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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/26/2006 11:56:44 PM   
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Here in Australia, because we have a “convict heritage” where punishment was meted out with the lash, usually multi-tailed (even in historic reference, many accounts of multi-tailed whips are referred to as ‘cat-o’-nines’ et. al, call it what you will), therefore it is still on our legislation that carrying a ‘flogger’ or multi-tailed whip in public is illegal due to them being outlawed when we shifted to a free country!

I personally have carried a ‘flogger’ in public, but I know of a man who was fined for doing so, and I know a policeman friend who also fined someone for doing so.  Then again, I know someone else who had a whole bag of kink equipment including metal handcuffs (also illegal to own Downunder without a license – which he didn’t have), whips, floggers, rope, leather restraints, etc., stolen from the back of his car, the police retrieved it and contacted him (ID was with the bag).  They laughed about the contents with him and gave the whole lot back to him in the same condition it was when it was taken.  Laws can be funny that way.

But more on topic, Australian laws don’t permit for a person to consent to abuse of this kind either, with or without a contract.  There was a case in north Queensland of a man of aboriginal heritage who had his testicles ritually mutilated, but when the work turned septic and he lost his balls literally, the person who performed the work was charged with serious assault (GBH) and gaoled!

Add these laws with some of the police powers in Queensland, and things can sound very scary!  For example, if ANYONE reports a women being abused by her partner, the police have to respond by law (though in practice, this doesn’t always take place?) and upon responding, they MUST be allowed to converse with the woman face to face.  Even if she tells them through a closed door that everything is okay, they have the right to demand the door be opened so they can confirm it – and if the door is still not opened, they have the power to bust it open!

These are new laws about 2 years old now, so I’ve not heard since if anyone’s play session has turned bad by someone reporting, “He must be doing terrible things to that poor woman next door...” and then the police demanding the submissive speaking to them personally.  I can see the response of the poor bloody dominant, “I’m sorry, she’s a little tied up right... errrm... now...?”

So, in Aussie, consent and even contracts don’t protect you.

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/27/2006 6:09:55 AM   
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Again, the consent thing is badly misunderstood...the laws in Australia, England, Canada, the US, and other places DO allow people to consent to being hit...(can anyone provide a successful prosecution of an actor, or  boxer who was arrested, and told that the consent of his partner didn't matter?).

What has happened has been an attempt by prosecutors and judges to twist the laws to suit their own moral agenda, and presume that if someone is getting a sexual thrill out of being hit (instead of merely getting a trophy), then their consent isn't freely given.

In the case of someone who mutilates themselves to the point that a mental illness is clearly a factor, that premise might hold up...but the slippery slope kicks in, and soon a pat on the butt becomes 'a harmful touching'.

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/27/2006 6:14:49 AM   
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i'm sorry to question You Sir, and please, i mean no disrespect, but i live in england, and i remeber once when i woz with my first Master, a conversation He had with another Dom about somebody or something called "spanner" which basically said that even if anything woz consentual, it woz still illegal in england. i'm afraid i don't really know any more than that, but i know there woz a big discussion/argument between all the Dom/mes.
 
with Respect Sir,
 
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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/27/2006 8:01:13 AM   
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My issue is with blanket statements like 'You can't consent to a battery'...

In point of fact, you most certainly can, as in the case of the rugby players, boxers etc.

Medical patients routinely sign consent forms for procedures that would be serious felonies if done without consent, such as being cut open by a sharp implement.

And the reason these people do not get arrested, is because consent is a perfectly good defense to criminal charges.

The questions in cases of abuse, etc, are whether the person was competent to give consent, or if the consent was freely and knowingly obtained.

Spousal abuse, coerced consent, invalid consent by those the law deems incompetent....none of these negate the basic legal principal that one can in fact, consent to being battered, they only refine it and make it workable.


Spanner, already mentioned here, and other similar cases involve judges substituting their own moral code for the law, and ruling that if the person being hit gets a sexual thrill out of it, then the consent was not valid.

