chatterbox24
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt You said this: quote:
ORIGINAL: chatterbox24 I was referring to acts that violate the very fiber of a persons core, moral fibers, deep beliefs, and I think "forced Bi" is in that category. You seem to have missed that I said this: quote:
He knows me well enough to know that although it is pathetically easy for him to get me to a point I would do anything for him, he can't push those limits, b/c to do so would be damaging to me. It's nothing I have to worry about in the least, b/c he's not interested in damaging me, I know that. That lw and mos have established relationships where they share their d-types limits does not mean they feel "so deep a need to be with someone I would do anything they asked." It's not an issue of being needy, it's an issue of TRUST. And that Kana said this: quote:
And with caution. Don't go running willy-nilly into shit. Think about the ramifications, the long term effects down the road. Ask yourself, "Is the risk worth the payoff?" Am I willing to gamble everything in our relationship for this one thing. And if so, what's the price I'M gonna pay, because sure as hell, I'm gonna pay one too. It might not be anything readily visible, but the internal dynamics of the relationship are gonna change, and that means I'm gonna change too So who's talking about things that violate a person's core? From what I've read, most replies have made it clear the dominant would never do such a thing, even if the s-type "has no limits." You know chatter, I've been trying to deal with you, b/c I know you're trying to learn, but then you make wild statements with little basis in reality. Sure, you're entitled to your opinion same as everyone else, but dang, some of yours don't exactly help your credibility. I hate to break this to you, but I was referring to the flip side, where a dom is not taking the best interest of sub in mind. Where do you get I was taking what you said and using it at all? I didnt even read your post until you mistakenly thought I Had and was referring to it. The only reason I commented further is because I saw where you said my lack of understanding was appalling. I understand that alot of people do things because they BELEIVE they have lost their power to a creep who takes advantage of that person. Call it sub frenzy, call it poor self esteem, call it whatever you want. THey believe they have no control, and no power, but they do, they just have became beat down and lost. Are there good doms out there, Im sure there are but Im speaking about the ones who ARE NOT doing the right thing.
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