RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies?

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies?

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies?

Page: << < prev 2 3 [4] 5 6 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 1:42:50 PM

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

Has anybody else noticed the coincidence of most of the Dominant women not liking the beards, but the submissive women seem to like them? I wonder if there is something to that.

I could have sworn somebody had long hair on their top five unattractive list. So hard for Me to phantom as a hair pulling fetisnist. (Yes, I know the definition of the word fetish, so that should give you a clue.)

Ever notice there are far more Dominant men, rather than submissive, that have longer hair? Disappointing.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to PeonForHer)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 1:45:23 PM

Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline

I really do dislike long hair on men, except for Native men.

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]

(in reply to LadyPact)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 4:57:02 PM

Posts: 3084
Joined: 3/4/2009
From: Centralia, Washington
Status: offline

quote:

Lady Hibiscus
Dare I ask what 'munge' consists of?

Hmmm... I just checked. Aaaaaaand it doesn't mean what I did.

I meant what the word sounds like it means. (Evidence of impending decrepitude)

The real meaning of the word is considerably different. In both directions.

Thanks for contributing to my education Lady Hib.

I apologize for the inconvenience.

_____________________________

Frosted Flake
simul justus et peccator
Einen Liebhaber, und halten Sie die Schraube

"... evil (and hilarious) !!" Hlen5

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 5:06:03 PM

Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline

quote:

Look. I wear hair because dragging sharp steel over my face is irritating. As in, razorash. And if you are going to do it, you have to keep doing it, every goddamned day. Permanent razorash.

I'm keeping the beard. If it's a dealbreaker, I have to imagine it is not the only one.

I feel the exact same way about my "landing strip!"

_____________________________

Curious about the "Sluts Vote" avatars? See http://www.collarchat.com/m_4133036/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4133036

(in reply to FrostedFlake)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 5:09:13 PM

Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline

~ponders her decrepitude~

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]

(in reply to kalikshama)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 6:35:32 PM

Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You know perfectly well that thread was there for showing off, and we were encouraged, if not downright goaded, into posting! And we were not feeling the love from the menz. Not that we needed it, as it turned out.

Rubbish. You women didn't want the love from the menz - it was irrelevant. In any case, women never show off to men like that. They only show off in that way to other women.

As a male, and unless you're an utter cretin, you eventually work it out that you shouldn't comment on a woman's boobs. If you do, you're a 'wanker'. (And women on CM don't generally seem to be shy of using that word.) Now, you're confronted with literally hundreds of pairs of boobs and are asked to be 'gentlemanly' and compliment *all of them*?

It's screwy. Nup. The Boobs thread is *totally* women only, Lady Hib. Really, put yourself in a man's shoes. Looking at the thread - fine, more than fine. You can do that with impunity because, unlike checking out a woman's profile here on CM, you can do it incognito. But if you were a male, would *you* comment on that thread?

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 7:32:36 PM

Posts: 22
Joined: 4/6/2007
Status: offline

I'm surprised by this thread. Not only do I not know what women want, I certainly also don't know what domme women in particular want. These top 5 seems like no-brainers, so I would love to know 6-10, which seems to be the deal breakers for the rest of us men who do have good hygeine but still seem to come up empty handed. My guesses would be:

1. Bald/balding. Looks good on some, not on others.
2. Shy guys and/or nice-guy-itis
3. Glasses
4. Poor eye contact
5. Does not touch

(in reply to PeonForHer)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 7:48:18 PM

Posts: 2026
Joined: 12/29/2006
Status: offline

Glad to hear munge does not equal minge gunk [shudder].
I like bald/balding, and find long hair [more than a hand-ful!] effeminate or asperger-y and therefore a turn-off; short-haired/balding men's scalps are VERY sensitive.
I lurve nice guys which goes back to neat hair; I bet more subs than dommes like bad-boyitis and beardy boys as above [absolute hard-limits are biker types which implies alcohol, drugs, crime, entitlement, gangs, mobs, hookers, tattoos, poor hygiene, morbid obesity, Canadian tuxedos of jean jacket/vests over dirty t-shirts and jeans: and gross beards!], not to be confused with good men who ride motorcycles and wear serviceable leathers.
I like guys to shy away a bit from eye contact, and then blushingly hold it; adorable.

_____________________________

"Then I did the simplest thing in the world. I leaned down... and kissed him. And the world cracked open." - Agnes de Mille

(in reply to AttendToYou)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 8:13:13 PM

Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline

I prefer GOOD men to nice men, every time.

And I love bald guys...but it's become obvious to me that I don't have a 'type', and thank goodness for that!

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]

(in reply to Tantriqu)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 8:21:41 PM

Posts: 259
Joined: 11/12/2011
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: AttendToYou
1. Bald/balding. Looks good on some, not on others.
2. Shy guys and/or nice-guy-itis
3. Glasses
4. Poor eye contact
5. Does not touch

Balding doesn't look good on anyone. Bald can. It's a go big or go home kind of deal. Once you start balding you might as well bite the bullet and shave it all off unless you can afford the hair regrowth deal or implants.

Glasses can be very sexy.

2,4, and 5 aren't physical characteristics and are all potentially indicative of some deeper psychological issues. I often like shy, nervous, can't maintain eye contact kind of guys. It brings out the predator in Me.

(in reply to AttendToYou)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 8:25:19 PM

Posts: 4108
Joined: 2/2/2011
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Has anybody else noticed the coincidence of most of the Dominant women not liking the beards, but the submissive women seem to like them? I wonder if there is something to that.

