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Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:26:54 PM

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90% of the Dommes on this site are BBW. Why? I have found many that aren't even Domme they are just using the Domme label as a way to get sex as most men wouldn't look at them twice in the vanilla world. This is very frustrating for a sub that actually cares about his appearance and is not a slob. Sorry If anyone is offended, but this is getting old.

RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:29:14 PM

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:32:10 PM

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Oh boy, a fat thread! We haven't had one of those for at least 10 minutes.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:33:01 PM

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Should I dignify this with a response?

Survey says............ nope!

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:36:51 PM

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This is very frustrating for a sub that actually cares about his appearance and is not a slob. Sorry If anyone is offended, but this is getting old.

i'd totally believe that if you had a picture up. that said, i think you should give the site a bit more time before you claim that "90% of the dommes" are fat. i don't think it's possible that you've seen every profile here in nine days. just sayin.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:38:11 PM

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*shakes head*

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:51:03 PM

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*sighs* Because bitchy subs don't satisfy them like cake does. MMM, I love cake. Dammit, now I want some cake,lol.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 6:52:12 PM

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*sighs* Because bitchy subs don't satisfy them like cake does. MMM, I love cake. Dammit, now I want some cake,lol.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 7:03:04 PM

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90% of the Dommes on this site are BBW. Why? I have found many that aren't even Domme they are just using the Domme label as a way to get sex as most men wouldn't look at them twice in the vanilla world. This is very frustrating for a sub that actually cares about his appearance and is not a slob. Sorry If anyone is offended, but this is getting old.

As opposed to shallow, self centered male subs?

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 7:32:24 PM

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There is the theory that it's from living the good life. I can promise you that I eat more junk foods when I'm playing more often. (Seriously. I eat more chocolate at play parties than I do anywhere else.) Then, there is the thought that kinky people are prone to indulgence. We take the dial to eleven with play, sex, and our other activities. Why not food? Kinky people know how to live and live well.

If that wasn't enough, there are some damn good cooks amongst kinky folks. You know that bit about how people will tell sub males to take classes in fields that would be beneficial to a Domme? Well, some guys actually do that. Truthfully, clip is at least as good of a cook as I am, if not better. Dang! Who doesn't want to wake up to Belgium waffles after playing half of the night away?

So, even though it's a fat thread, and it's going to get ugly, you can say that you did get one response that answered the question. By page five, I'm going to come back just to post "let them eat cake"!

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 7:32:26 PM

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ROFLMAO! The irony. I love irony. I mean no offense, but I came to say something that just had to be said so I can be offensive.

Thing is, it isn't offensive coming from someone that is playing at getting his use of some humiliation by stirring shit up. OP, did you count all those dominant women so that your words are accurate with that 90%? Have you tested that bit about women claiming to be dominant to get a man? How many vanilla men are having sex with bigger women? How many men aren't having sex with anyone because they open their mouth and act foolish?

Even with your $ symbol on your profile... if you are having a rough time with the ten percent that aren't bbw... that ought to tell you something.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 7:44:23 PM

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Big does not always equal slob. My first trip into the life was with a wonderful Domme showing me the ropes. She was a large woman but I have yet to meet her equal when it came to teaching. Good point Lady Pact and something I had not thought of before.... And thanks TNDommeK now I need to find out if I have any cake... dang it!

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 7:46:42 PM

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They just do it to piss you off. Once you leave, they'll slim down.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 7:48:38 PM

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They just do it to piss you off. Once you leave, they'll slim down.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 8:16:17 PM

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They just do it to piss you off. Once you leave, they'll slim down.

Hahahahaaha

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 8:37:52 PM

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I ran some numbers a few years ago and concluded that the number of overweight women here on CM was a good clip higher than the general population. I didn't see whether or not men were similarly overweight. A good number of women don't list their weight at all.

I recently read an interesting femsub profile written by a woman aspiring to be a slave. She was a personal trainer in exceptional shape, and she made it very clear that if a guy approaching her as a prospective DOM wasn't in good shape, she wasn't interested. I'm in pretty good shape myself, but next to her and in the context of her demands I'm not sure I would have made the cut. (Weekend tennis warrior v. young-cut-Navy Seal type.)

Although prospective partners wouldn't reject me for being overweight, I often fail to meet the height requirements of other woman. I'm always somewhat grateful that women put that preference up front b/c I'm short. I know we wouldn't make a match.

As far as profiles go, the tactful way to make your preferences known is to say, "I am looking for a height weight proportionate" partner. This is very similar to women seeking men 6ft tall or taller.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 8:57:01 PM

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most PEOPLE are fat these days,domme or not....

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 9:07:41 PM

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Whats wrong with them trying to find a sex partner. Im just pissed that they dont contact me.

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 9:07:41 PM

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It's always the largest ones that cry the most foul when this question is posed. Those that respect themselves enough to take care of themselves never get offended. I don't want vanilla which is why I am here. Why can't there be at least 30% on this site of dommes that aren't xxx large or morbidly obese? Instead of trying to flame me why not place that anger at yourself for having no self control?

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RE: Why so many BBW Mistresses? - 10/24/2012 9:09:45 PM

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Sorry Sugarsubaz my dog ate all of the boney women on here. Nothing turns my dog on more than a walking bone.

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