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Belonging - 6/20/2006 7:40:50 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I got another queston  for sub/slaves.  I know you belong to your Master/dom/ms/ daddy.  What  i would like to know is do you feel like they belong to you also?

Matt's littleone
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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 7:54:58 AM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got another queston  for sub/slaves.  I know you belong to your Master/dom/ms/ daddy.  What  i would like to know is do you feel like they belong to you also?

Matt's littleone


No.  it's very one sided in that respect; this slave has no belongings, everything belongs to Master.

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 8:02:34 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		No, I belong to him, and he belongs to himself.  No question. 

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 8:07:41 AM   
SenseofBelonging


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Status: offline 		no question about it...i belong to Her...She does not belong to me. it's all about Her.

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 8:09:15 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I think my partners and I belong together.  And in a romantic cutesy sort of way, I think we belong to eachother.

In a real life sort of way, no we do not belong to eachother.

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 8:46:15 AM   
twicehappy


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Status: offline 		I belong to them in that i am owned by them but they also belong to me in some ways. Not in the sense that i have any control over their actions but more in the romantic i love them i care for them type of belonging to me.

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 9:03:42 AM   
darkinshadows


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I belong to him, and he belongs in me in a sense.
 
Peace and Love


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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 9:07:20 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I fell the same was as twice amd dark i belong totally to him. Not that i control his actions  but in the fact that i love him and he means the world to me and he loves me he belongs to me.

Thank you all for you responses

Matt's littleone

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 10:15:14 AM   
HisTicia


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Status: offline 		Yes... I feel that He does.  Not in the same sense of course..because after all.. I am the slave..but in the sense that we are with each other only..and I have His heart..in those ways..He is as much mine and I am His.
 
                             ~Ticia

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 10:38:32 AM   
Taylore


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I got another queston  for sub/slaves.  I know you belong to your Master/dom/ms/ daddy.  What  i would like to know is do you feel like they belong to you also?

Matt's littleone

Everything that I am belongs to Master.
Master belongs to himself.

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Taylore

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 11:35:25 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Simply, it could be no other way.. we give part of our soul to the other...Just my opinion. When I give all of myself to the ownership of someone else that is how I view it.

< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 6/20/2006 11:37:58 AM >

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 12:28:09 PM   
denika


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Status: offline 		Rob and I own each other. I am not owned or in a formal relationship aside from bottoming to One person, so I can't speak in the contect of ownership there, but in my marriage I try my best to put Rob's needs and wants first and I know he does the same for me.



denika

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 12:33:44 PM   
MstrssSatin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: denika

Rob and I own each other. I am not owned or in a formal relationship aside from bottoming to One person, so I can't speak in the contect of ownership there, but in my marriage I try my best to put Rob's needs and wants first and I know he does the same for me.



denika


The very definition of a mutual and healthy relationship. You and Rob are truly blessed.


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Seek well, Seek true
Are you man enough to submit to Me?

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 12:44:50 PM   
denika


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ORIGINAL: MstrssSatin

The very definition of a mutual and healthy relationship. You and Rob are truly blessed.



Thank you so much,  we just celebrated our 16 th anniversary. Rob is my best friend and my voice of reason *s*    We have a great system, he keeps me from accidently killing myself (adrenaline junkie/accident prone/sensationist-I want to try everything at least once)  and I keep him from killing other people (road rage/motorcylist)   So far it's worked  *g*

denika

Life is about living

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 12:58:22 PM   
trippingdaisy


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Status: offline 		When describing my relationship with Master, HisTicia hit the nail directly on the head.

He has given me His heart. i am owned by Him, i am His completely, and in the sense that He has given me His loyalty, love, and a part of His soul, yes. He is also mine.

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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 1:09:35 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		He is dependant on me. Does he belong to me though? Yes, I think, in a romantic sense. Not in the "does what I say" sense, of course, but I know I mean as much to him as he means to me, so in that sense, he -does- belong to me.

He's -my- Owner, not someone elses. Even if we play with someone else, he's still -mine- first. :)


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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 1:17:38 PM   
lisa1978


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Status: offline 		In a serious relationship of any nature I feel that me and any person I am owned by we in essence own each other. Whether M/s or normal two people committing to be together through the good times and bad times, to invest are heart in so much requires a serious level of commitment which I would say equals somewhat to the term owning.

I guess for me and interpetting the OP question, we own the relationship and a relationship run on M/s values is very seperate things to me.


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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 1:42:23 PM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		I belong to Himself.. and we belong together. That works for us.

Celeste

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"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


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RE: Belonging - 6/20/2006 8:18:49 PM   
gardenbluebird


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Status: offline 		My Master is encouraging me to think of him as mine.  He believes that this approach will make me happier.  i'm still trying to wrap my mind around it.  That way of thinking is hard for me after so many years of training myself to not be posessive, but i'm working on it.  i think He is right.  It will make me happier and more secure to think that He is mine as much as i am his, but getting there is sometimes easier said than done.

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RE: Belonging - 6/21/2006 4:19:53 AM   
sabswife


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Status: offline 		W/we complete each other, W/we belong to each other, but He owns me.  just because He is the Dominant doesn't mean He hasn't given part of Himself to me.

< Message edited by sabswife -- 6/21/2006 4:20:51 AM >

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