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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:14:03 PM

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Hey! You didn't even ask me how I was today! Everyone KNOWS it's rude to ask a personal question without asking something innocuous first!

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:18:12 PM

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Ah. Yes.

Awkward.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:20:20 PM

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I think killerangel should keep an eye on her cmail ;)

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:24:38 PM

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Has anyone tried mailbombing the OP?

So
Are
You
Going
To
Respond
To
Each
Of
These?

Sent one word at a time. According to the OPs own standard the mailbomber should get a reply to each word.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:28:47 PM

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His "Research" consisted of online play of me worshipping his cock.... Seriously?

Well sure! Its all about HIS cock! They CANT READ = their cocks are SO HUGE and HARD - and stick up like a flag pole - that it actually gets IN THE WAY of seeing their computer screen. Only until you get them off virtually, will they be able to read, that you actually hope they get hit by a bus.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:30:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

Im sure theyre VERY amazing.

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It's Pathetic but I've gotten messages from those idiots as well... I STILL Respond. Why? Because it's fun! There's an amazing group on FL where we mock those idiots.

MANY lulz.

RTS for the win I go there when I need a good laugh.

Janahx, Not sure as to the meaning or intent of the rolled eyes. RTS or Return to Sender is one of several, and probably the largest, group over on FL, that offer those of you afflicted with the types of messages that deserve at least the rolled eyes, a place to post and snark about them. Perhaps you meant another group.

The funny thing is that I receive a reply to probably 80% of the messages I send. That could be because I am polite, that I have read the profile of the person or have in some way responded to something they've posted and that I respect them up front. Maybe also helps that I'm not currently on the hunt for play partners and mostly just enjoy conversations with like minded folks. If from that at some point we both feel the desire to move to play then nice.

To the OP I think if you want a response take the time to read their profile, see if there's a possible match and know that you might, despite your best efforts, get no response. You'll enjoy your time here more and will perhaps get more responses.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:35:54 PM

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Janahx, Not sure as to the meaning or intent of the rolled eyes. RTS or Return to Sender is one of several, and probably the largest, group over on FL, that offer those of you afflicted with the types of messages that deserve at least the rolled eyes, a place to post and snark about them. Perhaps you meant another group.

I know - i got kicked out of it my third day there.

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To the OP I think if you want a response take the time to read their profile, see if there's a possible match and know that you might, despite your best efforts, get no response. You'll enjoy your time here more and will perhaps get more responses.

Did you even bother to read the OPs profile?

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:39:00 PM

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No response IS a response.

Damn greedy....you stole my line

So OP....in your view I have to read every mail on here??? With that view....does that mean I also have to read every scam and spam I am receiving in my junk mail???

With that view I surely have to open jehovas whitnesses and whatever other nutcases my door as well, when they ring the doorbell...cause it would be rude not to....right???

I am afraid but I - and only I - decide what I read and whom I talk to....I don't let my life dictate by others when it is within my space of my privacy....

I decide what interests me and what not...and seriously...stuff which does not interest me....I read not...not rocket science, innit?

And by the way...I give other the same freedom which I am taking for myself...in that respect

and dont pout

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 2:49:09 PM

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We are hardly talking about a single occurrence, Mr. Diminant

OMG LMAO that was funny

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 3:04:18 PM

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I know - i got kicked out of it my third day there.

I think that's a record.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 3:06:22 PM

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I can tell just by the way that you respond to these threads that you do not have a female friend on this site who has ever allowed you to see exactly what happens from her mail. We've had several gentlemen who have created female profiles to see what happens when the friend or female in a relationship with them isn't an option for getting information on the subject. When men get a first hand understanding of the situation, they completely understand why women deal with their mail the way that they do. You might benefit from reading some of the past threads from male originators who have shared their experience of what happened when they started those female profiles. The information is very enlightening.

