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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/5/2012 1:13:49 PM

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Oh, Jane, I hope your sister is okay. Black widows and brown recluses are the only truly dangerous spiders we have in the US, and they hide in cupboards and dark areas. Sticky traps are the way to go.

I shall never go into the cupboards again!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/5/2012 1:59:52 PM

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Make the girls do it, K!!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/6/2012 6:36:30 AM

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Hello' Everyone

My sister is doing well but from the stress she has shingles The adult form of "chicken pox and it
is so painful it hit the nerves she had it on one arm it where the spider had bitten!

There is a shot to get so no one can get this extremely painful, horrible "thing"

Please everyone go to your doctor and ask for the shot against "shingles"!

My twin beg me to tell all of you she is suffering with this now it is now going away! The pain is less but it
still is one scary thing!

thank you all for information and your kind word help her heal faster!!!!!!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/6/2012 8:41:51 AM

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Oh absolutely, I recommend everyone get the shingles vaccine! We all got it as soon as it was available. I didn't get chicken pox until I was 37--years after we nursed my grandmother through a terrible attack of shingles. She was on valtrex the rest of her life, whenever we could get her to take it. The nerve paths can reactivate without the blisters!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/6/2012 10:23:53 PM

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hello to all

Well Joan is back in the hospital, something is wrong with fluid build in
her lungs!

This is enough to make me crazy, so with all of this again my son took my bank card, earlier this 'morning and keys
I thought she would be back home!

He was to bring everything back he did not I am so mad I am so mad, this is bullshit!!!!!!!!!

The other son comes over and fucking blames my cooking, what in the hell is wrong with kids today!

I could just cry so much and I am going nuts alone by myself in this place no keys no nothing!!!!!!!!!!! NO Joan

No joan I am sad everyone!!!!!!!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/6/2012 10:40:46 PM

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Well at least she is in the hospital! Maybe a reaction to the medication?

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/7/2012 1:52:27 AM

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Your so right but I am so upset, I am glad she is there but it was just so hard,
with my son who happen to come by after no show for a month, then he tell me not to call him!

I wished I had beaten him badly so I could say "yes" I did abuse you!!!

I think he has lost his mind, I am so lost tonight or this earlier morning I usually so
happy and fun but this is not one of those days!

LadyH she is doing good but they word it as heart failure! I say it and it scares the life out of me
I called her and upset her, our other son was to bring me my bank card and my house keys!

He decided to go home and then call me, I am seeing red, lol I have been cursing and screaming!
They yes the children treat my twin and I like they are the Adults and we are the Children!

I think it is do to the fact we have dolls and always had them! As children we never had toys
my father the engineer was mean so no toys for anyone!

He wanted us to hate as he did, a doll was a doll to me and it did not matter what color it was!
He lied they made dolls for all kids!

But back to our children my son when he came he lol looked through out the cabinets checking for
BAD THINGS!

I let him, I did this because I have a horrible temper, and if it made him feel not guilty for not coming to
see his second mom then go ahead!

But I love who I am, my dollhouse and miniature things make me so happy so fulfilled, it is healthy my mind
is clear and it helps with the abuse I had as a child! My twin Joan and I was abuse and it was bad!

So the dolls and 8 dollhouse make us feel so great I would not change it for anything!

I am going to give my dollhouse to a museum , I have one that there are only there that exist!

I rather do this then have the kids just not care about!

This does have something to do with health and saftey mental health!

There is nothing like a hobbies and BDSM is that and a lifestyle!

Oh thank you for listening it been one hard night for me but LadyH your so right
this hospital thing for Joan is right! I want her better before she comes home!

I am not lonely only alone for right now!

LadyH she did have an allegry to meds they gave her! She and I have so many allergies to
they are concern if we ever have an infection we better watch out! As children we were never sick
so now we get something we need we must watch out and be careful and I carry "epi pen"!

The shingles pain will last for sometime we found out so I will make sure nothing makes her
upset lol with my kids (which they are very good intellgent and honest) but they are how we rasied them
trust is something a person must earn from them!

I had to keep their uncle my brother away from them he was a he was a abuser of children, but the
strangest thing is I did not remember but I knew never to leave him alone with the kids!

Joan had bought me a miniature working clock, and so many other things, I think the must exciting thing
that happen to us was when for over 20 years we had a miniature painting and one day about 2 years
ago it felt apart, and behind it was a real oil miniature painting!

Now that is fun, I have calm down and writing helps, me okay did anyone happen to see
how well I am writing?

How well it is understood and all? It was someone from CM A person who did
what no one could do for all of my life, now I am so proud to write here and I am understood, how
great is that for making my life wonderful and blessed!

jane( I also talk to much )lol thanks to all

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/7/2012 2:04:11 AM

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Everyone I just gave an update on my twin Joan !

They said heart failure but it is when too much water is in her body so
I need to find out where I can get everything that has not salt, she can not have any-
thing with salt from now on, so I am also looking up recipes that have very little to non sodium!

Anything is so helpful, my son broke my heart when he said "I did it"!

She is the only person in the family that truly loves me and I be damn if I do not
do the best for her!

So the long road ahead for us, I knew something was wrong with her heart I could feel it like
someone, oh hell it was a feeling and it did not go away!

I had a plate in my place and for some reason I would not serve Joan her food in it!

She told me to throw it out I did and it landed on it side and rolled and circles but everyone I throw
the plate outside from the upstairs and it ended on it 's side and round away lol scary I know !

