ChatteParfaitt
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Joined: 3/22/2011 From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana Status: offline
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Have I had this happen? Me????? Of course I have. First I would get some health things checked. When I went through menopause I had major issues with all kinds of things, and a big one was mood swings. To the point Himself and I broke up, and a huge part of that was me not being able to keep my mouth shut AT ALL. It was like there was a demon in me. Now that I'm safely through menopause, I'm happy to say I have that back under control. If it's not physical or hormonal, you have no choice but to explore emotional. I know for my own self, I can't be involved with anyone with whom I am having or have ever had a power struggle. If there's a power struggle, sorry babe, that means eventually I *will* win. (For one thing, chances are very good I am far more persistent.) So if I even perceive of a power struggle, it's a no go for me. Now, that's one of *my* known issues with finding someone who can dominant me. I guess you have to go through yours and figure out which one it is. And if it's not that, than perhaps you are re-inventing what dominance and submission mean to you? Been there and done that too. And it took me some time to get into being a sub again. Not sure if any of this helps, but I hope it does. Best, CP
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