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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/12/2014 6:04:22 PM

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If giving up your cats is a Hard Limit then be more discerning in your search for a dominant partner and be patient with your objective of finding someone who is right for you (and your cats).

This was so long ago, but it was a hard limit that i mentioned to him from day 1 when he said he hated cats. Initially when he was wooing me, he said he would compromise about the cats. But later on, he said he just could not, he hates them! I don't even keep my cats in his home as I have my own home to keep them in, just that when we were talking about relocation and bringing those cats to seriously live with us, that's when he backed out, 2 years later.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/15/2014 11:50:01 AM

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And if you do, why do you like it?

No. Wait... uh, yes! No! ... yes.

Greta! What a question.

Yes, I like cats. I also like salt & vinegar chips, but I don't know if that is a defining dominant trait.

You should have posted this one in Gorean Lifestyle... they need help over there :)

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/15/2014 12:31:14 PM

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Some people like cats, some don't, some are indifferent. The same goes for dogs, horses, ducks, any kind of animal or about anything for that matter. Liking or disliking anything has nothing to do with whether or not someone is a Dominant, it's about individual likes and dislikes. We have cats and Master is indifferent about cats. He'll take care of them, feed them, take them to the vet but he is not attached to them at all. We also have dogs and a parrot both he loves and wouldn't want a life without them especially dogs. My former Dom/husband loved cats, loved dogs but was indifferent towards parrots.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/16/2014 8:11:28 AM

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Yes, I like cats. I also like salt & vinegar chips, but I don't know if that is a defining dominant trait.
You should have posted this one in Gorean Lifestyle... they need help over there :)

Lol! It would get booted out of Gorean Lifestyle in a second for being soo off topic!
I love salt and vinegar chips too!

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/16/2014 6:00:53 PM

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I like cats, I am dom (hear me roar?).

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/17/2014 9:38:33 AM

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What Dom doesn't like petting a little Pussy

But with a real pussy, the furry kind, they push you around and don't let you dom them around like dogs do. So I'm wondering how do dominants develop an affection for cats.

That's not really true. When I come home, my two cats are right there waiting. If I sit down, they're right there. When I sleep, there they are. And when I'm up and about and call them, they come looking.

Animals form bonds and attachments just as humans. And if you're a calm, loving, purposeful leader, they will follow.

My girl is all about her horses. They respond instantly to her -- and ignore anyone they don't care for. When we met, I had to pass the horse test (I didn't know I was taking it, of course). That her horses let me walk right up and touch them mattered to her. Her dog loved me instantly, and went nuts every time I showed up (probably because she associated me with nice long walks in the forest), and her cat buddied up right away too. Sits on my shoulders when I'm working in the kitchen (I like to get the dishes done while my girl is out tending to the horses). I like animals, and it shows.

On the other hand, if you're typically "get that furry nuisance out of here," don't be surprised when the critter largely goes its own way, ignoring your "direction."

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/17/2014 9:44:10 AM

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They staying around you is different from obedience that you can get from a dog. If I want my cat to leave me alone, I couldn't get her to do it. I can scream and yell, she wouldn't care. I don't want to touch her, she'll climb or jump on me or find a way to rub her head into my hands.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/17/2014 9:53:55 AM

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Then it's clear why you think it's different.

It's not. You just aren't having any success doing it yourself.

You don't have to take my word for it either. Cats are trained to do all sorts of things, as Google will attest.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/19/2014 11:24:47 AM

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Personally I like cats. Especially my cat... but I suspect it is true that they just don't make the same emotional bond that dogs do. My evil cat hating friend sent me this link on some research about Cats... I wouldn't let my cat, Jack, read it.

http://www.vox.com/2014/10/16/6982177/the-case-against-owning-cats

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/19/2014 11:47:15 AM

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I'm in no doubt that my cat doesn't really give a shit about me. He sluts all over me when he's hungry, only when he's hungry. After food he's like - DO NOT TOUCH ME HUMAN and he stays away from me until his tummy grumbles again. He will come when he's called...if he's hungry. He will come and let me stroke him..if he's hungry. He will attack me after a while if he doesn't get food, he starts off by letting me know he's present, then its little head butts and rubs and then its biting and full on attacks - this cat will get food by any means. He will not give up until he's fed. He's the only cat I've had like that though, my other cats have been much nicer, I think it depends how they are raised, I didn't have this ginger beast from a kitten. I still kinda like him though.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/19/2014 1:22:18 PM

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and just for the hell of it...

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/19/2014 9:54:18 PM

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A man who cannot get a cat to do what he wants will never succeed in getting a woman to. ~Anonymous

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/23/2014 1:29:46 PM

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Awwwwww
Cutie!

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/23/2014 1:31:00 PM

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A man who cannot get a cat to do what he wants will never succeed in getting a woman to. ~Anonymous

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Haha, let me think about that. I really want to agree with this! But it's not true. Getting cats to do what you want is seriously a humongous challenge, harder than women.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/23/2014 1:33:22 PM

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Personally I like cats. Especially my cat... but I suspect it is true that they just don't make the same emotional bond that dogs do.