In the case of the guy who wanted to be chopped up and eaten, that may be a reasonable conclusion.... in the case of a fantasy spanking, it is ludicrous. 
In between those extremes, there is room for debate, but that still doesn't negate the fact that consent nullifies battery.

The problem is that if enough judges make ludicrous rulings, they gain the weight of precedent, and future judges won't have to debate, they can just defer to the bogus ruling that went before...and that is a danger to us all.
It erodes the logical presumption gained over the years that there is nothing about enjoying BDSM that automatically dictates not being of sound mind.

So everyone, repeat after me:  "Consent is a defense to battery"


Unless the judge is an arse. 

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/27/2006 8:21:05 AM   
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thank You Alumbrado for taking the time to explain that for me Sir. like i said, i'm sorry to question You but i just don't know.. i just remember people arguing about it a few years ago.
 
i just do as i'm told
 
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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/27/2006 8:27:06 AM   
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just do as i'm told


You didn't repeat after me.....

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/27/2006 8:42:32 AM   
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 You're absolutley right Sir, my apologies... (i woz waiting to see if You spotted my deliberate mistake)
 
"Consent is a defence to battery - unless the judge is a bum hole."
 
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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 7/27/2006 9:07:16 AM   
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Yeah, and unless the law says otherwise, which it often does.

Really, this is remarkable.  I can just picture it--some guy is standing in court, about to be convicted for whipping his girlfriend, and he protests: "But Alumbrado on Collarme said consent was a legitimate defense!"

In Never-never-land, consent may be a legitimate defense, but we don't get arrested and charged in Never-never-land.  Just find out the laws in your own state and leave the jurisprudential arguments to jurists.  There is a world of difference between "Consent SHOULD BE a legitimate defense" and "Consent IS a legitimate defense."

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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

So everyone, repeat after me:  "Consent is a defense to battery"

Unless the judge is an arse. 


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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/8/2006 11:49:16 PM   
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I wanted to add re the comments about masochism being a mental illness, that nowhere in the US does either the law, or the medical establishment say that, nor have they for quite a while.


This is incorrect. The DSM-IV-TR establishes "Sexual Masochism (302.83)" as a mental disorder in the group of paraphilias (exhibitionism, fetishism, frotteurism, pedophilia, sexual masochism, sexual sadism, transvestic fetishism, voyeurism, and other unspecified paraphilas). It establishes diagnostic criteria for each of these disorders. Those diagnostic criteria DO NOT require the patient to act on the urges; however, they do require that the urges or behaviors interfere with life, work, or social function. That requirement certainly leaves interpretive latitude to the diagnosing psychiatrist that certainly creates variation in diagnosis.

Some non-US countries have eliminated some of these things from their standards of diagnosis. Some non-US countries go much further, not requiring the interference with function. These are often places that still consider homosexuality a mental disorder. This has become a more political debate than medical one, unfortunately, and the psychiatric communities have given in to political pressures in establishing these varied standards.

Your legal information is as bad as your psychiatric information. In common law, consent is only a defense if it negates the crime; this would sometimes not be considered the case in issues of BDSM activity. While consent is an absolute defense to a tort (meaning, for instance, a consenting person could not usually sue someone for damages from a battery to which he or she consented), jurisdictions vary on their interpretation of whether consent is a defense to specific crimes (in particular, battery). For example, and there are many examples:

Commonwealth v Farrell, 322 Mass 606; 78 NE2d 697 (12 April 1948) citing King v Donovan, 2 KB 498; 30 Cox CC 187 (CCA) (1934)
rejected a consent defense where bodily harm was a likely result (consensual burning with a cigarette), and defining bodily harm as "any hurt or injury calculated to interfere with health or comfort, more than merely transient and trifling, but not requiring permanent effect"

AT BEST, a consent defense in the case of BDSM activities is hazy. It is certainly not an absolute defense to many crimes.

I'm not sure any judges or lawyers are in the forum, but if so, please pipe up and explain this better than I have.

