angelface183
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Joined: 4/12/2006 Status: offline
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I too am not collared. I state simply on my profile that "I belong to SacredDom". It also says that I will not respond to chat requests or emails from people I do not know without his permission. That has cut down on a lot of bullshit. I mostly get mail from people I chat with on the boards, but on occasion I hear from others. Why are you answering these questions anyway? Anyone who would ask them is prabably not searching for the kind of platonic relationship that you are seeking; especially if they are offering to collar you. Delete, repeat, and if necessary block. I was complaining to Master the other day about an email that I had gotten from a potential Dom that I had met just a day before Master. Unfortunately, for this guy, once I met Master, there was no other and I told him so. He continued to email me and message me multiple times in a day just to "check in". I finally told him that I heard from him more in a day than I do from Master in a week! I asked him to cut it back to a couple of times a month because it made me uncomfortable. He sent a a couple more one liners and then stopped for about two weeks. When I received one from him last week, I told Master about it. It was friendly, but a wee bit probing, so as to see how things were going with SD and me and I told SD what I was going to say in my responding email. He looked at me and said, "If you write this guy then you can't complain to me about receiving mail from him." It stopped me in my tracks. Why waste my time with someone whose motives are not those of true friendship? Why should I cultivate a relationship with someone that is just biding his time waiting in the wings? If people you find fascinating, friendly, and worthwhile ask you those questions, then tell them what you wish. But don't waste your time on anyone else who is not interested in your, and your Master's, true happiness.
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