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ORIGINAL: Ilayda
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On a related note, now that I'm upfront about it, it's usually submissive males who call me "fake" or "a scam" or the like. With the pretentious profile, it was usually dominant women.

Probably just coincidences, but interesting nonetheless.

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

Here, let me add some visuals for you.

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ORIGINAL: subbyinlosangele
File this under: Who gives a fuck?

If you get arrogant email, block the sender.

If you don't like financial domme profiles, don't look at them.

If you don't like how collarme does things, leave and start you own site.

Don't appoint yourself of "the next generation of lifestylers" -- a lot of those dommes don't give a fuck about "the lifestyle" and the rest of future lifestylers will do fine without you.

So bottom line: quick being a pretentious bore.

NBMG

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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

I prefer not to contribute to the uselessness of board ranting.

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ORIGINAL: PrincessLily91

I strongly disagree.

For starters, you assume that financial dommes are all one dimensional with one audience or niche. That would be like saying someone who ballbusts for example, has no other domme interests. I enjoy financial domination for both the control and of course for the material rewards. But if the guy is a dickhead, I could give a shit about his money. I won't play with him. In your case...if you come on pretending to be a sub...try and make me chase a carrot I can't get...that just makes you not a true sub. You came on and DECEIVED me, telling me you are a sub and want me to control you. I try to take the role and you lie and lead me on and then consider yourself in control? That is simply disrespectful to my time. I don't feel less like a domme, but you seem more like a timewasting jerk.

Some guys really enjoy the feeling of giving in thier finances toa girl they "can't" resist. It's like being a sugardaddy, but with a submissive twist. Maybe it's roleplay. Maybe it's real. But the fact is, it shouldn't matter to you. If you don't enjoy it...then just don't talk to me. Why harass or try and top me? Some people like to be tied up. Some people like to be hit. Some people like to be shit on. And some people like to surrender authority of thier money , THE KEY TO THIER ABILITY TO LIVE DAY TO DAY, over to someone more dominant/attractive then they are. That is a lot of power to hand someone and a lot of implied trust. I think that is a very strong form of domination and submission, contrary to what you say.

Are there greedy girls with no actual interest in what drives the D/s finncial relationship? sure there are. There is always someone trying to cash in on something they don't understand. But that doesn't mean all findommes are fake shallow sluts or crafty middle aged men. If done right, it can be very real and rewarding for both parties I think.

On a sperate note though, if some decent respectful sub wants to give me something with no effort on my part...why would I say no? I won't understand it, but I won't say no either. I am still a girl and I like gifts, haha. :)

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But just like two days ago, some guy I had NEVER spoken to, was spamming all active users online that I was fake and to report me. Several people did! A few heard me out, i sent proof pics, and they agreed the guy was a moron, but still...how many might have reported me that day? I confronted him after someone gave me his name, and he told me to get off the site, it doesn't need fakes like me. I sent him a pic and asked him to stop. He replied saying I was really good with photshop "dude", good luck with the next fake profile. Then I got pissed and sent him a link to my clip and was like "did I photoshop myself into this ballbusting clip too?" and he blocked me. I have no idea how many people he got to report me and no way to defend against it. I just have to take it and that really sucks. :(

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I posted in another forum asking for advice on how to do something...and instead of giving me advice, I was mocked for trying to do something I don't know how to do yet and told I need to learn to be a "real domme". Which was the whole point of me asking the question in the first place...to learn. I don't get these people.