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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 6:15:20 PM

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Fear not, Rick, most of us are gifted with enough common sense and propriety to know better.

In the meantime, you can practise graceful ways of saying, "No, ma'am, I am not doing that." You *always* have that option. Auntie Hib says so.

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 6:23:13 PM

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In the meantime, you can practise graceful ways of saying, "No, ma'am, I am not doing that." You *always* have that option. Auntie Hib says so.

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 6:30:55 PM

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Fear not, Rick, most of us are gifted with enough common sense and propriety to know better.

And I've seen femdoms demonstrate that common sense and propriety *many* times on these boards, Lady Hib! If anyone doubts this, I can provide links to all of the posts in question.

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 6:39:37 PM

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My love, if you are being mean to me, I WILL figure it out!

Psycho, brilliant! Though I am more cavy than kitteh!

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 6:59:03 PM

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Fear not, Rick, most of us are gifted with enough common sense and propriety to know better.

THank god

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In the meantime, you can practise graceful ways of saying, "No, ma'am, I am not doing that." You *always* have that option. Auntie Hib says so.

OK, but if she gets mad can I tell her you told me to say that?

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 7:00:47 PM

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Feel free to invoke my name! It's worked before!

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 7:06:49 PM

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Rick, stop watching porn and start getting out in the world to meet real BDSM players. Just be on notice that in real life, not every dominant female is as high powered as a corporate manager or VP. By the way, why don't we ever get to be the company president instead of just the veep in these pornos?

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 7:09:42 PM

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I am more cavy than kitteh!

That's gotta be a motto somewhere...

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 7:11:11 PM

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Oh, Psycho, can I steal that fabulous gif? I need it for Fetl!

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 7:18:56 PM

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Can you steal it?...

Of course! The Internet was made for thievery! :P

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 7:26:07 PM

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It's polite to ask, though! We Aunties--good example or terrible warning, nothing in between!

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 8:49:36 PM

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how about you tell him you and your dom lady friends have decided you will foot the bill...

not only that will humiliate him, but probably also give him a heart attack...

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/22/2012 10:23:20 PM

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I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact?

I'm a little late finding this thread, but I have a few ideas to share.

Whenever we discuss doing scenes in public, there are always some who get offended by some ideas. I apologize in advance to those folks, but I'd appreciate it if we don't turn this into a debate on exposing the public to kink. I'm also sensitive to Otter's comment. But with those two things in mind, here are a few things that range from mild to more "visible". You'll have to use your own judgment to determine what is "too public" for your tastes. But here are a few ideas that should get you started. Perhaps one or two of them will be to your liking.

-Have him go to the pharmacy and ask "Do you have any smaller condoms? The ones you sell are always waaaaay too big for me"
-Have him wear pink nail polish
-Whenever you find merchandise that you want to look at, say "Stay!", and then walk away to see the merchandise while requiring him to remain exactly where he was when you told him to "stay". Don't allow him to move until you return and give him permission to proceed.
-Make him walk one step behind you at all times, and also require him to carry all of the shopping bags.
-Make him wear clothes that don't match (e.g. stripped pants and a checkered shirt).
-Make him wear pink silky thong panties under his clothing.
-When the sales clerk rings up your merchandise at the checkout counter, turn to your sub and say "Pay!", and then have him respond by saying "Yes Ma'am" and pulling out his wallet and paying for the merchandise.
-Have him wear dress pants and a white dress shirt to your outing. Make sure he wears a bra under his shirt, and make sure that the shirt is sheer enough that observers will be able to see that he's wearing a bra if they look carefully enough.
-Have him wear pants that are "high waters" (i.e. they're at least 2 inches too short).
-Have him wear comfortable pink women's athletic shoes on your shopping trip.
-Have him wear long false eyelashes.
-Have him wear shorts with flesh colored panty hose under them.
-Make him find a way to put a stick (or some other object) in his pants that will make it look like he has a perpetual erection as he wanders through the mall.
-Have him go into the bathroom and spill water all over the front of his pants so it will look like he peed on himself, and then proceed with your shopping trip.
-Have him bow (like the Japanese do) and say "Yes Domina" anytime you give him an instruction during your outing.
-Have him wear an adult diaper under his pants.
-Make him carry your purse at all times.