Define the type of emotional bond that you are talking about?

To me, a dog is damn easy. You don't even have to care for it, and it's DNA is just wired to be fully devoted and loyal to you, and basically love you unconditionally. But I can never relate to dogs because you can abuse them, beat them to death and they will still love.

A cat will choose to love you if they deem you worthy. Different cats have different standards, and if they do fall inlove with you, their loyalty are like dogs.

I grew up with dogs, and always hated them. They are too clingy and won't leave me alone, even when I don't even feed them or take care of them.

Even my crazy x-dom pit bull came to snuggle in the bed with me, when she's actually suppose to aggressive to strangers. I was a stranger. I was telling my x-dom where is this fierce hostile dog which is suppose to be growling at me?

I love cats because even if I fed them and raise them, they still may not love me, they make me jump through hoops. I don't know why I like that, but when they do choose me, I feel very unique and special exclusive to them. Also, they are gentle and graceful and not sloppy and clumsy like dogs.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/23/2014 1:59:28 PM

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http://www.vox.com/2014/10/16/6982177/the-case-against-owning-cats

I grew up in a multiple dog household. And when I have my own home, I keep multiple cats. 8 of them, all rescued and hand raised since their ears were smaller than their heads.

I cannot believe that the crazy article says cats don't like being pet and gets stressed after being pet!

My cat won't shut up until I pet her, otherwise, she'll keep mewing at me and won't leave me alone, and many times, jump on my lap, rub her head right into my hands even if I ignore her, insisting on being pet.

My cat kills the roaches in my home, she's doing a great job. If I kept dogs, they couldn't protect me from roaches.

I precisely prefer cats because they don't get into a depression when you don't spend enough time with them, saying that, 2 of my cats got sick during the period where I stopped living at home and only drop in to feed them, clean up the place and their litterbox. So they can fall inlove. One of my cat specifically, her health seems to be very corresponding to how much affection and attention I give her. When she feels neglected, she actually gets stressed and sick.

The problem is, cats are like humans. They choose who they love, they don't love everyone and just anybody. And it's 100% possible for the cat not to love their owners, because just feeding them and giving them a home isn't a good reason enough for them to fall inlove with you. That's what I like about them, they are selective.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/26/2014 5:27:02 AM

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Why my house has a "no cats in the bedroom rule"...

Way back in vanilla days; going for some sweaty fun with the new wife. Kitty sees some interesting things swinging in the breeze......

That cat really ruined the mood... nuff said.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/26/2014 8:51:14 AM

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Why my house has a "no cats in the bedroom rule"...

Way back in vanilla days; going for some sweaty fun with the new wife. Kitty sees some interesting things swinging in the breeze......

That cat really ruined the mood... nuff said.

I am totally cool with no cat in the bedroom, although I do like sleeping with them, but when you got a man to sleep with, no cats needed. They can go sleep on the sofa in the living room which is just as comfy.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/26/2014 11:05:31 PM

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My mom doesn't like cats because, when younger she was seriously attacked and injured by a couple of them, she's been afraid of them ever since. Now my dad says the only good cat is a dead cat,because he thinks their vermin who kill all the local birds an lizards and shit n ppls yards n climb all over the car.

The neighbors outdoor cats are always in our yard, climbing the windshields tracking paw prints up the glass, they hunted our baby chickens when they were little, and once killed one of my dad's fav adult chickens. And they're always trying to kill the wild birds.

They found away into our closed garage and began shitting in my stuff in storage. I had dried cat turdsstuck in some dresses and a movie that was out in the open.

I don't blame anyone for not liking an animal for certain reasons, as long as they wouldn't try to hurt other ppls animals.

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I've learned not to trust anyone who doesn't like cats, unless they are allergic, then you get a pass.

All the dominant males I've encountered who didn't like cats (I'm trying to recall if there have been any dominant females, but so far none come to mind) have all been jealous of the cat's innate sense of self worth.

Like most, I'm not jealous of my cats b/c they possess this trait, on the contrary, I celebrate it!! We should all posses such self worth !!

Himself is a dedicated cat lover; it's one of the many very important things we have in common.

ETA: In response to Greedy's quote. Dogs look at you and say, OMG, they must be Gods. Cats look at you and say, OMG, we must be Gods.

It's a POV.

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RE: Do Dominants like cats? - 10/26/2014 11:47:36 PM

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Not all of them. I personally have come across tons of cats who were giant indescriminant love bugs. S Tr angers, family , friends, didn't matter the cats sucked up to and let love on. I went to go pu a dresser for sale, and their cat let me pick him up and craddle and hold him rock and kiss him like a baby for as long as inwanted. He would have been in my arms for litterally hours, if i, a stranger had had the time to devote.

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