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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:37:38 PM   
MistressJude


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First off, GreedyTop, practice what you preach if you're going to get all defensive over something that wasn't even directed at you in the first place and put who you're responding to or learn the quote. The only way I knew you were referencing me is from the in reply to note at the bottom that CM puts there. Secondly, I'll write in any manner I damn well please and there's no rule or regulation that I have to have paragraphs of a specific length and if too much text is difficult for you perhaps start with picture books and work your way up. And no, nothing I said had anything to do with you in the first place and I have only spoken directly to the OP who has poofed since making his original post and the asshat who insists on beating a dead horse so I'm not sure what bug crawled up your ass to jump down my throat when I said nothing that pertained to you in anyway.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:39:49 PM   
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quote:

First off, GreedyTop, practice what you preach if you're going to get all defensive over something that wasn't even directed at you in the first place and put who you're responding to or learn the quote.


If you use Fast Reply, it puts it in as a reply to the last person who posted. The standard around here is to put FR in the top line so we know it was addressed to the thread and not a specific person. Your post said it was in reply to GT, so you really can't say it wasn't directed towards her.

It seems to me that there may have been a misunderstanding due to you not understanding how the board works, in which case a simple "I apologize, GT. It wasn't directed at you but at the OP" would have sufficed. No need to get your knickers in a twist.

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 10/10/2012 1:43:36 PM >


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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:43:40 PM   
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Don't you goddamn cat scratching witches come in here and make me paragraph punish.

You are working on my last nerve.  Start being have or you ain't gonna get to put no lipstick on my dipstick, goddammit. 

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:46:23 PM   
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Ahh now see - since you pointed that out I see what you're saying and absolutely do apologize and not entirely sure how I clicked in reply to you, GT, and not the in reply to the idiot stirring the pot. No need to have been snippy in your post since it was a mistake a simple pointing out like Searching did would have sufficed.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:48:15 PM   
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Ok wth I didn't click on anything and it's saying I'm replying to someone else. I am too doped up on meds right now to process this but either way I see what's happening and send another apology to GT

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:50:41 PM   
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What happens unless you click the reply,at the upper right, the next post is linked to the one right where you fall in line at that time.

So alotta people quote, or use FR for fast reply or say some dripping sarcasm shit like:

GT......tonight slavesnerka sleeps with the cock.

And GreedyTop knows she is gonna have chapped lips in the morning.....

You'll get used to it.

Ron 

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:52:33 PM   
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LOL mnottertail thanks for the... um... heads up

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:53:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressJude

Ok wth I didn't click on anything and it's saying I'm replying to someone else. I am too doped up on meds right now to process this but either way I see what's happening and send another apology to GT


I hope to fuck GT don't ignore it then, I would hate to look forward to another thread like this tomorrow, it takes away from my primary mission of soliciting blowjobs from the cupcakes and fatgirls.  

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:54:22 PM   
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Hey Jude, don't take it bad.

(I can't believe I'm the first one to use THAT line.)

That "in reply to thing" can cause confusion from time to time. Once she gets some sleep, she'll see it in context.


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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:56:07 PM   
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Ja, you are almost a avant guard hipster LP.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:58:49 PM   
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quote:


quote:

Answering them all would be a draining waste of time. Not to mention that being a slave to my inbox isn't exactly the relationship I came here to find...


And yet, the profile stays active.



LOL of course my profile stays active. I've been here maybe a week? Even with controls on the majority of my mail is so fucktarded that I wonder if my iq goes down every time I open a message. All the requests to breed me and raise a lifestyle family, engage in k9, engage in scat play, tell me I'm not really a slave because I have some hard limits... Its junk mail and not worth my time.

