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Barbiezz -> worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 10:42:42 AM)
I've recently noticed that I've been extremely horny over the idea of Master owning another even if she will play with me or not. In my opinion I know He will always want me as long as I continue to be dedicated to him but I realize that a lot of girls may try to undermine me and cause us problems. But just the thought of him being pleased by another is so hot to me I can't stop thinking about it. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? Even so I need to have this need met. I am a bi sexual woman and really want a poly home not just a fling or 3 some. I know most people would feel I'm wrong for wanting this in my family so anyone please feel free to put in your input.

poise -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 11:18:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Barbiezz I've recently noticed that I've been extremely horny over the idea of Master owning another even if she will play with me or not. In my opinion I know He will always want me as long as I continue to be dedicated to him but I realize that a lot of girls may try to undermine me and cause us problems. But just the thought of him being pleased by another is so hot to me I can't stop thinking about it. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? Even so I need to have this need met. I am a bi sexual woman and really want a poly home not just a fling or 3 some. I know most people would feel I'm wrong for wanting this in my family so anyone please feel free to put in your input. You might be surprised to know how little most people even care about what your wants are, as they are busy happily living their life the way they choose to live it. Carry on living yours. You aren't hurting anyone.

OsideGirl -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 11:42:03 AM)
Go for it. Just use your head and your common sense.

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:04:11 PM)
Well I may have stated that the wrong way. I'm not really concerned about how people feel. I just noticed that most people aren't open about it so I'm having a hard time finding this person. I appreciate the feedback.

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:07:37 PM)
I'm still new to living in this lifestyle and maybe rushing things. Master always tells me there's no rush and that it would be better to weed them out because it won't happen instantly. I wanted to hear from other subs in hopes I will find people who can relate to me.

kalikshama -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:16:57 PM)
What advice from your other thread have you taken thus far? http://www.collarchat.com/m_4183113/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4183113

mysteries1984 -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:39:57 PM)
I don't think you're alone in this...many live happy, fulfilled poly lives, whether the Master plays with others or not. It's your dynamic, not anybody else's, so do what pleases you. And your Master, of course!

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:42:22 PM)
Well I'm not just sitting around the house as much. I will admit I haven't been to any of the sites that were mentioned to find local events for bdsm. I imagine the club/bar scene won't be the place it happens. Matter of fact we did meet a girl at the beach that was curious but didn't when I talked to her they pretty much talked about Master like an object because he is black. I'm pretty shy by nature so I'm trying to get out of my shell. I don't know anything about this area besides it's a pretty place. I'm starting to get the feeling that a lot of the girls being white have some hang up over color. Personally I've been done wrong by white guys and black guys so race isn't an issue to me. I realize racism is still around but geez.. This is becoming more complicated. I'll just have to be patient

JanahX -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:45:30 PM)
OP -Why are you posting basically the same thing that you asked in your last thread about this topic? Look - finding a unicorn aint easy - you may never find one. Get used to it. quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama What advice from your other thread have you taken thus far? http://www.collarchat.com/m_4183113/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4183113

JanahX -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:48:50 PM)
Never mind - I see why - you have your cam-page link posted in your tag-line. Its also the end of the month.

MASTERLIX -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:49:39 PM)
If you were not bi-sexual, would you had still been as horny as you are now, with the thoughts of your Master owning another slave? That is, if you didn't think there would be something for you to gain personally from it as well. Or, if the other slave/sub/bottom isn't bi-sexual or in the least bit, even heteroflexible. SL

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:57:48 PM)
The fact that I have that posted has nothing to do with it. I'm not having any problems finding people who want cam shows. If you don't have any advice to offer that is fine. As I stated I'm new to living in this situation. So I thought reaching out to other subs may make a light bulb go off is all.

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 1:59:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MASTERLIX If you were not bi-sexual, would you had still been as horny as you are now, with the thoughts of your Master owning another slave? That is, if you didn't think there would be something for you to gain personally from it as well. Or, if the other slave/sub/bottom isn't bi-sexual or in the least bit, even heteroflexible. SL quote: If you were not bi-sexual, would you had still been as horny as you are now, with the thoughts of your Master owning another slave? That is, if you didn't think there would be something for you to gain personally from it as well. Or, if the other slave/sub/bottom isn't bi-sexual or in the least bit, even heteroflexible. SL I would be as horny if I gained nothing from it yes! I wouldn't want to be in a poly relationship with a girl not interested in me though. Does that make sense?

JanahX -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 2:01:31 PM)
Wrong - that you have posted the same thing twice in less than three months has everything to do with it. In fact the three month limit isnt even up on your last thread. Its just that no one answered you on your last thread - and it was posted at the end of the month as well. Please - JUST STOP YOURSELF. Its not like we all havent seen this a zillion and one times on these boards before .... LOLOLOLOLOL~~!!!!~!!

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 2:05:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX Never mind - I see why - you have your cam-page link posted in your tag-line. Its also the end of the month. I have free time because of the servers being down so no one would be able to cam with me sweetheart. This is something I really want to figure out. I know we can easily find a night of fun. I've always thought about being in a poly relationship since I was a teen.

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 2:07:37 PM)
I had no idea about a 3 month rule either. At least you gave some advice I can learn from so thanks!

OsideGirl -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 2:10:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Barbiezz I'm still new to living in this lifestyle and maybe rushing things. Master always tells me there's no rush and that it would be better to weed them out because it won't happen instantly. I wanted to hear from other subs in hopes I will find people who can relate to me. There's a probability that it won't happen at all. They're called unicorns for a reason.

Shininglight23 -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 2:11:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Barbiezz I imagine the club/bar scene won't be the place it happens. Matter of fact we did meet a girl at the beach that was curious but didn't when I talked to her they pretty much talked about Master like an object because he is black. I'm starting to get the feeling that a lot of the girls being white have some hang up over color. Personally I've been done wrong by white guys and black guys so race isn't an issue to me. I realize racism is still around but geez.. This is becoming more complicated. I'll just have to be patient I hope you aren't trying to turn this into a white vs. black thing because that's not what it is about. The first bolded piece struck me as odd. Meeting someone at the beach, and having a conversation doesn't mean that you were meant to have poly bliss or even a threesome with them. It means you were having a conversation. If I jumped in the sack with every person I met, found interesting, attractive, or the like... I would be one sore gal. As for the little snippet about white girls being hung up about color... that's a broad generalization if there ever was one. You shouldn't lump everyone together... it's rude an inaccurate. If you aren't taking the advice that seasoned posters are giving you... then you are reaping what you sowed. Good luck to you... in whatever way you choose to do it. Allie p.s. Here's a photo about patience. [:)] [image]http://www.83toinfinity.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/patience.jpg[/image]

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 2:13:33 PM)
Well to anyone that feels I'm attempting to drum up business I apologize as I don't think I'd even find any on the side of the site that people are really who they say they are but I do realize people need to scam to make money so I totally understand and I'm not offended in the least. Maybe this was the wrong place to inquire.

Barbiezz -> RE: worried if this is odd (10/30/2012 2:19:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: Barbiezz I'm still new to living in this lifestyle and maybe rushing things. Master always tells me there's no rush and that it would be better to weed them out because it won't happen instantly. I wanted to hear from other subs in hopes I will find people who can relate to me. There's a probability that it won't happen at all. They're called unicorns for a reason. Well as I said I'm very new to this so the terms are new as well. Thank you OsideGirl. you gave me something to look up hehe..

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