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Karmastic -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 4:02:08 PM)

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...there is no way in the world i'd have anything to do with a guy who had photo's of a previous woman in his profile.

this sez it best!

can you imagine doing this on a vanilla dating site?




littlewonder -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 4:03:31 PM)

they do the exact same things on vanilla sites.




Karmastic -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 4:10:17 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

they do the exact same things on vanilla sites.

no way jose!

a guy profile with pics of women he's dated b4? are you being serious? in what context do the women appear?




kalikshama -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 6:28:40 PM)

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I saw a fin Domme with sheets tacked up for curtains. Room was a pig sty. I about died.


[image]http://edge.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/670106/80465230.jpg[/image]




kalikshama -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 6:32:02 PM)

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a guy profile with pics of women he's dated b4? are you being serious? in what context do the women appear?


Not the chick alone like men do here - him with his now (we hope) ex.




Karmastic -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 6:44:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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I saw a fin Domme with sheets tacked up for curtains. Room was a pig sty. I about died.


[image]http://edge.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/670106/80465230.jpg[/image]

awww, i feel sorry for her. she could be cute if she put a little more effort into posing, or looking natural.

re the sheets for curtains and pig styes. for guys, that equals = SCORE! just sayyin' (see thread about fucking crazies)




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 6:46:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

[image]http://edge.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFiles/picture/670106/80465230.jpg[/image]


That chick's clueless...I mean, where is the de rigueur bird? You call THAT a duckface?




Karmastic -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 6:47:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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a guy profile with pics of women he's dated b4? are you being serious? in what context do the women appear?


Not the chick alone like men do here - him with his now (we hope) ex.

wow, i'm stunned! guess i never noticed cus i never look at men's profiles *hides shame of being closet gay on BDSM site* (but not really gay, just shameful)

i've seem women who cut half the pic (with guy on cut side i suppose) = yay, she's lazy and will be making TV dinners if we hook up!




TNDommeK -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 7:33:28 PM)

What's sad is, the above pic is actually better than the one I was referring to. As we say here in Memphis...ratchet!




ResidentSadist -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/14/2012 10:16:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: femslut4u
What on earth makes so many Male Doms think that a profile picture of a female submissive is going to be of interest to a prospective female sub?


In a word . . . competition. Women are competitive, it is an ingrained social reaction for women to notice which men other women are looking at. Women compete for the attention of dominant males. Been like that since the caveman days. So I imagine, guys want to look popular to inspire a competitive reaction from you.

It is such a standard marketing tool used in the psychology of scripting ads that I poke fun at it in my humorous profile pics.

[img]http://www.collarme.com/photos/408246p01.jpg[/img]






Deliena -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 3:45:31 AM)

psml RS that was amazingly funny. I thought about this topic and realised I have a picture of my ex on my profile still, it's from a nightclub we went to and we're just arm in arm smiling. It's there from when we were together and he knows it's there, if it ever bothered him or he wanted it removed I'd happily take it down because that's his right. I've left it up because I personally like that picture... perhaps I should rethink that?




kalikshama -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 4:19:09 AM)

FR,

I've started referring my would-be suitors from the other side who are guilty of this to this thread [:D]

No replies as of yet,




littlewonder -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 7:27:33 AM)

I've never understood competition. So the idea of it somehow getting women to compete, yeah...wouldn't work with me. Many times people try to explain competition to me and I still don't get it. lol




OsideGirl -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 7:49:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Women compete for the attention of dominant males.

I'd that with a vanilla bf in my 20's then came to my senses and I've never done it since.

When I came into D/s, if some guy wanted me to compete for his attention, he very quickly found out that he lost mine.




LanaDeVille -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 7:53:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Women compete for the attention of dominant males.

I'd that with a vanilla bf in my 20's then came to my senses and I've never done it since.

When I came into D/s, if some guy wanted me to compete for his attention, he very quickly found out that he lost mine.



I find it interesting that whether it's a Dominant Woman and a submissive man or a Dominant Man and a submissive woman, the man usually ends up competing for her attention. [:D]




OsideGirl -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 8:34:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LanaDeVille


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Women compete for the attention of dominant males.

I'd that with a vanilla bf in my 20's then came to my senses and I've never done it since.

When I came into D/s, if some guy wanted me to compete for his attention, he very quickly found out that he lost mine.



I find it interesting that whether it's a Dominant Woman and a submissive man or a Dominant Man and a submissive woman, the man usually ends up competing for her attention. [:D]

Men far outnumber the women in WIITWD. Way back in the 90s, I had placed a personal ad in the LA Reader looking to meet Dominant men. I had almost 400 responses, most of whom ignored what I was looking for.




sincelo -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 8:47:41 AM)

Recently there was a thread started by the user and i had no clue what he was talking about so i clicked on his profile and read it. It stated he was looking for a ltr and if anyone had any hints that he could get more response from his profile to let him know.

So i text fella and say, you have two pictures of other women on your profile which as a monogamous person i am going to think A) you're poly and thus we aren't compatible anyway but i am also going to wonder if those women know and consent to their pictures being up, or that you stole them and you are just another hng.

He thanked me but told me that apparently all other submissive really love his pictures. How dare i insult his integrity because he had permission from his two exslaves to post them on his profile. After a few messages he resorted to crying that i was mean and just like all of the other forum posters who don't respect others rights to their own kink.

So apparently you lot dont understand and that submissive women really like this a lot




sincelo -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 8:49:28 AM)

Oh i soooo hope he reads this thread lol




littlewonder -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 8:49:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Karmastic


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

they do the exact same things on vanilla sites.

no way jose!

a guy profile with pics of women he's dated b4? are you being serious? in what context do the women appear?



The same reasons as here...competition, make themselves look like they're hot to other girls so of course you will be too.




shadowbright -> RE: Straight Doms with Female Submissive Profile Pics? [WTF] (6/15/2012 10:02:39 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sincelo

Recently there was a thread started by the user and i had no clue what he was talking about so i clicked on his profile and read it. It stated he was looking for a ltr and if anyone had any hints that he could get more response from his profile to let him know.

So i text fella and say, you have two pictures of other women on your profile which as a monogamous person i am going to think A) you're poly and thus we aren't compatible anyway but i am also going to wonder if those women know and consent to their pictures being up, or that you stole them and you are just another hng.

He thanked me but told me that apparently all other submissive really love his pictures. How dare i insult his integrity because he had permission from his two exslaves to post them on his profile. After a few messages he resorted to crying that i was mean and just like all of the other forum posters who don't respect others rights to their own kink.

So apparently you lot dont understand and that submissive women really like this a lot



Yeah, I got an email from some guy with a women's picture in his profile and I mentioned that as being more than slightly tacky, and he said that he's always gotten positive comments on it from other women before. I should have asked if he was sure the positive responders were indeed women and not men pretending to be women but with the comment of how everyone else was on board with it so I must be the weird one, I never wrote back.

So yes, submissive women must like these pictures a lot [8|]
Where are they though on this thread telling everyone how much they like seeing pictures of other women on men's profiles?





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