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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 8:14:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPattySweets

ZzzzzZzzzz!

Wow... pure brilliancy here. Instead of being constructive here you just slash out and go straight to criticizing others. And you still wonder why so many are disappointed with this site.

actually this site is what you make it. those of us that use the forums are happy with the people on the site until we get some whinging person sniveling because they can't get laid.

here's a thought for you;

if one person turns you down, maybe it's their problem. if everyone turns you down then it's you that's the problem.

if you can't get laid in real life chances are you won't get laid here either. a shitty personality is a shitty personality wherever you put yourself. if you can get laid in real life then go do that and stop bitching in here.

also, try spending a little more time in here because then you will see just how many whingers there are.....at least one-several per day. it's god damn boring! we all know there are fakes on here. news flash, there are fakes in every walk of life, especially where there is money to be made.

DON'T PAY MONEY, Block the fake, get a life and move on. problem solved.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 8:46:11 AM

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I know his very first message to me wasn't "hello" or "hi" ... it was just that I was a fucking fake.

Geez. So his modus operandi is to say "You're a fucking fake" to random women. 99.99% will refuse to reply, which he then takes as "proof" that they really ARE fake.

He's actively pissing off the very people he wants to meet. Brilliant.

That explains a lot.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 8:50:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPattySweets

I was recommended this site by a friend, unfortunatly What we have both encounted on this site are many dishonest people. We are both very disappointed. Would anyone recommend a better site?

I can understand your disappointment considering how much you paid for the membership here.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:01:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPattySweets

ZzzzzZzzzz!

Wow... pure brilliancy here. Instead of being constructive here you just slash out and go straight to criticizing others. And you still wonder why so many are disappointed with this site.

The person that you are responding to with this comment mentioned what an active scene that you have in the city. How is that not being constructive? If I remember correctly, the owner of the best club in that town has a profile here and posted about an event in the last thirty days.

I lived just a few hours from you a couple of years ago. I met several members from this site at a party just days within moving to CA. The year and a half that I lived out there, I never had a problem meeting people. It's not hard. It is, however, what you make of it.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:02:13 AM

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I'm actually amazed at the negativity of those who do use these boards with regularity. you're all in your own little click and just think you're the cats fuckin meow. Truly astonishing the bullshit I read here. Least y'all give me a good laugh every now and then. Especially when you call someone else a whinger when you yourselves are demonstrating what a whinger is by being a whinger. It's just fuckin funny

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:07:12 AM

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I think I have a simple solution for you. Do what many of the other guys around here do. Send out a 1 or 2 line message to as many subs as you can.

This one should work well: "On you're nees Bitch", "i am you're DOM".

You'll have em swooning all over ya.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:26:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: DrkOne

I'm actually amazed at the negativity of those who do use these boards with regularity. you're all in your own little clique and just think you're the cats fuckin meow. Truly astonishing the bullshit I read here. Least y'all give me a good laugh every now and then. Especially when you call someone else a whinger when you yourselves are demonstrating what a whinger is by being a whinger. It's just fuckin funny

I fixed it for you. Insulting folks in writing is so much more powerful when you spell all the words correctly.
Glad to help.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:26:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I lived just a few hours from you a couple of years ago. I met several members from this site at a party just days within moving to CA. The year and a half that I lived out there, I never had a problem meeting people. It's not hard. It is, however, what you make of it.

Exactly LP. SoCal has a HUGE community. There are several clubs, lots of socials, discussions and demonstrations. There are so many people here that it takes very little effort to meet people.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:31:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPattySweets

I was recommended this site by a friend, unfortunatly What we have both encounted on this site are many dishonest people. We are both very disappointed. Would anyone recommend a better site?

I was impressed by your profile however it might be difficult to find someone with unresolved issues, especially in the age-range you are seeking as by this time, most of us have some stuff we still carry around. Unresolved can be ok as long as they are either dealing with it, or it doesn't impact on their daily life.

Also, it is notoriously difficult for dominant women to find sincere submissive men on the other part of this site, hell as a submissive most of my mail is from submissive men wanting me to domme them so I can imagine it is worse for you.

You haven't been on here very long. Have you searched for males within your area and age range and contacted any that seemed to fit what you are looking for?

Post on threads here that interest you as there are some wonderful submissive males that are regular posters. Make yourself known and maybe one of them will live near you.

