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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 8:14:18 AM

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Better? :)

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 8:26:38 AM

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Not to me. You are an extremely attractive young lady. Why fuck that up with the duck lips?

JMO, YMMV

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 8:37:53 AM

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Agreed. I think you should upload a picture where you're either looking fierce or smiling and lose the outdated internet trends. ;)

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 8:54:59 AM

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Better? :)

Smile! You are a pretty woman........quit making yourself look otherwise.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 10:21:59 AM

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How would you prove a fake, seems every online finanical domme gets called a fake.

If you dont understand something either dont comment or go learn about it. I have recieved death threats and all sorts of losers who dont understand what financial domination is. Fair enough if its not your fetish but dont tell other people they are wrong etc I actually think its 'light hearted' than many of the other things.

How would you feel about a male financial domme?

To those who say that online dommes are fake or wannabes etc, I guess it depends which way you look at it. I read an article a while ago and it bascially summed up how I feel about the whole thing. Being a real life domme for many online dommes would feel like they were being submissive just by having to meet with the people. There are many submissives who do not want to meet in real life or even show their faces due to many reasons. There is a market for everything.
Do what feels right for you whichever you are.

There are fakes in real life, not just the internet.

A 'real' dom/me does not care what random internet people think.

I dont care, I just know/ like to be right

Edit- Actually part of my Queen side does care, it is in her interest for people to understand, enemies dont understand and misunderstandings breed enemies. The sensible option is to not create enemies but know how to deal with them when there is no other option. When you are busy it doesnt matter, but when you are relaxing and come across things and can add things that may make people see things from a different point of view...

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 10:35:52 AM

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Better? :)

I think you look great

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 11:56:26 AM

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A lot better than the L sign you had first. But a smiling pic would look good as well. Let Me glance at your profile again...

ETA: The one with you smiling is perfect. There is another girl in it though, maybe you could crop her out, unless she knows her pic is on a BDSM site. But that one would be perfect. Great smile.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/1/2012 12:16:55 PM

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How would you prove a fake, seems every online finanical domme gets called a fake.

If you dont understand something either dont comment or go learn about it. I have recieved death threats and all sorts of losers who dont understand what financial domination is. Fair enough if its not your fetish but dont tell other people they are wrong etc I actually think its 'light hearted' than many of the other things.

How would you feel about a male financial domme?

To those who say that online dommes are fake or wannabes etc, I guess it depends which way you look at it. I read an article a while ago and it bascially summed up how I feel about the whole thing. Being a real life domme for many online dommes would feel like they were being submissive just by having to meet with the people. There are many submissives who do not want to meet in real life or even show their faces due to many reasons. There is a market for everything.
Do what feels right for you whichever you are.

There are fakes in real life, not just the internet.

A 'real' dom/me does not care what random internet people think.

tru dat

re duck lips - it's very nice of them to give you all the advice, they are good folks. but meh, just post the pics you want, that best represent you. have to admit, ducklips made me curious, and i took a peek at her profile. at first i thought kinda immature lamish, but transitioned to thinking it was goofy cute. i like that cus i'm weird and not sub, but what sub is gonna take that seriously, esp at her age. meh, i don't know shit, that's just my 1 cent.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/2/2012 7:34:16 AM

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TxSeekers, in answer to your question, firstly vast majority of these young financial dommes are fake. Many absolutely are NOT who, nor what they portray. Many others are with no experience nor clue as to the realms of domination and power exchange; they simply seek a easy score financially. Therefore in answer to your question, majority would not even make it to the 'challenge' stage you speak and as such, face to face encounter is remote.

For those very few that are truly sincere regarding combination of financial and domination, i suspect from that rare minority most would hold their ground. I say that because they had the sincerity, integrity and conviction to progress that far and thus likely with some experience or knowledge. In doing so it creates so She would have the respect of the sub. What would be logic or purpose of a sub or slave to progress to that point only to challenge or to top from the bottom. That would make him more of an ass than a slave or submissive.

There is equally a plenitude of fake, arrogant, clueless, wanking, time wasting males professing to be generous or submissive. These two groups are made for each other. The rest of us know what we seek and recognize it when we discover it. Thus my philosophy... live and let live... each to their own. My pet peeve is with the fakes that post other persons photos, but that is another topic.

I do not think it is a matter of values to be instilled. I believe many see it for what it is and perchance if too naive, once burned a few times it serves as a effective learning/awareness process. There are fakes, wannabes, losers and scammers in all aspects of mainstream. Why would it be any different online and with anonymity just because it is non-vanilla. The fact it is online conveys to keep ones guard up, listen to inner voice, gut instinct and to question. In doing that there is little reason to be agitated about this demographic group.

CM is with no interest in the logistics of screening beyond current parameters. Thus... buyer beware!

If you are not pushing the envelope... you are not pushing hard enough!

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/2/2012 12:13:54 PM

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Yea.......the OP left a long time ago.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/2/2012 5:37:28 PM

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In event the OP poster does not bounce back to view the thread, I shall comment on the other two aspects percolating in my thoughts.

Princess Lily, I may be a old fart in comparison and a generation apart but as slave and submissive i just wish to echo two things.

In my humble, honest opinion the loser symbol in Your profile photo should be reconsidered and replaced. Original reaction as sub and slave in viewing it was 'sheesh it's not me that's the loser!' I say that respectfully and am simply echoing my first reaction. Flashing the 'L' symbol and flipping the bird photos is passe, especially with Young Dommes and with the moniker 'Princess' typically it does not convey any hint of dominance to me. If anything it raises a cautionary flag. I assume some other subs and slaves are with similar reaction. You are with a natural beauty and absolutely a natural photo would be with more effective first impression.

Very impressive Your commentary. You portray and handle Yourself most aptly. Princess Lily You shall do well on CM and I believe in Your quest and in life. You reflect astuteness, openness, honesty and integrity. Kudos!

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 6/13/2014 9:23:08 AM

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Does a financial domme require that I go into chastity, too! ChewBear Burbank, Ca.

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ladyxiann - 6/13/2014 9:24:49 AM

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Since you are from Brazil, do you require your slaveboys to run along the beach...pulling you as lounge and relax?

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RE: ladyxiann - 6/13/2014 9:26:06 AM

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How long have you been dominate?

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RE: ladyxiann - 6/13/2014 9:48:42 AM

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Hi, ChewBear. Welcome to the forums.

Please note that TNDommeK made a comment about how the OP (original poster) had left the thread a long time ago. her comment is two years old.

It's unclear who you were intending to address. I see nobody from Brazil in the thread.

Financial Dommes do as they and their clients work out. if it's chastity, so be it. There's no requirement.

The idea of a Domme having her slaves supporting her on the beach on a litter... cool fantasy,. But life usually requires attention, not just fantasies.

No point asking someone in a public forum how long they've been DominaNT. That's the kind of think you'd ask in a private conversation.

Welcome again.

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