59:19 AM   
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where can i read about features such as "hover" and blocking ?
I had no idea the "in response to such'n'such" was taken seriously or understood differently by different people .. it just seemed a slightly poorly or ambiguously implemented feature, and now it seems to me that fast reply and post reply could be the other way around .. it seems much easier to move back and forward over the thread with the static message reply field that's part of the same web page too.

Thank you for pointing out the problem and the basis of the initial misunderstanding early on Lady Hibiscus, and sorry I kind'a brushed it aside when you first mentioned it.
But yeah, where is the help page please for features like "hover" (whatever that is) ? ? Is it in the FAQ somewhere ?

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 7:02:55 AM   
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oh Lady Hibiscus,
No pictures of you, but it's always seemed a very pretty cartoon image you have with your profile.
It shouldn't have any effect, but it does ! It is a very pretty suggestion the image makes.
Just saying.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 7:04:40 AM   
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In the lower left of a post, underneath the poter's name, there's a 'hide' button. Click, et voila! The post is hidden.

On the collarme side, you can hover over an EMAIL with your mouse and get a preview of the post.

Then there's the skillset that allows you to choose to not engage posters for any reason at all. We're not in the same space, and you're not required to respond to a post. Ever! Even if you're directly addressed. It's truly wonderful.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 7:26:30 AM   
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General reply.

I don't put much stock into anything that is online only. Online chats, etc don't have all that much to do with BDSM experience. Anybody who believes it does needs to find themselves one of those online 'masters' and put an honest to God whip in their hand. If you're dumb enough to do that, thinking online is the same thing as real experience, you get what you deserve.

It seems to Me that this thread started to show, once again, just how pathetically people can behave when they see a female profile on the internet. It took less than 24 hours for some schmuck to buy something off of an Amazon wish list to send it to someone they don't even know. It's not the first time the members of this forum have been able to do this and it certainly won't be the last. Hide behind the screen all you want. Just don't be surprised when you see over and over again, those other folks in the same category of fantasists do the dumbest things.

And when those of us with real world experience don't see the dungeons and dragons online crap as the same thing? Well, it sucks to be you.



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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 8:17:47 AM   
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It's a true fact that my MEMORIES are better than most people's fantasies. But that's okay, you really did have to be there.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 8:33:20 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

...

And when those of us with real world experience don't see the dungeons and dragons online crap as the same thing? Well, it sucks to be you.




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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/10/2012 8:38:38 AM   
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Otters, I knew it, you are DavidUK (or whatever his name was) the one who was surprised that a pro sub wouldn't be automatically submissive to him and made demands where they meet and wanted to meet in a public place first, so he decided she was a fake and we're all fakes because we don't play by D&D rules... He and Kevin should have been a match made in heaven...

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/11/2012 2:34:33 PM   
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quote:

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pressing ignore, what a cop out



well it was just a guess, it's also possible that you were lying through your teeth when you said it. Sorry for giving you the benefit of the doubt.

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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/11/2012 4:58:43 PM   
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quote:

she wrote about how she assumed my initial post was some sort of attack on her


If you are going to say something as provocative as "you're sure-as-hell looking like one of the bad women" you ought to make damn clear who you are addressing and not use fast response.




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RE: 24 Hours as a Fake Domme - 8/11/2012 5:02:06 PM   
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Kali, if you use Fast Reply, you reply to the last post that was made... Not about 100 posts later a direct reply... In that case you have to click directly "Reply to"...

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