And, let's combine these concepts. Consent defenses, both in criminal charges and in torts, are negated if the consenting party can't give consent, for instance by reason of mental incapacity. As masochism that interferes with function can be diagnosed as a mental illness, an apparent consent could be considered invalid.

Neither of these concepts is absolute. Anyone suggesting they are does not know what he or she is talking about, or is intentionally misleading you.

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/8/2006 11:57:24 PM   
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were did this come from can i get a link to the eniter artical so i can read it because im very confsused

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/9/2006 1:03:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: StrongButKind

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

I wanted to add re the comments about masochism being a mental illness, that nowhere in the US does either the law, or the medical establishment say that, nor have they for quite a while.


This is incorrect. The DSM-IV-TR establishes "Sexual Masochism (302.83)" as a mental disorder in the group of paraphilias (exhibitionism, fetishism, frotteurism, pedophilia, sexual masochism, sexual sadism, transvestic fetishism, voyeurism, and other unspecified paraphilas). It establishes diagnostic criteria for each of these disorders. Those diagnostic criteria DO NOT require the patient to act on the urges; however, they do require that the urges or behaviors interfere with life, work, or social function. That requirement certainly leaves interpretive latitude to the diagnosing psychiatrist that certainly creates variation in diagnosis.

Some non-US countries have eliminated some of these things from their standards of diagnosis. Some non-US countries go much further, not requiring the interference with function. These are often places that still consider homosexuality a mental disorder. This has become a more political debate than medical one, unfortunately, and the psychiatric communities have given in to political pressures in establishing these varied standards.

Your legal information is as bad as your psychiatric information. In common law, consent is only a defense if it negates the crime; this would sometimes not be considered the case in issues of BDSM activity. While consent is an absolute defense to a tort (meaning, for instance, a consenting person could not usually sue someone for damages from a battery to which he or she consented), jurisdictions vary on their interpretation of whether consent is a defense to specific crimes (in particular, battery). For example, and there are many examples:

Commonwealth v Farrell, 322 Mass 606; 78 NE2d 697 (12 April 1948) citing King v Donovan, 2 KB 498; 30 Cox CC 187 (CCA) (1934)
rejected a consent defense where bodily harm was a likely result (consensual burning with a cigarette), and defining bodily harm as "any hurt or injury calculated to interfere with health or comfort, more than merely transient and trifling, but not requiring permanent effect"

AT BEST, a consent defense in the case of BDSM activities is hazy. It is certainly not an absolute defense to many crimes.

I'm not sure any judges or lawyers are in the forum, but if so, please pipe up and explain this better than I have.

And, let's combine these concepts. Consent defenses, both in criminal charges and in torts, are negated if the consenting party can't give consent, for instance by reason of mental incapacity. As masochism that interferes with function can be diagnosed as a mental illness, an apparent consent could be considered invalid.

Neither of these concepts is absolute. Anyone suggesting they are does not know what he or she is talking about, or is intentionally misleading you.


I don't know if you are intentionally doing it, but you are in fact being very misleading. 

I said there was no absolute rule that no one can ever consent to a battery... you rejected that as wrong, and cited an example where consent was clearly overridden...which is an exception I had already put forth, and which you rejected as part of labelling all of my information as 'bad'.
And you failed to come up with a successful prosecution overruling  freely given and competent consent in the cases of boxers, police cadets, actors, rugby players, or any one of the thousands of people who consent to being battered on a daily basis.

I also said that there is no absolute rule that everyone who harbors any BDSM feelings or fantasies is de facto mentally ill, and you rejected that as well.  
Then you cited a reference that clearly said it was a disorder if it rose to the level of interfering with normal life functions (again, an exception that I had already alluded to).

That same standard applies for being sad....not a mental illness...if it rises to the level where you cannot function, then is is a different story.

Eating food...not a mental illness...eating so much that you weigh 900 pounds....its a problem.

