KaleidoKenlyn
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ORIGINAL: saundrakitty i would have discussed this with him at the beginning so that he knew that you had no idea how to dominate him in turn, or that you might not be able to. can recommend a book called A NERVOUS DOMME's Workbook- it might help. We did discuss it. I even told him about my other attempts. It wasn't a problem. And it's still not what I would call a "problem." He's just asked me if I would try again. quote:
ORIGINAL: Alecta what about trying non-sexual D/s play? Foot worship, chastity, obedience/discipline? Cross-dressing? What is he into?? He's mentioned wax, nails, biting, and teasing. He told me to just think about what I'm into- which includes spanking (and hitting with various implements), punching, breath play, and bondage in general. And he's told me that his only limits are blood and needles. Out of the things you mentioned, I'm not sure if he's into them, but I most certainly am not. I would feel awkward and completely turned off trying any of that with him. Edited to Add: The only part of any of that I feel remotely comfortable with is teasing. That I can do, haha. The rest of it though.. It's all rather intimidating.
< Message edited by KaleidoKenlyn -- 10/1/2012 11:46:26 PM >
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