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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

You can practice D/s without ever engaging in BDSM. You can engage in BDSM without ever engaging in D/s.

Your assumption is that D/s automatically involves BDSM is incorrect.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: Realbabygirl2

50 shades of grey might be but a man in bdsm would not treat a girl like crap and not care for her.a real master protects and provides.

REAL Master is a subjective term and not everyone will view it the way you do.

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you can't wake up and read 50 shades of grey say o i am submissive it does not work that way.you need to be born one and experienced.

No one is born A submissive. Being A submissive is a learned behavior. You can naturally have a submissive personality but that does mean you're A submissive.

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This is reality.are you ready to be in a cage and being beaten black and blue that what bdsm is you must enjoy the pain this not vanilla missionary style and trust is the main key in bdsm.

That might be your reality, but it's certainly not mine. I'm never put in a cage and I'm rarely beaten black and blue. There are a large number of submissives in WIITWD that do not enjoy pain and do it because it makes their mates happy. There are people that engage in D/s and never engage in BDSM. There are people that engage in BDSM and never engage in D/s.

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ORIGINAL: Realbabygirl2

get a trainer before starting this lifestyle.you can't become a sub or slave over night it takes years of experience.

As has been covered many times in the forums....being trained is primarily bullshit unless it is for protocol or service skills.

For someone that seems to think experience is important, your posts read like the bulk of yours has come from porn and internet fantasies.

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ORIGINAL: Sybercat1
I just fell it's rude to bring in someone who don't know what they are in for into a lifestyle they have no idea about.

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“I could recommend way hotter BDSM fiction, but I think Fifty Shades of Grey is a really great, mainstream way to get people sort of used to the idea,” says Morpheous, who has been in a master-slave relationship with his girlfriend for the last two and a half years.

“Maybe 1,000 people read it, and maybe five people look up their local kinky social media site and get a chance to explore a little bit more – well, that’s five people that are going to be happier and little more satisfied with their sex life.”