Having sex...not a mental illness... if it rises to the level where it intereferes with quality of life...its a recognized disorder.

So again, it would  be neccessary to come up with contravening examples within the defined parameters as I had clearly stated them.


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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/9/2006 5:17:41 PM   
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I hear folks griping a lot about the goth-kiddies wearing collars as a fashion statement.
  Ha ha.  My friend found a sticker at a hacker convention that says "Admit Goth is Ridiculous".  I have felt like saying that about BDSM on occasion too.  We are a bit ridiculous.  It's ok.  I love us anyway.

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/9/2006 6:25:12 PM   
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Under both English and American law, consenting to contact generally negates criminal charges...that is how boxers, martial arts teachers, football players, and actors are able to do what they do without being charged with anything.

In some select cases, judges have placed their personal/moral feelings above the law, and falsely claimed that one cannot give consent to a battery, merely because they disapproved of the lifestyle of the defendant....which is quite clearly wrong.  

So that isn't, 'the law', it is corrupt judges.

As far as the sexual aspect, I cannot speak to the English code, but in the US, the courts have ruled all the way to the very top, that the government has no business in people's bedrooms.

So the statement that 'BDSM is illegal' is at best a stretch, at worst, just plain wrong.


Sorry, but you are just plain wrong.  I suggest you read the 2004 case from the Nebraska Supreme Court, State v. Van, 268 Neb. 814 (NE 11/12/2004), 268 Neb. 814 (NE, 2004).  That case was decided after the case of  Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. 558, 123 S. Ct. 2472, 156 L. Ed. 2d 508 (2003) in which the U.S. Supreme Court held that consensual homosexual activity was protected by the Constitution's right to privacy.  Here is an except from Van which explains that non-consensual activity, and any activity, whether consensual or not, that results in "bodily injury" can still be criminally prosecuted and is not protected by the Constitution.  Simply put, you can be criminally prosecuted for BDSM activity, even consensual BDSM activity, if it results in "bodily injury."

  "Van rests his legal argument on Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. 558, 123 S. Ct. 2472, 156 L. Ed. 2d 508 (2003), which was decided after Van's trial but prior to his sentencing. In Lawrence, the U.S. Supreme Court considered the validity of a Texas criminal statute prohibiting two persons of the same sex from engaging in certain intimate sexual conduct. The two adult men convicted under the statute had engaged in consensual sexual activity in a private residence. Overruling Bowers v. Hardwick, 478 U.S. 186, 106 S. Ct. 2841, 92 L. Ed. 2d 140 (1986), the Court recognized that "liberty gives substantial protection to adult persons in deciding how to conduct their private lives in matters pertaining to sex" and held that the Texas statute furthered "no legitimate state interest which can justify its intrusion into the personal and private life of the individual." Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. at 572, 578. The Court noted that as a "general rule," government should not attempt to define the meaning or set the boundaries of a personal relationship "absent injury to a person or abuse of an institution the law protects." 539 U.S. at 567.
       In Lawrence, the consensual nature of the sexual activity was undisputed. In the instant case, consent was very much at issue. The offenses with which Van was charged were alleged to have been committed from December 8 to 17, 2001, after J.G.C. claimed to have withdrawn his initial consent to the relationship with Van and expressed his desire to return to Texas. In order to obtain a conviction on the charge of sexual assault in the first degree, the State was required to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that sexual penetration occurred without J.G.C.'s consent. See § 28-319(1)(a). We find nothing in Lawrence to even remotely suggest that nonconsensual sexual conduct is constitutionally protected under any circumstances or that consent, once given, can never be withdrawn.
       Our statutes defining first and second degree assault include no reference to consent. Van was charged with assault in the first degree, defined by § 28-308(1), which provides: "A person commits the offense of assault in the first degree if he intentionally or knowingly causes serious bodily injury to another person." He was also charged with violating § 28-309, which defines assault in the second degree as "ntentionally or knowingly" causing "bodily injury to another person with a dangerous instrument." This court has held that "all attempts to do physical violence which amount to a statutory assault are unlawful and a breach of the peace, and a person cannot consent to an unlawful assault." State v. Hatfield, 218 Neb. 470, 474, 356 N.W.2d 872, 876 (1984). Although we have not previously had occasion to determine the applicability of this principle to a BDSM relationship, other courts have done so. For example, People v. Jovanovic, 263 A.D.2d 182, 198 n.5, 700 N.Y.S.2d 156, 168 n.5 (1999), a case involving alleged conduct which occurred after e-mail correspondence in which the complainant had indicated an interest in participating in sadomasochism, the court noted that under New York law, consent was not a defense to the crime of assault because "as a matter of public policy, a person cannot avoid criminal responsibility for an assault that causes injury or carries a risk of serious harm, even if the victim asked for or consented to the act."
       State v. Collier, 372 N.W.2d 303, 305 (Iowa App. 1985), the Iowa Court of Appeals held that BDSM activity did not fall within an exception to the Iowa assault statute as conduct by voluntary participants in a "sport, social or other activity" which did not create an "unreasonable risk of serious injury or breach of the peace." (Emphasis omitted.) The court in Collier held:

