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findomme - 7/15/2012 6:20:47 PM

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Im only new to this site but it seems to me that so called "findommes" have ruined this site. The same generic profiles over and over again ie. " Im perfect, give me all your money" I have no problem with this, but 90% of these "dommes" have no interest in this liifestyle and only have blank profiles to make a quick buck

RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 6:23:18 PM

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So block them. And then go out to your local community and meet real ones. But that means you have to bring something of value to the table, not just a hard dick.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 6:26:14 PM

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If you just joined how do you know that Findommes have ruined the site? What previous knowledge do you have of the site that it's gone downhill somehow? Some men want them you know, just because you don't doesn't mean that many others would want you making decisions for them and what they want to find when they come here.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 6:28:48 PM

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Do you know the entire scope of fin domme to make this blanket accusation?

Depending on how you look at it, I could be called a fin domme. I control clip's money at least to the point that he can meet his financial obligations.

When I do presentations, I get free entry to the door, rather than having to pay.

Should I sell paraffin candles, I ask to be compensated for the expense in creating them. I ask nothing for My own time. Just materials.

I will tell you this. I have never made a profit off of anyone in this life. That doesn't mean controlling certain financial aspects isn't cool.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 6:30:47 PM

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Hi Dink....nice new avatar....

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 6:33:52 PM

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Hi Dink....nice new avatar....

Oh, that couldn't possibly be dink. On that other thread, dink was cow-towing to a fin domme who runs a website for paid members.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 6:48:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Do you know the entire scope of fin domme to make this blanket accusation?

Depending on how you look at it, I could be called a fin domme. I control clip's money at least to the point that he can meet his financial obligations.

When I do presentations, I get free entry to the door, rather than having to pay.

Should I sell paraffin candles, I ask to be compensated for the expense in creating them. I ask nothing for My own time. Just materials.

I will tell you this. I have never made a profit off of anyone in this life. That doesn't mean controlling certain financial aspects isn't cool.

Wait.
Candles?
=D?

This guy does sound a lot like dink did, though. Just saying.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 6:53:15 PM

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No, this isn't dink.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 8:14:05 PM

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Oh great. ANOTHER frickin ass fin domme thread? How many in the last week is it already? For crying out loud, can't people think of something more original?

Listen poggio, you haven't even been on here for a whole WEEK, so how can you make a blanket statement like that? That's ridiculous. If you really can't stand them, just block them and hide their profiles as you come across them. You will never ever have to see them again. Easy peasy. See how well that works?

NBMG

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 8:38:01 PM

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Would anyone give a shit if I waited about a week, then started a thread to discuss the actual kink itself?

Though I'm not sure waiting a week would do any good re: letting things settle a bit after shit like this.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 8:44:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poggio

Im only new to this site but it seems to me that so called "findommes" have ruined this site. The same generic profiles over and over again ie. " Im perfect, give me all your money" I have no problem with this, but 90% of these "dommes" have no interest in this liifestyle and only have blank profiles to make a quick buck

No, you've got it all wrong, it's the fat submissives that are ruining the site.

/sarcasm

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 8:46:36 PM

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I just love how he's posted the same thing here as he has in his journal, with the exact same wording and everything!
What a verbose fellow he is!

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 8:48:08 PM

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Dude - you got the wrong day!!

Bashing Findommes day is on TUESDAYS. NOT Sundays.

GET IT RIGHT.

FFS.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 8:49:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

Dude - you got the wrong day!!

Bashing Findommes day is on TUESDAYS. NOT Sundays.

GET IT RIGHT.

FFS.

Wait, what?
I thought it was Findomme Friday!

/smartass

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 9:00:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

No, you've got it all wrong, it's the fat submissives that are ruining the site.

/sarcasm

...or at least weighing it down.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 9:14:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: CRYPTICLXVI

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

No, you've got it all wrong, it's the fat submissives that are ruining the site.

/sarcasm

...or at least weighing it down.

Hah! Perhaps *someone* needs to start a thread in Off Topic entitled "Things that ruin CM" and then the bitchers and moaners will all have a place to commiserate?

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 9:16:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

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ORIGINAL: CRYPTICLXVI

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ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

No, you've got it all wrong, it's the fat submissives that are ruining the site.

/sarcasm

...or at least weighing it down.

Hah! Perhaps *someone* needs to start a thread in Off Topic entitled "Things that ruin CM" and then the bitchers and moaners will all have a place to commiserate?

Do you remember a thread from 2006 or so "All Complaints Go Here..."?

We need a redux.

ETA: Redux post started, c'mon... the original one went for over 585 pages.

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RE: findomme - 7/15/2012 9:24:19 PM

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Well I guess then to a degree I am a fin domme as well..... so you boys out there can kiss my ass. If you want my time then there will be some kind of payment required. I don't foot your bill, you foot mine. My time is important as are my abilities and creativity that brings satisfaction to all involved. So it goes back to the old way of doing things; the man pays for the Lady not vise versa. I have proven I can take care of myself now then if you want my time you have to show me you can do the same. You want to be my slave/sex toy/bitch then you have to show me financial solvency as it's not my responsability to bail your ass out of money trouble because you can't keep control over where your money goes but I will pinch that bitch assed penny till she screams.

AlphaBitch6547

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RE: findomme - 7/16/2012 1:28:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: poggio

Im only new to this site but it seems to me that so called "findommes" have ruined this site. The same generic profiles over and over again ie. " Im perfect, give me all your money" I have no problem with this, but 90% of these "dommes" have no interest in this liifestyle and only have blank profiles to make a quick buck

Oh ffs, stop whining.

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RE: findomme - 7/16/2012 2:06:51 AM

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Should I sell paraffin candles, I ask to be compensated for the expense in creating them. I ask nothing for My own time. Just materials.

Na beeswax is the way to go, a nice beesway pillar candle,
organic cotton wick. Mmmm now thats a quality candle...

Can someone explain for me what they do as a findom,
when I hear findom I think of the goddess types who
use this place as a place to advertise occasionally.

Maybe some examples from people living a non-exploitive
Findom type of arrangement would be good for PR.

-ARIES

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