Even the consensual nonconsent stuff is kind of a turn off to me. I know folks who have been molested and raped and that kind of play just doesn't do anything for me. I prefer my partner to be consenting and willing rather than kicking and screaming (even as a part of play, this freaks me out a bit).
ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady Based on your very limited grasp of the English language (which being from Denmark is understandable), I really think that you aren't understanding what others say to you.
Thank you for that intelligent insight, I've been wondering what was going on.