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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Bah, I keep getting a Kana in Hawaii whose picture is decidedly not of you!

haha....uh, yeah, that one's not me. His is of my breasts with a bunch of needles in it. He's quite proud of his handiwork. lol

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


While we're on the subject of impressions, same goes for the ubiquitous toy-layout on hideous bedspread (especially insertables). Guy thinks 'look at all my stuff, doesn't that just make you a puddle of goo?' Woman thinks, 'Gross! How many people has he stuck those into and does he know how to properly sanitize that stuff? Next!!!'

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt


While we're on the subject of impressions, same goes for the ubiquitous toy-layout on hideous bedspread (especially insertables).

It also makes me think that play sessions are the most important thing to him.

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when it comes to people and data I have the memory of a London cabbie. It's served me well.

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ORIGINAL: femslut4u

What on earth makes so many Male Doms think that a profile picture of a female submissive is going to be of interest to a prospective female sub?

Even worse there are countless Male Dom profiles where this is the ONLY picture on the profile, or the main profile pic.

I can understand a picture of the Dom WITH a female sub, or an extra picture portraying a specific kink or fetish as an adjunct to your own head or body shots, but putting a solitary female up as the thumbnail for your profile seems just as out of touch as the guys who think a girl is going to be impressed by naked lady decals or mud flaps on their car.

Mind you, I'm voraciously bi and LOVE the female form, but that form has virtually no place as the primary picture on a straight male profile. Save the hot sexy female pics for your dorm room walls and computer wallpaper boys.

How many female submissive profiles do you see with a shirtless picture of Brad Pitt as the profile pic? Heck, how many with a picture of any solitary male figure other than perhaps their Owner if the woman in question happens to be attached.

If you want to come across as a MAN and attract real life women, we expect to see YOU as the primary profile picture, not your favorite female stroke inspiring ideal. :)

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ORIGINAL: AVegasMaster

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ORIGINAL: femslut4u

What on earth makes so many Male Doms think that a profile picture of a female submissive is going to be of interest to a prospective female sub?

Even worse there are countless Male Dom profiles where this is the ONLY picture on the profile, or the main profile pic.

I can understand a picture of the Dom WITH a female sub, or an extra picture portraying a specific kink or fetish as an adjunct to your own head or body shots, but putting a solitary female up as the thumbnail for your profile seems just as out of touch as the guys who think a girl is going to be impressed by naked lady decals or mud flaps on their car.

Mind you, I'm voraciously bi and LOVE the female form, but that form has virtually no place as the primary picture on a straight male profile. Save the hot sexy female pics for your dorm room walls and computer wallpaper boys.

How many female submissive profiles do you see with a shirtless picture of Brad Pitt as the profile pic? Heck, how many with a picture of any solitary male figure other than perhaps their Owner if the woman in question happens to be attached.

If you want to come across as a MAN and attract real life women, we expect to see YOU as the primary profile picture, not your favorite female stroke inspiring ideal. :)

I'm not sure what your problem is. I see most Dommes post photos of their subs. Why is that OK, and a DOM posting photos of his conquests so wrong?

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ORIGINAL: AVegasMaster


I'm not sure what your problem is. I see most Dommes post photos of their subs. Why is that OK, and a DOM posting photos of his conquests so wrong?

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: AVegasMaster

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ORIGINAL: femslut4u

What on earth makes so many Male Doms think that a profile picture of a female submissive is going to be of interest to a prospective female sub?

Even worse there are countless Male Dom profiles where this is the ONLY picture on the profile, or the main profile pic.

I can understand a picture of the Dom WITH a female sub, or an extra picture portraying a specific kink or fetish as an adjunct to your own head or body shots, but putting a solitary female up as the thumbnail for your profile seems just as out of touch as the guys who think a girl is going to be impressed by naked lady decals or mud flaps on their car.

Mind you, I'm voraciously bi and LOVE the female form, but that form has virtually no place as the primary picture on a straight male profile. Save the hot sexy female pics for your dorm room walls and computer wallpaper boys.

How many female submissive profiles do you see with a shirtless picture of Brad Pitt as the profile pic? Heck, how many with a picture of any solitary male figure other than perhaps their Owner if the woman in question happens to be attached.

If you want to come across as a MAN and attract real life women, we expect to see YOU as the primary profile picture, not your favorite female stroke inspiring ideal. :)

I'm not sure what your problem is. I see most Dommes post photos of their subs. Why is that OK, and a DOM posting photos of his conquests so wrong?

Because men and women view things differently. Men tend to be turned on by picturing themselves in the role of the man in the photo. Women tend to be turned off because they're more interested in who he is rather than how many toys he has or who he's fucked.

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ORIGINAL: Whenready

Perhaps it illustrates "this is what I like". I know a female sub or three with similar pictures. The message SEEMS to be "this is not me (aka I don't want to show my face yet) but this pic will give a clue about my likes/dislikes".

Of course, I could be wrong too....

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

It's the age-old truism in action. IN GENERAL, men see pictures of other women and transfer themselves into it (femdom w/male sub: he thinks 'oooo, I'd SO like to be that guy!). Male dom w/female sub pics thinks 'here ya go, baybee, this could be YOU!' (because that's the way HE thinks.)

IN GENERAL, women see pictures with other women in it and think 1) he's a bedpost-notching douche 2) he's another dumbass who doesn't understand how to appeal to a woman 3) he's going to plaster pics of me all over the net without my permission. Next!!

While we're on the subject of impressions, same goes for the ubiquitous toy-layout on hideous bedspread (especially insertables). Guy thinks 'look at all my stuff, doesn't that just make you a puddle of goo?' Woman thinks, 'Gross! How many people has he stuck those into and does he know how to properly sanitize that stuff? Next!!!'