Yeah-I'm one of those guys.
Frankly, I am not only surprised but kinda stunned that ANY woman hangs around on CM for more than a little while and has ANY faith in men. The amount of sewage (And that's a carefully chosen word) that women here have shoved down their, ahem, boxes amazes me. That any stay and keep looking blows me away.
You gals are tough! Mucho kudos from Kana
And why shouldn't someone be able to have a profile here for reasons other than hooking up? It's a free country. They can have profiles for pretty much any reason they want (Well, technically except for those seeking money) and owe no excuses or justifications to anyone.
Simply because one person thinks that things should be a certain thing doesn't make it so.
Now, if someones doing a bait n switch I can maybe see getting upset (As in waaaaay maybe. I mean really, with the preponderance of frauds and fakes, "native americans" and straight out money grabbers here there's much better reason to get upset...and besides, who the funk gets upset at an electronic profile on the net? Really, grow the fuck up folks)but if the person clearly states that they are taken, then it's flat out rude to come at em from a sexual perspective.
Do you hit on every married chick you know? In such a fashion that their partner not only can see it, but has a permanent record?
Because it's pretty much the same thing...

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 3:30:38 PM

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Does every woman at the night club that you ask to dance with you say "yes"? Does every woman that you offer to buy a drink accept your offer? Does every woman that you ask for her phone number give it to you?

Not. At. All. But a woman who politely declines, even just smiles and shakes her head, is a far, far superior person than a woman who looks past you, or turns away without even acknowledging the question was asked.

When a filthy bum on a street corner asks you for a handout, do you blindly stare straight ahead and ignore his existence, or do you say, "No, thank" or even look and shake your head?
Clicking a button is the 'net equivalenet of acknowledging receipt of the message and thereby the sender's existence. It's simply polite.

There's only one problem with your logic. It only works on Sesame Street. Have you been to a night club lately? Sometimes when a woman politely declines, she is met with a "Fuck you, Bitch!" I've actually seen women be physically assaulted simply because they refused a man's advances in a night club. The exact same thing happens here. Oftentimes, men respond to polite declines by sending a nastygram in return. It's usually better for the woman to avoid the interaction altogether, rather than receive a rude reply. Heck, I'm sure that most of the women in night clubs would simply stare straight ahead if that would endow them with the power of invisibility. But since it doesn't, they have to put on a fake smile and say "No thank you".

But as an entitled male, you can't see this. You simply want what you want.

Do you realize that you're behaving like the Borg? It appears that you think that repeating the same argument an infinite number of times will force us all to assimilate to your way of thinking. Only in this case, our resistance is NOT futile. We will not be assimilated.

Now go away.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 3:34:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

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To the OP I think if you want a response take the time to read their profile, see if there's a possible match and know that you might, despite your best efforts, get no response. You'll enjoy your time here more and will perhaps get more responses.

Did you even bother to read the OPs profile?

Nope I didn't and maybe, by all the accounts of those that did, he ain't got snowballs chance in Phoenix in summer but who knows maybe there is some one out there that might in some way match what he says about himself and what he's looking for. Stranger things have happened. Btw I'd love to read the post that got you kicked off of RTS. Did you just straight up call one of these rhode scholars that messaged you out on the forum?

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 3:44:54 PM

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Speaking of someone who is in a committed relationship getting idiotic messages --

*Name Changed to Protect the Stupid*

Classy: I saw your profile on cm and we talked maybe a couple of months ago. Wondering if you are available for use. I read your profile and i know you are owned. My slave and i are in north east MD for tonight and probably tomorrow night at a truck stop. If we could use you for a while let me know if your Master would consent to this.
blonde_2b_Bound: You would have to speak with Master about that. I am not permitted to forward requests
Classy: Ok should I contact him on cm? If new does not do things like this its fine I read you will not meet for play I just thought I would ask. I mean no disrespect.
Classy: If he does not do things like this. Not new, sorry spell check taking over
blonde_2b_Bound: You can contact Master on CM, or Fetlife. Master is not currently on Yahoo
Classy: Ok thank you slave.
blonde_2b_Bound: You're welcome
Classy: He states you are not to be loaned out, thanks anyway I don't need to contact him.
blonde_2b_Bound: Take care.