As I stated earlier, this is meant to be a menu that you can choose from. I'm not suggesting that you do all of these, or that you do more than one or two on any given outing. Depending on the circumstances, any one of these could provide ample humiliation.

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/23/2012 12:06:02 PM

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Rick, stop watching porn and start getting out in the world to meet real BDSM players. Just be on notice that in real life, not every dominant female is as high powered as a corporate manager or VP. By the way, why don't we ever get to be the company president instead of just the veep in these pornos?

Actually I honestly don't really like porn beleive it or not. All that is is SOMEONE else having sex instead of me. No moral issues with it, but to me it seems like paying for a steak so you can watch someone else eat it. I'm actually the only guy I know that doesn't like it.

As for getting out, I'm looking on the web for local BDSM communities, trying to see if there are any "munches" happenning soon. In the meantime, my only hope seemed to be the local cougar bar, but I got carded and the bouncer still recognizes me so I'm pretty much screwed there (or actually not screwed to be more specific).

As for the Pres vs Vice Pres thing, I just grabbed a title out of thin air. I would be happy with a Domme who is anything from a waitress to a CEO. If the chemistry is there, then the chemostry is there. Also given my student status I'm in no position to make demands about someones career.

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/23/2012 12:07:07 PM

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Feel free to invoke my name! It's worked before!

I'll hold you to that

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/23/2012 12:15:01 PM

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No problem!

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/23/2012 10:51:44 PM

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Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact?

Hello Shaiyax,

I make the male walk behind me and carry all my bags while I talk on the phone, free and relaxed. It's pretty amusing when the things I buy start stacking up. I'll "accidentally" drop my keys or his credit card and hold out my hand without even glancing his way. You'll then hear a bit of a crinkling ruckus as he strains to stoop down and retrieve what I want. Very amusing, and yes—humiliating to him if there are onlookers.

I prefer subtle, harmless things like that in public, though. No screaming for me.

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/24/2012 7:56:11 AM

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I been shopping with my Mistress recently, had to wear panties and a bra under my male clothes, plus stockings with no socks,and she also painted my finger nails in a very pale pink, the lingerie department was first, firstly a few lacy item for Mistress, then larger items for me which Mistress took great delight in trying against me for size, then having to pay for them at the till, the attendant then knows that there are two sizes,
I also agree with the whispers, carrying her handbag, opening doors, pulling back her chair for her to sit down all basic stuff, which does get some odd looks, then to the coffee shop, while Mistress sits I fetch her coffee, then when I sit I have to cross my legs so that my trouser leg rides up showing my nylon covered ankle and leg, as Mistress has selected a table where I can not sit and not be seen.
All are small minor things but do have a good effect, and I didnt realise about some of the points or what Mistress was doing until it too late and there not much option but to obey and enjoy it, if its done with intelligence it can be very effective

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/24/2012 8:10:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: Shaiyax
Hi my fellow dom ladies x I'm going on a shopping trip with a pet tomorrow and I was wondering is there any tips youse have found that really make an impact?

Hello Shaiyax,

I make the male walk behind me and carry all my bags while I talk on the phone, free and relaxed. It's pretty amusing when the things I buy start stacking up. I'll "accidentally" drop my keys or his credit card and hold out my hand without even glancing his way. You'll then hear a bit of a crinkling ruckus as he strains to stoop down and retrieve what I want. Very amusing, and yes—humiliating to him if there are onlookers.

I prefer subtle, harmless things like that in public, though. No screaming for me.

See, I think that is perfect.

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RE: Tips to humiliate a slave on a shopping trip? - 8/24/2012 12:17:07 PM

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One thing is for sure, there is nothing worse for a man than a shopping trip. Please, anything but that.

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