       'Whatever rights the defendant may enjoy regarding private sexual activity, when such activity results in the whipping or beating of another resulting in bodily injury, such rights are outweighed by the State's interest in protecting its citizens' health, safety, and moral welfare. . . . A state unquestionably has the power to protect its vital interest in the preservation of public peace and tranquility, and may prohibit such conduct when it poses a threat thereto.'

       (Citations omitted.) 372 N.W.2d at 307.

       The Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts used similar reasoning in rejecting the defendant's argument that he was not guilty of assault and battery because he and the victim were engaged in a sadomasochistic relationship in which beatings administered with a riding crop were for sexual gratification. Commonwealth v. Appleby, 380 Mass. 296, 402 N.E.2d 1051 (1980). The court held that any right to sexual privacy held by a citizen "would be outweighed in the constitutional balancing scheme by the State's interest in preventing violence by the use of dangerous weapons upon its citizens under the claimed cloak of privacy in sexual relations." Id. at 310, 402 N.E.2d at 1060. See, also, People v. Samuels, 250 Cal. App. 2d 501, 58 Cal. Rptr. 439 (1967) (holding consent not defense to aggravated assault charge arising from filmed sadomasochistic beating).
       Although Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. 558, 123 S. Ct. 2472, 156 L. Ed. 2d 508 (2003), was decided subsequent to these cases, it does not undermine their reasoning. The Lawrence Court did not extend constitutional protection to any conduct which occurs in the context of a consensual sexual relationship. Rather, the Court indicated that State regulation of such conduct was inappropriate "absent injury to a person or abuse of an institution the law protects." 539 U.S. at 567. In addition, it specifically noted that the case it was deciding did not involve "persons who might be injured." 539 U.S. at 578. We therefore conclude that §§ 28-308 and 28-309 are not unconstitutional as applied to Van."

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/9/2006 8:21:55 PM   
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I did not say that no one can ever be charged if there is any claim of consent, I said that the courts are treating BDSM differently from contact sports, where it is a generally recognized principle that freely given and competent consent is held to provide protection from prosecution for battery.

You claim that I am wrong about that specific point, and then you refer to cases where the courts say that BDSM is different from contact sports, where people are allowed to consent to being beaten bloody and unconscious.

And it is circular logic used by some courts that BDSM is 'different' from other consensual contact activities because it is BDSM.

Which is of course, part of what I had already said.




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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/9/2006 9:17:41 PM   
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I am uninterested in an argument with you. I am sure I agree with your opinion of most prosecutors and judges. I probably want the world to look the same way you do. I am offering some facts for those who are interested, which may or may not include you.

I reject directly the statement: "I wanted to add re the comments about masochism being a mental illness, that nowhere in the US does either the law, or the medical establishment say that, nor have they for quite a while." as inaccurate. Any argument should be taken up with the American Psychiatric Association.

