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Duskypearls -> RE: A simple task (12/29/2012 11:10:22 AM)
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Forgive me if this derails your thread.
What irks me most are supposed Doms who have NOTHING about themselves in their profiles, yet contact me saying what I put in my own, in terms of who and what I am, and that for which I search, is full and wonderful.
How is it they do not consider most do not wish to play 20 or 100 questions with a "ghost," only to find out if we knew what we learn about them through this exhausting endeavor, were it in their profile, would NEVER have inspired us to correspond with them to begin with. Is not our energy or time of value?
And anyway, it is not a Dom's job to put himself out there in a palatable manner?
By George, I got another this a.m. A polite inquiry, no doubt, but a ghost profile. Here was my response, which I think I will save and use as a "form" response from here on in. I may even consider putting something to this effect in my profile, to hopefully discourage such inquiries:
I appreciate your polite inquiry.
That you are intrigued by my profile shows you have the complete advantage, as yours virtually tells one nothing about you.
I am not inclined to start at square one with those who have empty profiles. The very point of a profile is to give a synopsis about oneself, that others may quickly determine if there is any possible, potential interest for making contact. It has been my experience if one does not publicly offer who and what they are there, no good will come of it later.
Although I do not intend this to sound harsh, unless you are the Uber Dom and fellow of the century, I would not encourage you to make further inquiry of me, as it would likely only lead to mutual disappointment.
Forgive me, but I am tired of this. And they ask me why I drink!!! Just kidding, I don't, but sometimes....it almost makes me want to! Come on, fellows, step up to the plate and show us your best.
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