As I said earlier in response to the OP, I met someone from here for the first time on monday and we had a lovely lunch. We then werent going to see eachother for a couple of weeks as I am going away however he rearranged some meetings and he is taking me for lunch on thursday. Does this mean he is perfect for me or that anything will eventuate? who knows, but it does show that there are some nice people around.

I have met lots of people over the years, some not so nice, some simply not a match and others that I dated, plus of course, many of my wonderful friends I have made through posting on the threads here.

Trust me, patience is a virtue

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:33:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: DrkOne

I'm actually amazed at the negativity of those who do use these boards with regularity. you're all in your own little click and just think you're the cats fuckin meow. Truly astonishing the bullshit I read here. Least y'all give me a good laugh every now and then. Especially when you call someone else a whinger when you yourselves are demonstrating what a whinger is by being a whinger. It's just fuckin funny

actually i'm the cat's pajamas, i know coz one of the good Doms on the forums told me so

as for cliques, i think you'll find that some of us get on all the time, some only some of the time, and some not at all. just like in real life. that's because we act like adults (mostly) instead of childish brats like the ones whinging in here.

all these people have to do is use the search button to find out just how many others whine about exactly the same thing.

y'all just bore off already.

needles

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:38:19 AM

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Fucking awesome!

Awesome.

I love your profile pics, esp the note.

I salute you

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:38:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: DrkOne

I'm actually amazed at the negativity of those who do use these boards with regularity. you're all in your own little click and just think you're the cats fuckin meow. Truly astonishing the bullshit I read here. Least y'all give me a good laugh every now and then. Especially when you call someone else a whinger when you yourselves are demonstrating what a whinger is by being a whinger. It's just fuckin funny

I just read your profile. Read what you wrote and then hold a mirror up to yourself and repeat after me -

I am a whinger.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 9:39:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: DrkOne

I'm actually amazed at the negativity of those who do use these boards with regularity. you're all in your own little click and just think you're the cats fuckin meow. Truly astonishing the bullshit I read here. Least y'all give me a good laugh every now and then. Especially when you call someone else a whinger when you yourselves are demonstrating what a whinger is by being a whinger. It's just fuckin funny

Hilarious!

<tips hat>

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 11:10:46 AM

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Thank you smartsub10 for being so helpful. Such a good lil sub. We all know the spelling nazi's get so upset when they're insulted with poor spelling or grammar

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 11:24:57 AM

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And here I thought the British only liked to add a u to certain words. I just realized that whinger is not a typo of whiner.
I suppose this can now be considered a positive thread after all, since I learned something from it.

*saunters off with a little more pep in my step*

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 11:38:15 AM

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no typo poise, whinging, whining equals same difference here in the UK

and don't forget; it's not us that like to add a u into things.....we made the language in the first place. it's you lot that leave it out, and speak funny

needles

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 11:43:52 AM

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DrkOne, we have been on the site for years and have learned to make it work for us. What would you expect us to think of a man whose first message is "You're a fucking fake!" to complete strangers and then complains that the people on the site are worthless?

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 1:04:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: DrkOne

I'm actually amazed at the negativity of those who do use these boards with regularity. you're all in your own little click and just think you're the cats fuckin meow. Truly astonishing the bullshit I read here. Least y'all give me a good laugh every now and then. Especially when you call someone else a whinger when you yourselves are demonstrating what a whinger is by being a whinger. It's just fuckin funny

Coming frem a couple old enough to know better, "seeking property that breathes & shits" l will take that as a compliment!! Just a suggestion using turds as bait doesn't work hunting unicorns.

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 1:26:03 PM

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theRose4U LOL. If you're going to quote me. Quote me verbatim "you're just property that breathes and shits." is what it actually says and it's in reference to value. Which too many here. Don't seem to have

DarkSteven you're one of the better of the bunch and I agree, their approach sucks. However, free or not, the site does suck for finding an appropriate match .. (and no, I don't expect flattery to get me anywhere)

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RE: Negative experiances - 12/4/2012 2:04:53 PM

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Actually, what you mean is , is that the site sucks for you. I don't think you can make such a broad generalization without some facts to back it up. I met my Sir on CM, and we had a wonderful life - so i could say the site is the best place in the world for meeting people and be right.

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