I reject directly the statement: "So the statement that 'BDSM is illegal' is at best a stretch, at worst, just plain wrong." as inaccurate in many jurisdictions for many BDSM activities and would caution people that they may face legitimate prosecution for it. I find this fundamentally un-American and urge you to write your legislator.

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/9/2006 9:51:53 PM   
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You are arguing against a position that I have clearly and repeatedly stated I do not hold...that is not offering facts, that is trolling for an argument.

I presented a narrow premise with very specific parameters, and you have repeatedly ignored those specifics, and conflated out of context parts of what I said to an extreme, or even to its opposite... Again, that isn't presenting facts, that is trollage. 

If you have any rational support for your claim that what I actually said as I actually said it, is wrong, present it... show us the successful prosecutions (which I suggested didn't occur) of athletes and doctors and actors for consensual battery outside of BDSM, or show us the current involuntary commitments or incarcerations  for a simple consensual spanking (which does not rise to the levels of extreme harm of otherwise interfere with normal life.....the conditions I set originally).

So far you have failed to do that despite multiple requests, and instead persist in straw man construction, a game to which I will leave you.

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/9/2006 9:59:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Alumbrado

You are arguing against a position that I have clearly and repeatedly stated I do not hold...that is not offering facts, that is trolling for an argument.

I presented a narrow premise with very specific parameters, and you have repeatedly ignored those specifics, and conflated out of context parts of what I said to an extreme, or even to its opposite... Again, that isn't presenting facts, that is trollage. 

If you have any rational support for your claim that what I actually said as I actually said it, is wrong, present it... show us the successful prosecutions (which I suggested didn't occur) of athletes and doctors and actors for consensual battery outside of BDSM, or show us the current involuntary commitments or incarcerations  for a simple consensual spanking (which does not rise to the levels of extreme harm of otherwise interfere with normal life.....the conditions I set originally).

So far you have failed to do that despite multiple requests, and instead persist in straw man construction, a game to which I will leave you.


Best to you in all things.

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/10/2006 12:48:20 AM   
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I read some where a couple of months ago that a judge throughout an abuse case against a guy and a "contract" with his wife.  On the grounds that any such contract isn't legaly binding in the first place.  That it was just a written formality between the couple and that the actions taken by both parties was done so with mutual consent.  Now I find that reassuring, but I guess it depends where you live in this country as the laws vary from state to state.  I mean in some counties in this country and sex other than missionary is still illegal, LOL.  This is becasue most of those statutes where written with a certian "morality code" behind it.  We see this steeming fromthe religious protions of our country.  After all this country was "founded" by religious outcasts seeking shelter from persicution.  Then again we all know that.  It takes time to change things.  Patience and standing your ground and talking to people helps.  People fear what they don't understand.  So what we are seeing in only a natural reaction, sure it sucks but that given time things will more likely go in our favor.  I mean look at all the progress this country has made since the 1950's.  You can't change things overnight.

  Oh and about people griping about Gothic_kiddies wearing collar and stuff.  I just have to laugh at them.  I'm sorry. Punk rock and the original "Death Mods" what people now call gothic have been dressing in that stuff for a long time now and I mean like 30 years.  Look at old picture od the Sex Pistols.  It is just CounterKulture at it's finest.  A little revolution from the youth is a great thing.   Besides I know that when I was a snot nosed 16 year old punk rocker with a bright red mohawk.  I wore a collar or bondage cuffs at times.  Hell punk rock is how I found out about D/s to begin with.  So let the kids be, please.  They are just trying to figure out who they are sure they might not understand it all but if you tlak to them instead of coming down on them them might acyually be interested instead of turned off. 

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/10/2006 6:49:28 AM   
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were did this come from can i get a link to the eniter artical so i can read it because im very confsused


ha now you guys have me quoteing myself.. but really can i get a ling please

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RE: Wife As Sex Slave Contract - 8/10/2006 7:25:19 AM   
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To what would you like a link?

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