cum control.....is it healthy?

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

cum control.....is it healthy?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Health and Safety >> cum control.....is it healthy?

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/6/2006 6:44:31 PM

littlemissub

Posts: 118
Joined: 5/4/2006
Status: offline

Ok, So I was reading someone's post in another forum when I first became introduced to cum control. I honestly didn't even know it existed. It is something I might like to try but I had some concerns. I read the old forums but didn't find anything mentioned on my particular question.

The question being:

If you are trained to cum on command from one person and one person only, could this have some long-term effects on your body, ie not being able to cum with different partners say if your current situation ends. It has very much to do with mental control so I was wondering what sorts of issues this could cause and if anyone has ever experienced these problems. if so, how did you reverse it?

_____________________________

~littlemissy~

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/6/2006 7:13:59 PM

Lordandmaster

Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline

Yes. We've discussed this before; try searching some of the "cumming on command" threads. LA and proudsub are better at finding old threads than I am. Let's hope they come on this thread and give you some links.

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlemissub

If you are trained to cum on command from one person and one person only, could this have some long-term effects on your body, ie not being able to cum with different partners say if your current situation ends.

(in reply to littlemissub)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/6/2006 7:16:02 PM

littlemissub

Posts: 118
Joined: 5/4/2006
Status: offline

well i didn't find this particular discuss in the link that LA had given someone else on the subject but I will look again, thanks.

_____________________________

~littlemissy~

(in reply to Lordandmaster)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/6/2006 7:25:28 PM

Lordandmaster

Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline

Well, here are a couple of things I wrote:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_114274/mpage_1/tm.htm#114619

http://www.collarchat.com/m_167541/mpage_1/tm.htm#167634

(in reply to littlemissub)

Profile

Post #: 4

RE: cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/6/2006 7:30:17 PM

littlemissub

Posts: 118
Joined: 5/4/2006
Status: offline

thank you very much, I will check into those.

_____________________________

~littlemissy~

(in reply to Lordandmaster)

Profile

Post #: 5

RE: cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/7/2006 3:41:09 AM

mew

Posts: 24
Joined: 11/6/2005
Status: offline

I have been trained to cum on command by 2 Masters in the past, at different times in my life.
It takes a lot of mental control on your part to detach from that Master when you go your seperate ways.    It can be very hard when your a slave, ( as I am) and suddenly find yourself single, to detach completely.   Once you do, there shouldn't be any problem having an orgasm, ( my opinion only from my experiences).
When I met second Master, I had to totally give myself to him before I could cum on command for him.   It didn't happen right away, it took time.

I would also like to mention, that for me personally, cumming on command is more of a mental or emotional ( not sure which) orgasm, rather then a pure physical one.   It doesn't feel the same as a "normal" orgasm with stimulation.

I believe that you can move on with another Master, or without for that matter, and still orgasm normally or on command, but as I said, it takes A LOT of mental detachment and control on your part to do that.

Since I have been celebate for 5 yrs, I am kind of out of the loop on this these days, but take what you want and leave the rest.
Hope this helps some.

~mew~

(in reply to littlemissub)

Profile

Post #: 6

RE: cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/7/2006 7:16:53 AM

LuckyAlbatross

Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline

Anything that you condition in yourself can be re-conditioned- it's pretty much exactly the same process as well.

As well, conditioning without reinforcement loses its hold over time naturally.

Thanks for the links LAM.

_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to littlemissub)

Profile

Post #: 7

RE: cum control.....is it healthy? - 6/8/2006 8:40:55 AM

NyxNymph

Posts: 43
Joined: 4/6/2006
Status: offline

I agree entirely with mew.. I think it is more of a mental/emotional orgasm at that point and if that's the type of orgasm, it shouldn't interfere with normal "physical" orgasm

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)

Profile

Post #: 8