I could have sworn somebody had long hair on their top five unattractive list. So hard for Me to phantom as a hair pulling fetisnist. (Yes, I know the definition of the word fetish, so that should give you a clue.)

Ever notice there are far more Dominant men, rather than submissive, that have longer hair? Disappointing.

I am too LP and regret the lack of long hair that is available.

_____________________________

“Love me without fear, trust me without questioning, need me without demanding, want me without restrictions, accept me without changes, desire me without inhibitions"-Dick Sutphen

(in reply to LadyPact)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 10:01:21 PM

Posts: 3084
Joined: 3/4/2009
From: Centralia, Washington
Status: offline

Munge.

I should Know Better than to try to be cute at my age.

_____________________________

Frosted Flake
simul justus et peccator
Einen Liebhaber, und halten Sie die Schraube

"... evil (and hilarious) !!" Hlen5

(in reply to Delilya)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 10:19:00 PM

Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline

Cuteness has no age limit! I honestly thought I was missing on some new bit of slang. (And the convential definition of munge is RIGHT OUT!)

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]

(in reply to FrostedFlake)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 11:14:55 PM

Posts: 19
Joined: 3/24/2012
Status: offline

Not so much into facial hair, although a little bit isn't a turn off for me. Bad personal hygiene is, and smoking especially is. I do not want to taste, inhale, or be around smoke period. Smoking and asthma are just not a good mix.

The biggest turn off for me though would be lack of ambition. If someone isn't ready to work, go to school, or just do something that will make them a better person then I'm just not interested. So, instant turn off.

(in reply to Tantriqu)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/29/2012 11:18:22 PM

Posts: 3084
Joined: 3/4/2009
From: Centralia, Washington
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Cuteness has no age limit! I honestly thought I was missing on some new bit of slang. (And the convential definition of munge is RIGHT OUT!)

You flatterer you.

I honestly thought I inventing some new bit of slang. Imagine my embarrassment to realize the word was taken, several times. Ick.

_____________________________

Frosted Flake
simul justus et peccator
Einen Liebhaber, und halten Sie die Schraube

"... evil (and hilarious) !!" Hlen5

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/30/2012 7:33:50 AM

Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline

quote:

The biggest turn off for me though would be lack of ambition. If someone isn't ready to work, go to school, or just do something that will make them a better person then I'm just not interested. So, instant turn off.

If we had a thread for non-physical turn-offs, this would be on my list, as well as intolerance (racism, bigotry, homophobia, etc).

Non-physical attributes far outweigh the physical for me.

< Message edited by kalikshama -- 7/30/2012 7:35:05 AM >

_____________________________

Curious about the "Sluts Vote" avatars? See http://www.collarchat.com/m_4133036/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4133036

(in reply to PiratesAhoy)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/30/2012 7:58:55 AM

Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline

Regardless of gender or type of relationship.

Bad hygiene and gross teeth.
Laziness.
Bigotry even though it's not physical.
Excessive hair in places there shouldn't be (to me).
Acne. (we are not talking the occasional zit...)

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to Tantriqu)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/30/2012 4:38:15 PM

SylvereApLeanan

Posts: 8275
Joined: 11/1/2007
From: Hell
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: AttendToYou
I would love to know 6-10, which seems to be the deal breakers for the rest of us men who do have good hygeine but still seem to come up empty handed. My guesses would be:

1. Bald/balding. Looks good on some, not on others.
2. Shy guys and/or nice-guy-itis
3. Glasses
4. Poor eye contact
5. Does not touch

You're right. You have no clue. You guessed wrong on all but one of these, at least for me.

1. Bald from hair loss, deal-breaker. Bald from deliberately shaving head might be ok. It's not my favorite and I vastly prefer long hair, but lots of military guys shave their heads or wear a high-and-tight which is almost the same thing. I loves me a man in uniform.

2. LOVE LOVE LOVE the shy, geeky guys. Bring 'em on.

3. Glasses are fine as long as they aren't the stupid Buddy Holly hipster type. Even if they are, he can always get new frames.

4. This one might be a deal-breaker, depending on the reason. If he's shy and not looking at me much, that can be remedied. If he's just ignoring me because he's distracted by everything else, that's a no.

5. Touch me and you stand to lose your favorite body part unless I have specifically invited you to touch. Hands. Off.

_____________________________

Sylverë
Dark Muse
30 Fluffy Points
Grumpy Cat is my spirit animal.
Shadow Governess & Mean Girl

"There's something that doesn't make sense. Let's go and poke it with a stick."— The Doctor

(in reply to AttendToYou)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/30/2012 4:53:32 PM

Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline

Now that I am clear on the difference between shy (good) and PASSIVE (ghastly) I am fine with shy, bald, not bald, glasses, not glasses...

It's their personalities that make men just...undesirable. If a man makes it onto my radar, you know he has a whole list of fine, and his appearance is ancillary. Or in some cases, a tremendous bonus. I have yet to select for beauty.

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]

(in reply to SylvereApLeanan)

RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies? - 7/30/2012 5:20:18 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

Posts: 2756
Joined: 11/4/2011
From: Bellingham, WA U.S.A.
Status: offline

quote:

#1) Beards: 38% of women said this was the biggest turnoff

I've seen my new sub both clean-shaven and with day-old stubble and he's sexy as hell either way.

NBMG

_____________________________

I'm now SweetlySadistic1 on CollarSpace. NBMG is an old profile, please see my new one.

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)

Page: << < prev 2 3 [4] 5 6 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Top 5 Physical Turn-Offs: what do you think, ladies?

Page: << < prev 2 3 [4] 5 6 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2024

Terms of Service

0.133