Though some do make me laugh. The 60+ crowd who sees my profile, sees my age limit, then decides to change their age to fit what I want, hoping that someone I won't notice that this 45 year old guy looks like Bob Barker... Heh. And I love the guys who haven't taken a close look at my profile photo and tell me how beautiful I look in bondage.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 1:59:09 PM   
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I only know six song lyrics, Ron. I have to go for it when the opportunity presents itself.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 2:01:21 PM   
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Why don't people answer mails? The only time I don't is when somebody has already been told no thanks and is being a pest, or if it' only says "hi" or "you're hot" or if their first note to me is a laundry list of kinks I'm expected to fulfill.
I always respond to a polite note even if it's to say "thanks but no thanks"
I thinks that some people are wither not courteous enough to do that or just too busy and your not gets lost in the shuffle. I hope you find someone nice.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 4:54:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

No disrespect intended, but are you saying that the person whose sole accomplishments are being subby and owning a twat is someone less obliged to respond to admirers?


I always answer nice or articulate messages.

Reading the later pages in The worst Dom you've ever met will give you some insight into the sort of mail women here receive. For example:

Dated:
7/27/12 10:09 PM

I will beat it, burn it, electrocute it, make it available to dick of any species, enslave all children from its body and when I am done with it, I will take its life


and

Dated:
7/27/12 9:59 PM
Would you consider being kept as a bi Barbie Doll fuck toy slave by a Fort Lauderdale Florida lawyer Daddy Dom? Very real, very single, very very strict.

The concept is about a pretty submissive who loves to be dressed up and shown off. Do you like older men? Do you like to be to what to wear and be dressed to nines in heels and short dresses? Then taken home a tied and for intense sexual use including rough fucks and extensive bondage. Do you need to be controlled and disciplined? Do you like your looks in Barbie concept-- hair, nails, makeup, corset controlled waist, heels, heels, heels


Do you think those "admirers" deserve a reply?


It's Pathetic but I've gotten messages from those idiots as well... I STILL Respond. Why? Because it's fun! There's an amazing group on FL where we mock those idiots.

MANY lulz.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 4:59:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: descrite

Because it's common courtesy not to ignore someone you've invited to communicate with you.

quote:

Nope. I don't owe a stranger anything.


And yet, you solicit their attention.


I do? I have a very well filled out profile. It is not COMMON COURTESY to engage with creeps.

Go ahead, start a profile as a woman. Answer every email. I dare you. And then ... if you have any time... feel free to come back and tell us how evil we women are. We'll wait.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 5:03:21 PM   
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I'm very disappointed that no one said it...

Are you infuriated, Comrade?

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 5:43:48 PM   
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FR

I rarely respond to CMail, though I don't get near as much as many other ladies on here. This is largely because I never updated my profile, though I keep meaning too... Anyway, about 50% of the emails I get are excessively sexual in nature (first contact) and I don't want to touch that. Another 30% are littered with "u" and "r" and I hate that. Another 19% are spammers. The remaining 1% that I do respond to are those who see "Friends Only" and just make a fun comment.

Usually they've read my posts in the forums, because there isn't much to get on my profile. :)

In a week I get maybe 10 messages. 7 will go in to Bulk and probably not be responded to. The other 3, I MAY respond to one. I don't owe it to anyone to respond, and if I were to be the first-contact sort of person, I would not expect a response. I'd like one, but I would not expect one.

OP is just crazy.

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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 5:48:00 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoundSlave4Life

It's Pathetic but I've gotten messages from those idiots as well... I STILL Respond. Why? Because it's fun! There's an amazing group on FL where we mock those idiots.

MANY lulz.



Hiyas!!! Yup, we love mocking the dickblisters there.


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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 5:51:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoundSlave4Life
There's an amazing group on FL where we mock those idiots.

MANY lulz.



Really? You'll have to share that with me.


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RE: Why do people ignore mails - 10/10/2012 6:05:55 PM   
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Any reason you didn't hide your profile, go through the messages, then put it back up again?



Because when you unhide you go back on the new users list and it starts all over again..

Also the last person who i responded to thanks but im not interested was when i had an actual picture here.. came to the town i had in my profile... And put up missing pictures of my self to find me...

Thats amid the death threats, the insults, and the stalkers..

Yeah.. Totally worth my time ...


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