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Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 2:26:54 AM

MollyButts

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Hello Sirs, i am 5'11 and i have posted a few of my pictures, does my size make me a bbw?

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 4:03:09 AM

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First of all, let me state that I do have an issue with the whole BBW. I understand WHY it was created, but it is often a falsehood overweight people use to cover their own self loathing. To ME, beautiful is a word for visually appealing. Not all people, thin or fat, are beautiful. And please, don't get your thong wadded at my words, it's just me rambling at 5:58am.

Secondly, you are beautiful. Your photos don''t lie. You do have a big booty, which some are gonna love and others, not so much so. But being as how that is largely genetic and the rest of you appears to be....not over weight.... I wouldn't personally say you are....over weight. Which is what the BBW acronym was created to refer to. Cuz yanno, it just sounds better than.....fat.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 4:17:55 AM

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Do you like the term BBW? Do you feel it fits you? Does it make you feel good about yourself? If so - use it. If not, ditch it.

There's no standard for who uses what term. I'm also not a fan of BBW when it is applied indiscriminately to everyone of a certain size or body type, but that doesn't mean you can't use it if you like it.

Ultimately it doesn't matter how you describe yourself since people will look at you and your pictures and decide whether you appeal to them sexually or not. I could say I'm tall and muscular and then show you a picture which would make you say 'no, you're short and squishy'. If I don't fit your personal definition of what tall and muscular means, you won't change your mind about my appearance. So if you use BBW or not, some people will think you fit that term and others wont. Does that kind of make sense?

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 5:00:47 AM

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I would call you a big hipped girl but you have a fantastically flat stomach and a great cleavage. I agree with Lat. To me BBW speaks about roles of fat, which you don't have.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 5:31:00 AM

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I see a BBW as someone who is heavy and curvaceous, who some may even refer to as fat, but who is sexy and attractive despite not being society's ideal. (Though I'm with LaT on this one, I don't really like the term. I think many women use it to say they are beautiful, when they don't really think they are beautiful on an emotional level. )

However, this is not you.

You are young and fit and look great. Yes, you are big hipped and no doubt have a large and most spankable ass. There are many, many, men who love this.

I have a good friend built like you and her husband, when he first encountered her, followed her around until she agreed to go out with him. He just fell in love with her ass. True story !!

This was well over 30 years ago, and she still has a big ass, and he still loves it.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 5:43:59 AM

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Why the concern over which label to apply?

OP, once you venture out into the community, you will find all sorts of people. Doms, subs, switches, male, female, trans, gay, bi, and straight. At least here in Denver, the labels don't matter.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 5:50:38 AM

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Two words,
Nikki. Minaj.

And I agree, BBW is used to describe a fat
women far as I can tell, I consider some
fat women beautiful, but most people that call
them self BBW are just fat and not beautiful.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 5:54:32 AM

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Yes, I believe the technical term is for your type of build is "Daaaamnnn". If I had to pick an arbitrary label, you're much more what I would consider "curvy", which implies a natural build, versus "bbw" which implies out-and-out fat. Both labels are dumb, though. Why try to describe a color when you have a paint swatch right there?

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 6:06:27 AM

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I call myself "pleasantly plump." If I had your figure, I would call myself "curvalicious."

You can use whatever term resonates with you, or let your pictures speak for you.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 8:07:48 AM

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Would you consider me a BBW?

yeah - I would say you look obese. Do you weigh over 214 lbs? Im thinking you do.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 8:16:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

Would you consider me a BBW?

yeah - I would say you look obese. Do you weigh over 214 lbs? Im thinking you do.

acually no , i weigh 200 lbs

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 8:18:42 AM

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If I were you ... Id post more pictures. Youre not posting nearly enough.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 8:19:50 AM

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Something in the background of many of your pictures........something about you says school.........????

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 8:21:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

If I were you ... Id post more pictures. Youre not posting nearly enough.

they're for my fans hon

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 8:27:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Something in the background of many of your pictures........something about you says school.........????

yes, your so smart Sir

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 8:58:20 AM

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To smart for his own guwd me thinks!

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 11:08:10 AM

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Honestly, I see nothing that needs labeling on you, besides the aforementioned "highly spank-able butt". And yes, that is a perk

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 11:15:33 AM

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I'd rate you as GROWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL.
Seeing as you're 5'11 and I'm shorter, that would make for a hella slow dance too.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 11:18:16 AM

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The OP reminds me of the yummy woman that managed (or used to) the video rental place I use on occasion.

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RE: Would you consider me a BBW? - 11/1/2012 11:34:59 AM

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Thanks for everyones thoughs on my question and thoughtful replies, i take some as compliments

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