LaTigresse
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ORIGINAL: cloudboy quote:
I'm late to the game but wanted to give my opinion: When I give a gift, I give it expecting nothing in return except a "thank you". Saying submission is a gift, is like giving a gift, expecting something in return and putting conditions and terms on how you have to take care of that gift otherwise it will be taken away from you. That was well explained and made an impact. Holden Caulfield hated "gifts" for this very reason, he never felt that strings were not attached. I've experienced both. When I give something I really have no expectations, just a hope that the recipient enjoys it. I know a woman who will give lavish gifts, create lavish parties for others. Yet, there is an unspoken expectation of reciprocation. If she does not receive whatever it is she expects in return (and no, appreciation and thanks are sooooooooo not enough for her) then her generosity dries up very quickly. She is a very passive aggressive manipulative person. Gifts, etc........are just one of her methods. The whole 'gift of submission' I don't really have strong feelings about either way. MOST of the time, it's a phrase that is used in a way that totally turns me off. But there are people that explain why they feel that way, that can make sense. It's just kind of a "meh..." to me.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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