Yes. This is a conversation that actually took place.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 4:03:30 PM

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Yeah, but at least he was polite and went away at the end.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 4:19:27 PM

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It makes mad - not to say: It pisses me off - that people just ignore mails. I am here on this site because I am looking for a (female) slave. I am not a fake, I am for real and I write quite some mails to get to know sub or slave women. i add a picture and I am not offensive - I am polite and well mannered.
I absolutly understand that my liking are not for everybody, but to ignore a mail is (to me) the poorest and cheapest way to say "Thank you, but - no!"
Am I the only one who gets mad about that?

Some of us are poor and cheap. Get the fuck over it.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 4:38:54 PM

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What classy offer of Classy to offer to use you at a truck stop. I bet you were bummed when they found out you wernt available for loan.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 4:41:46 PM

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Umm .. no. I got kicked out of AAFQ & AAMQ after ten minutes.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
I know - i got kicked out of it my third day there.

I think that's a record.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 5:27:32 PM

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So Descrite, did the kids who wrote you cute letters when you were in the service ask if you took it up the ass? Did you get 50 letters a day? Did some of them say in their totality "Hi"? You don't see any difference between kids writing service people to thank them and give them a nice warm fuzzy, and men out to get their dick needs met?

You really don't get the volume, obnoxiousness, and entitlement that abounds in CM mail from men. It's hard to understand when you don't have a female profile. People come here for different things, you're lumping them all together by assuming that if you have a profile, you are looking for person to person action somehow- it's not always the case. People do talk about all kinds of stuff here from travel to recipes, I dont see why that is so weird. It's really not ok just because it's a site about an adult topic, to assume that boundaries can be crossed willy nilly because some random guy wants to write a letter and includes personal stuff, or asks for it. They all THINK they're being courteous, I assure you, they're not.

It's safer to ignore mail sometimes unless you're feeling strong enough to take on the abuse that you get for saying no thanks. Do you ever have women say you're fat, or ugly, or threaten your person because you said no to them politely? The general prying that is supposed to pass for polite conversation is a constant barrage of people in my face that shouldn't be there doing what they are doing. I don't have to acknowledge it or feed into it. If some guy who is older than I want, lives too far away, asks me private things, or 2 words, is looking for something I'm not prepared to give, then I have the perfect right to ignore his message. It is the very definition of junk mail. Being on this 'adult' site does not mean I gave up my right to be selective, or choose what I feel is prudent to do under the circumstances.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/11/2012 6:00:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

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I can tell just by the way that you respond to these threads that you do not have a female friend on this site who has ever allowed you to see exactly what happens from her mail. We've had several gentlemen who have created female profiles to see what happens when the friend or female in a relationship with them isn't an option for getting information on the subject. When men get a first hand understanding of the situation, they completely understand why women deal with their mail the way that they do. You might benefit from reading some of the past threads from male originators who have shared their experience of what happened when they started those female profiles. The information is very enlightening.

Yeah-I'm one of those guys.
Frankly, I am not only surprised but kinda stunned that ANY woman hangs around on CM for more than a little while and has ANY faith in men. The amount of sewage (And that's a carefully chosen word) that women here have shoved down their, ahem, boxes amazes me. That any stay and keep looking blows me away.
You gals are tough! Mucho kudos from Kana
And why shouldn't someone be able to have a profile here for reasons other than hooking up? It's a free country. They can have profiles for pretty much any reason they want (Well, technically except for those seeking money) and owe no excuses or justifications to anyone.
Simply because one person thinks that things should be a certain thing doesn't make it so.
Now, if someones doing a bait n switch I can maybe see getting upset (As in waaaaay maybe. I mean really, with the preponderance of frauds and fakes, "native americans" and straight out money grabbers here there's much better reason to get upset...and besides, who the funk gets upset at an electronic profile on the net? Really, grow the fuck up folks)but if the person clearly states that they are taken, then it's flat out rude to come at em from a sexual perspective.
Do you hit on every married chick you know? In such a fashion that their partner not only can see it, but has a permanent record?
Because it's pretty much the same thing...