Your post help me so much and everyone please get the shot for "shingles" it is worth it!

jane( Joan says hello to everyone she is having a ball with this health site) She is too shy for the hard stuff LOL

I may stay up tonight , I am not sleepy!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/7/2012 6:31:18 AM

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Congestive heart failure? I hope you get an opinion from a specialist! I have lots and lots of experience with illness, and studying on what people in the family have, but I'm not a doctor...I really don't trust doctors at all! That's why I study and research, so I can ask informed questions.

I hope she improves quickly; tnough it's true the shingles take a long time to go away, even after the blisters are healed.

It's good to see you back posting!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/9/2012 6:26:05 AM

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Please everyone go to your doctor and ask for the shot against "shingles"!

jane

Just as an FYI:

The Shingles vaccine reduces your risk of getting shingles by 50%. It is most effective in the 60-69 year old age range. If you get the vaccine and do develope shingles it can shorten the period of time you have nerve pain from the virus.

The vaccine is FDA approved for people over 50 years old, so most insurances won't cover it if you are under 50 most MDs won't give it to you, altho some will give it " off label ". The cost out of pocket is about $200- $ 250.

Also be aware that this is a relatively new vaccine and how long it protects you is undetermined.

I only mention this because the shingles commercials on TV do not tell you those things and when people come into the practice I work in, they are a bit surprised when I tell them those parts about the vaccine.

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/10/2012 9:51:54 AM

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I love your name!!!

But I did not know about this at all, that spider really made my sister so sick!

The cause her to have heart failure! But it is and can be turned around I did my research on it!

I will not let anything happen to her!

It caused her to have an allegry to the venom, this with all over things madei it happen but I think it give us this
chance to fix things!

She is not one medicine for it , there are different tpyes of this heart failure!!!
T
Thank god she has never smoked!

The stress is pretty hard but I never show her at all, I must cook with no salt at all, no water more then two liters!

I need to measure out two liters and not go pass that amount!

I am trying to make it and I will!

Thank all for your help! It take a village to rise a child and my twin Joan is like a kid as I am too!!!

jane

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/12/2012 7:43:00 PM

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Hope she's feeling better soon.

I know that we have treatment protocols in our state for spider bites--(and snakes, stings, etc.) and as gross and unpleasant as it is, it is HIGHLY beneficial if you can catch (or kill) and bring the "body" of the critter to the hospital for positive identification. Or snap a good photo.

Hope her Shingles is better soon-- it's a miserable experience.

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/12/2012 8:30:37 PM

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Oh absolutely, I recommend everyone get the shingles vaccine! We all got it as soon as it was available. I didn't get chicken pox until I was 37--years after we nursed my grandmother through a terrible attack of shingles. She was on valtrex the rest of her life, whenever we could get her to take it. The nerve paths can reactivate without the blisters!

Hibby, what was it like getting Chicken Pox at 37?

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/12/2012 8:37:17 PM

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Oh absolutely, I recommend everyone get the shingles vaccine! We all got it as soon as it was available. I didn't get chicken pox until I was 37--years after we nursed my grandmother through a terrible attack of shingles. She was on valtrex the rest of her life, whenever we could get her to take it. The nerve paths can reactivate without the blisters!

Hibby, what was it like getting Chicken Pox at 37?

Well....it was during the first week of a three week trip to Hawaii! So, lousy! But, I was able to go on antivirals which helped a lot. I was WIPED. Five days of gazing at Discovery Channel...trying to not pick scabs (I am a BIG scab picker) and waiting to feel better. I never dreamed it was the pox, I had a fever and felt lousy, but thought it was airplane plague until the rash broke out.

So, everyone get the shingles vax! Dooo eeeet!!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 9/16/2012 6:22:39 AM

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I was so angry they did not give her the medicine call gautatine, it is the treatment for
shingle and it hurts me but she was screaming for pain medicine I had to just tell them what
to give her!

It was stress and the spider bite she was allergic to the vemon as I said before!

Now I must and I will get her back and oh I ache for her!

Thank you for your help and I am going to take it easy and I must cook with fresh vegetable no can food at all , too much sodium!

Ok time to go to bed and then wake up earlier!

Take care all thank you so much!

It is hard to find salt free repices, any ideal everyone?1!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: black widow spdiers - 2/20/2013 1:08:07 AM

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My mom found a black widow with an egg sac in her flower pot. She contacted me for a picture to make sure thats what it was and sure enough it was. The exterminator told her to kill the black widow and the egg sac so she drowned the egg sac and killed the black widow and the exterminator sprayed both in her house and outside of it. I've been bitten by spiders before some poisonous one was a brown recluse, but I don't believe in western medicine. I use legal natural methods although I'm not recommending anyone else do this its just my own choice and has worked well for me. I use a black drawing salve to literally draw out the venom then I use peroxide and creams and bandages to treat it until I got better.

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RE: black widow spdiers - 2/20/2013 1:30:14 AM

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It's frowned upon to post on threads that are more than 3 months old. We call them necro threads.

If you really have something to say about an old post, start a new one and reference the old.

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RE: black widow spdiers - 2/20/2013 1:54:33 AM

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Nah I do things My way, I really don't care how old a post is or if its "frowned upon." Thanks for the tip, but wasted typing.

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RE: black widow spdiers - 2/20/2013 1:48:10 PM

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