LafayetteLady
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Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Northern New Jersey Status: offline
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Yes, I am rational. I live in the real world, not the fantasy that you an Tammy live in (until the next public airing of all your problems). I live in a real world of 24/7 and that is not all Roses and there are some Thorns indeed but we enjoy it together, thank you very much for asking. Until the next major blow up. Roses and thorns by the way are NOT proper nouns. No need to capitalize them. quote:
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You proclaim to be a dominant, yet you also recognize you have absolutely no control over your submissive and to top it off, you have this bizarre need to feed your OCD by planning elaborate scenes. You suggest we do away with the safe word and one is not a Dom if he allows safewords. You also suggest Doms who put together scenes have a bizarre need. Care to point out where I said do away with safewords? And no, I don't suggest that doms who put together scenes have a bizarre need. I was very clear that YOU have bizarre needs. quote:
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This is a young girl who is being led down the rosy path by someone who is clueless (do you feel a kinship with him?). What most of us have done is to attempt to keep her from doing something she will regret when the frenzy is over, or when she finds herself posted on every amateur porn site there is, which ever comes first. You are such a nice person for looking out for this "young girl". I don't remember her asking you and she is not a young girl, she is an adult. She's eighteen. That makes her a young girl. quote:
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You seem to be replying under the delusion that the OP only wanted the point of view of dominants. Well, I'm a switch, so that makes me qualified to answer, even though I still believe you are deluded. Actually, she did not want anyone's opinion. She instead asked male Doms if they were interested in swapping. Are you in the right thread? So your view is that if she came on saying that her dominant wanted to cut off her leg because he had a prosthesis fetish, and she asked if "other doms" had this experience, no one but "qualify doms" should answer? Again, as a switch, I'm also a dominant. Regardless of that, the majority of people on the boards, when they see someone who is very much a newbie asking about doing something very stupid, and engaging in something where she is likely to be hurt, we tend to want to let them know. People shouldn't advise her that all of what she is doing can end up on amateur porn sites without her knowledge or consent, or that she is delving deep into a situation where she will never be a primary concern for her partner, and that she is quite likely wasting her youth on some idiot on the other side of the country, when she could easily attend events locally and be involved with a real, live person. I realize that is not your way of doing things, but the beautiful thing about these boards is that there is more than enough evidence that you engage in questionable behavior on a regular basis and indeed could probably benefit from some sessions with a good therapist.
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