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A question for Dominants... - 6/22/2006 6:50:37 PM

LordDominik

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Often times, subs will ask if I am "gentle or strict Dom". My anwser is that I am a "Picky Bastard Dom".

I don't necessarily see Myself as too gentle or overly strict, but I do have a very certain way that I like things done. My questions is, do you see yourself as being, or have you been told, that you are too picky about how you prefer things?

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/22/2006 7:16:40 PM

LokisBrat

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Have been called a "micro manager". I would say that would qualify as being a bit picky.

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/22/2006 7:26:55 PM

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Everyone's been told that they're doing everything wrong at some point- especailly by someone who isn't getting what they want from you.

The question subs get is "How submissive are you?"

It's just as stupid a question (yes, there are stupid questions).

Sometimes I answer "I'm a 7.6 on the Winston-Schaler scale of submission" or "I'm more submissive than a piece of toast"

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/22/2006 7:45:55 PM

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Only by my ex-husband. ;-)

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/22/2006 8:42:07 PM

ownedgirlie

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I would wonder, too picky for whom? According to whom? You want what you want. I see nothing wrong with that. I had a recent conversation with someone, in which I said one of the things that I admire most about my Master is that he knows what he wants and doesn't compromise it. He does not yield to my whim, but teaches me to adjust to his. It works for us. Any other way would have me looking at him differently.

Mind you, the "pickier" you are about something, the more challenging it is to attain. If your qualiifications for a submissive were 5'4, blonde, green eyes, 130 pounds, and a birthmark behind her left knee, for example, it might take longer to sate your desire than if you altered your quest a bit.

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/22/2006 9:30:38 PM

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yeah but all you kids now is how submissive white bread toast is. When I was young our standard was stone mill ground rye bread, now THAT was submissive bread. The internet has ruined all that, now all sorts of bread is used as the standard, heck in a chatroom they were using crackers as the comparison!

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/23/2006 12:19:36 AM

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You can put a round peg in a square hole, but you can't put a square peg in a round hole. (no pun intended)

I loved the little home made signs you used to see at gas stations, next to the coke machine, above the wooden crates for the empty coke bottles... "IQ Test: Put the round bottle in the square hole".

Personally I prefer to be strict and loving, firm but fair, very demanding of course... and if backed into a corner I'll tear your head off and excrement down your neck... and all the other mean stuff too.

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/23/2006 12:25:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

yeah but all you kids now is how submissive white bread toast is. When I was young our standard was stone mill ground rye bread, now THAT was submissive bread. The internet has ruined all that, now all sorts of bread is used as the standard, heck in a chatroom they were using crackers as the comparison!

LOL - are you as nutty in real life?

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/23/2006 5:54:32 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom
yeah but all you kids now is how submissive white bread toast is. When I was young our standard was stone mill ground rye bread, now THAT was submissive bread. The internet has ruined all that, now all sorts of bread is used as the standard, heck in a chatroom they were using crackers as the comparison!

*snort*

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/23/2006 6:02:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy
You can put a round peg in a square hole, but you can't put a square peg in a round hole. (no pun intended)

Well, actually if the round hole has a big enough diameter, the square peg can be inserted. Sorry, but someone was bound to point that out sooner or later. Am I showing my pickiness?

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/23/2006 6:17:10 AM

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I am a Gorean Master... They can read into that what they will and if they have the curiosity or interest they will explore further. Above the entry portal of my being reads a sign.. "Loose all hope all who enter here!"

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RE: A question for Dominants... - 6/23/2006 12:27:23 PM

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hell I been called overly picky and again another time I was told I am too soft and gentle ... dammmm and I'm a mean ass Sadist too. I suppose like beauty how we are percieved is in the eye or mind or the perciever. <shrugs>

just my evil opinion

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