slutlorelai -> RE: What STD's do you get tested for? (9/17/2012 6:08:45 AM)
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After the ending of a relationship where there I had no doubts about that person's fidelity, I went in to be tested for: Herpes 1 & 2 Hep B & C HIV Syphilis Gonorrhea Chlamydia and had a Pap done where they did a DNA test on the pap cells for the most common cancer-causing strains of HPV. All were negative. ---- As of my last blood donation, I am still CMV-., though that just means my blood can be used for infants and those who are immunocompromised. I don't see a need to test for CMV (it wasn't on the list of available tests at PP), or donate blood to find out if you have antigens for CMV, unless you are planning on engaging in a relationship with an immunocompromised partner. As for Trich and BV, since I use an IUD part of my yearly testing at my OB involves tests for both as well as Chlamydia and Gonorrhea, and since my insurance will pay for it, I do an HIV test at the same time. All of my paps since have also included DNA marker testing for HPV, and I was clean of it..... until over two years later, I had a sexual partner who claimed to have been abstinent for four years. He was the first sexual partner I'd had since that breakup. My next pap showed DNA markers for HPV, though no cervical cell changes -- indicating a very early-stage infection. It created quite a bit of tension when I informed him of this, because he was under the impression that HPV was cleared from the immune system within two years and not transmittable after that time. Turns out his partner before me had HPV. He deliberately waited until he thought it had to be out of his system because he didn't want to infect others. He questioned my honesty about who *I* had slept with, and I think it lead to our breakup -- trust is essential in any relationship, and the controversy destroyed that trust. But even if the immune system clears most infections, some men can develop persistent infections, as can some women. Since that time, I have been extremely careful, both informing my partners and using barrier protection, even though the pap done the next year showed no DNA markers and no cervical changes. I don't know whether I could pass it on to others, so I feel it's only the polite thing to do -- inform partners. Fortunately, men are not likely to develop cancer from the virus, but I would hate to make it where another woman got the scare I did that day when I opened the results of that pap. As I've been completely abstinent for the last six months, I plan on going back to PP once I have the funds and get re-tested for all the viral gnasties. "Clean Cards" are good things! ------ But if what I just wrote seems like paranoia, I have reason. My father died in 2009 from HIV -- I was with him through his entire time in hospice, hitting his morphine button for him when he was unconscious and couldn't hit himself but was coughing from pneumonia and writhing in pain from the liver tumor he'd developed that was the size of a baby's head when it was diagnosed. Yes, It Can Happen To You. Condoms and regular testing go hand in hand. A person with HIV may live a hell of a lot longer now than they would have if they were diagnosed in 1980, but when the virus defeats all the meds, it's just as nasty of a death as it was in the '80s.
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