sunshinemiss
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ORIGINAL: KaruSF procrastination is the result of a fear of failure, and becomes failure itself. It is not laziness at all, but more keyed to discipline. Is that right? Really? I know for me it's because the work is tedious, and I resent it. I"m not afraid of failing. I'm worried I'll torch the damn desk because filing paperwork is dull, dull, dull. To the OP: Yes, is the short answer. There are people who will help you. Not only are there professionals (as noted by other posters), but there are also those very interesting people I discovered. Friends. My friends help me. "Hey, I need to go for a walk tonight. Anyone wanna go with me?" If no one comes, I'll wait until 11 p.m. and *blech* I HATE walking that late. I need the social interaction to make it interesting. "Come over to my house for dinner. If you do, I'll clean my apartment." (This one is from one of my friends who hates cleaning the house... so we have dinner there weekly. It's ALWAYS tidy... "Sunshine, if you don't do it, I'll be disappointed." AAARRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH...
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