maybemaybenot
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TFB: I do not intend this to be mean spirited or hurtful: You have a multitude of health problems that are a result of your obesity. ( joint issues, muscles issues, pre diabetes, heartburn/GERD, to name a few) The medical world cannot " solve " your issues. They can give you meds to control the SYMPTOMS, but not the cause of the problems. You have to be an active participant in your health. Period. There is no magic fix. You cannot spend your life abusing your body and expect that a Dr. can come along and make you all better if you won't do anything to work with them. Like LaT I speak from experience. I was diagnosed with diabetes last year. I was over weight. I knew it was my lifestyle and weight that was at the root of it. It's not easy to man up and take a good hard look at yourself, I know that. When I got diagnosed with diabetes I changed my eating habits and lost 25 lbs and I started exercising. Just walking briskly 1-2 miles a day. Sometimes all at once, sometimes in 3 or 4 mini walks a day. My diabetes numbers dropped to a normal number. Recently I have been under alot of stress, taking care of my aging and ill Mother. I slacked off and started eating poorly and skipping my walks and then abandoned them. I put back 15 lbs... and guess what ? My diabetes numbers went right back up and I felt sluggish. I could blame that on the stress, but the truth is it was ME, I wasn't taking care of myself. It was a wake up call and I hopped right back on my good girl wagon and have started dropping the weight and my numbers are also dropping. I still have the stress, but I am not using it as an excuse not to take care of myself. I also have kidney disease, not from the diabetes but diagnosed when I was 39. So I have to really take care of myself. When I look to the future: if I don't take care of me now and just take a pill for my conditions, I will still be facing dialysis, heart disease and circulatory diseae. As a nurse I have seen how ugly that can be, and I want to try and avoid it. You are a young girl, TFB. I know we thing differently in our 20's than in our 50's. I've seen more of what non compliance does to one's body, but you know what it does, you probably haven't seen it much. Seeing can be very believing as they say. Don't wait until that happens. But please do as your MDs have suggested and lose some weight. So many of your ailments will be tolerable or correctable. Our bodies can onl take so much abuse and then it betrays us. Yes, you may have a hiatal hernia, but there is a huge association between hiatal hernias and obesity. If you were to have a hiatal hernia and they corrected it, your chances of re developing a new one is tremendous if you do not take care of your body.
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Tolerance of evil is suicide.- NYC Firefighter When tolerance is not reciprocated, tolerance becomes surrender.
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