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kalthus -> The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 12:00:59 PM)
Reading there posts, I get the impression that there are a lot of dickhead doms out there. commone complaints seem to be: Demands that you get online and submit via webcam Doms who seem to think that SHOUTING VERY LOUDLY at a sub is how to make her submit and the whole 'Financial domination' thing - where you basically inflict a sound thrashing on someones bank balance. So what have you had suggested or attempted that just made you cringe, not submit?

littlewonder -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 12:12:23 PM)
There's too many to list. If you're talking online, I just ignore those. I don't even bother replying. I just delete. If you are talking in real life, if they were not the type I was looking for, I'd finish my coffee, stand up, smile, say nice meeting you and then go home. And yeah back in the day when I was still searching there were a ton of doozies. I'm soooo glad I don't have to do that anymore.

ClassIsInSession -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 12:15:51 PM)
LOL, you search for Dom Juan and wind up meeting Dom Knots. I don't submit to anyone, but I can definitely say in the course of going to munches and play parties over the years I've certainly seen some pretty glaring examples of what not to do if you're a Dominant. I always like those guys though, because they just make the good ones shine that much more. There was a "Master" once at a play party that told all the ladies he was a fisting expert and yet he had jagged nails with dirt under them...I thought that was pretty funny.

OsideGirl -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 12:57:03 PM)
Online, it doesn't matter. I just ignore, block, delete. In real life, I met lots of guys who didn't get past the first meeting because they lied. One actually called me after the first meeting and flat out asked: "are you going to have sex with me or not?"

Deliena -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 12:58:21 PM)
OG I'm guessing your answer wasn't what he was hoping for? [:D]

Endivius -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 1:23:00 PM)
I don't look at the male dom profiles, here locally however, I have met a couple of doosies. There's one in particular that has to brag about everything he's ever done, make sure you know he's allways right, and remind you constantly of how amazing he is. He's still single.

LafayetteLady -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 1:37:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Endivius I don't look at the male dom profiles, here locally however, I have met a couple of doosies. There's one in particular that has to brag about everything he's ever done, make sure you know he's allways right, and remind you constantly of how amazing he is. He's still single. LOL, I had a friend like that I was doing flea markets with for a while. It drove me crazy! Every song on the radio, he had to say what the title was, who was singing it, and then of course praise himself when he was right. I told him that his behavior showed such an insecurity it was mind boggling. But he was not a dominant, and this was just a platonic friendship.

LafayetteLady -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 1:46:29 PM)
Long, long ago, when we were still using Compuserve and AOL chat rooms to connect, I was chatting with this guy. Mind you, I was VERY new to this at this point in time. He started talking about how he wanted to stick the shower head up my ass, and shoot hot water in my ass. I basically told him, I didn't have a death wish, and ended the conversation. Then a few years back, when I was still ok with play dates, I had a play date with this guy that I had played with before. He decided he wanted to fist my ass. Now this was not something new to me, and it is something I enjoy. However, he didn't have a clue what he was doing. He thought he could dry fist me. Hell no. I told him to stop, he didn't listen. Told him again, still not listening. No "three strikes" in my book, I swung around and punched him in the jaw! Needless to say, that ended everything and he was so shocked I had actually hit him. Honestly, I was probably more shocked. I had never hit anyone in my life before, and haven't since. But I did give him a good right hook and I was quite proud of myself, lol.

Hillwilliam -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 2:05:57 PM)
The ones who constantly refer to themselves in the third person are ignorantly entertaining.[8\|] ANNNNNNNND, lessee. Oh yeah, the ones who insist they have to go to the gym because half of being an alpha is looking like one.[:-]

DarkSteven -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 2:22:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady I swung around and punched him in the jaw! Needless to say, that ended everything A physical safeword.

OsideGirl -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 2:25:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Deliena OG I'm guessing your answer wasn't what he was hoping for? [:D] Nope. His response was "Well, I'm going to go find a REAL submissive", like I was going to run after him to prevent him from finding someone else. Just to give you an idea of what the first meeting was like: he told me he had brown hair, was tall and went to the gym at least 3 times a week. He had NO hair, he was about 5' 9" and if he went to the gym 3 times a week it was to hang out at the smoothie bar and oggle the women because he was at least 60lbs overweight. He lied about stupid things instead of being honest. Not what I was looking for in a partner.

Wheldrake -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 2:38:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: Deliena OG I'm guessing your answer wasn't what he was hoping for? [:D] Nope. His response was "Well, I'm going to go find a REAL submissive", like I was going to run after him to prevent him from finding someone else. Just to give you an idea of what the first meeting was like: he told me he had brown hair, was tall and went to the gym at least 3 times a week. He had NO hair, he was about 5' 9" and if he went to the gym 3 times a week it was to hang out at the smoothie bar and oggle the women because he was at least 60lbs overweight. He lied about stupid things instead of being honest. Not what I was looking for in a partner. Well, perhaps he had brown hair somewhere.

amaidiamond -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 2:51:34 PM)
Online I ignore IRL i was with a really awful man that basically destroyed my confidence, physically and mentally was an abusive ass and I wish I'd run from in the start

lizi -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 3:17:06 PM)
One man was much heavier than his 5 year old picture, about 80 pounds at least I'd say. After we'd met for coffee, I mentioned that his picture didn't seem to be current, he admitted that it was about 5 years old but "he still looked the same" and mentioned that was why he kept using the old picture. Another Dom told me after a few weeks of seeing each other that it was time for me now to give him my financial assets and he explained the concept of financial slavery to me. I laughed at him and dropped him like a hot potato.

kalthus -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 3:25:29 PM)
Financial slavery is fucking hilarious. Who the hell would fall for that? You'd have to be a total idiot! Oh - hang on - thats 'marriage'... [:-]

littlewonder -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 3:26:38 PM)
you'd be surprised

kalikshama -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 5:41:46 PM)
quote: Then a few years back, when I was still ok with play dates, I had a play date with this guy that I had played with before. He decided he wanted to fist my ass. Now this was not something new to me, and it is something I enjoy. However, he didn't have a clue what he was doing. He thought he could dry fist me. Hell no. I told him to stop, he didn't listen. Told him again, still not listening. No "three strikes" in my book, I swung around and punched him in the jaw! Needless to say, that ended everything and he was so shocked I had actually hit him. Honestly, I was probably more shocked. I had never hit anyone in my life before, and haven't since. But I did give him a good right hook and I was quite proud of myself, lol. Atta girl! [sm=cute.gif]

kalikshama -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 5:44:13 PM)
quote: The worst Dom you've ever met The fucking asshole who cut off my shirt without my permission. I give myself 50% responsibility - I went way too fast and ignored warning bells. I use him as a cautionary tale for others in sub frenzy.

sexyred1 -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 6:11:21 PM)
The worst Dom? My ex boyfriend who only understood the physical, not the emotional. The funniest Dom? When I was just a young innocent sub, I visited my first BDSM club in NYC. I immediately met a very tall, dark and handsome guy who quickly started chatting me up. We ended up going a date and I really liked him until he told me that there were rules to being submissive and one of them was that subs never come as orgasms are only for Dominants. I laughed and threw him out. He was so shocked and was the first of many men who stated "you must not be a real submissive."

peppermint -> RE: The worst Dom you've ever met (6/13/2012 6:38:28 PM)
The worst I knew was a Dom who was living with his sub. He met another sub via online. When they met real time he had unprotected sex with her because they were going to be together forever so he was willing to get her STD. Of course, he forgot to tell that to the submissive he was living with at the time when he had unprotected sex with her since they'd been together for so long and were fluid bonded. .

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