From: The t'aint of the Midwest -- Indiana
Welcome to the discussion side, mystik.
I've said this before, but I'll say it again: I believe switches can be roughly placed into one of two categories, those who switch with another switch, and those who don't.
I'm one of those who doesn't switch with another switch. My relationships are based on a dominance hierarchy, and since I am far more dominant than most people, many people could (potentially) be my submissive. It took me 30 years to find someone capable of dominating me in a good way.
Now, I have known switch couples who switch back and forth all the time in what seems to be an effortless way. So, I know that does exist and people can be very happy with that type of relationship. It's just not me.
As with all things BDSM, you have to take the time to discover who you are and find your own way with this. There is no right and wrong way of being a switch, there's your way.