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MichMasochist -> RE: Was this sub space??? (6/22/2006 5:34:46 PM)
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I really don't think what you experianced was what BDSMers call sub-space.
In my experience sub-space is attained thru repeated strokes of a cat-of-nine-tails on both my back and bottom. The strokes have to be my mistress' best, another words we are not talking light play. After a few such strokes the human neural cortex, brain, starts to release endorphins, addrinalin, epinephrin, to name a few, as part of the "fight or flight response mechanism". After a while my body gets warmly fuzzy. If mistress continues I loose the ability to vocalize speech, so "safe-wording" becomes impossible. At this point most masochist, my self included, will not want the domme to stop. Some will even become quite upset if someone interferres with the mistress, ending the activites too early. This is were a quality domme will exercise good judgement and self restraint as to safe-word, stop the action, herself. If the activities continue very short term loss of vission does occure and I start to float or even to fly. I'd imagine this to be like an out of body experience.
Other masochists describe subspace as a very intense joggers high. The same cortical reaction occures from the repetative jaring on the joints and internal organs during the act of jogging. Except that with S&M it is far more intense.
What you experienced as described sounds more like what slavejali wrote.
Although from my personal experience in studying the female orgasm, both as a submisive to a mistress and as a womans' lover. Women do appearently go blind and deaf, temporarily, with a truely good orgasm. Especially the way the area of the belly below the naval quivers at the moment of climax. Definately one of those good things in life is to hold her in my arms as she lays there so vulnerable and trusting in me.
mich
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