Marini
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt There are two separate definitions that come to play when you are talking forced bi. One is the one LadyP talked about, her boy is straight, but if she forces him to suck cock for HER enjoyment, that is forced bi. This 100 times this!!! Then there is the definition I see all the time on the profile of male subs -- they are *requesting* forced bi. Requesting is not forced (obviously) in the way most of us think of it. This is, as E2Sweet pointed out, "getting to experience all the feel-good stuff about homosexuality, without the guilt and personal responsibility, even if the internal mind game is being played out only on the subconscious level..." THIS is the sort of "forced-bi" activity that I SEE requested/ mentioned 90% of the time. There are some things people very much like, but need, for whatever reason, to be forced to do. An old BDSM check list I recall (I think it's from Screw the Roses, but don't quote me on that) used to have various categories for checking off, like "love it," "hate it," "maybe," and then one that was "make me." That was a great option for those who have soft limits they would *like* someone to push. We get thread after thread about this "desire", thank you for making the point so clearly and thoroughly. I think the point is so obvious, that those that don't understand the difference, just don't want to understand the difference. Denial is so not only located in Egypt.
< Message edited by Marini -- 11/3/2012 9:56:29 AM >
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As always, To EACH their Own. "And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. " Nelson Mandela Life-long Democrat, not happy at all with Democratic Party. NOT a Republican/Moderate and free agent
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