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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 10:00:45 AM)
In spite of certain people's attempts at derailing, I will attempt to get the thread back on it's course(as well as fix my typo in it I finally realized, here vs hear): quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets hear it guys. [:)]

Darkersided -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 11:17:03 AM)
I agree there are slaves who are genuine out there,ive met them.But none from online.I have genuinely met 55 men since my quest.I did not expect miracles.But its sad that most try to turn the tables on what a D/s is.I offer a D/s relationship,thats all.I have had very few positive messages.Im often told to F off and Go kill myself when I mention I dont provide the kit/gear/equipment or dungeon/room.I have whips,paddles,crops,floggers to use on them.But I dont provide anything else.I only know what Ive been told by the majority who have messaged me.English men.

garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 11:39:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl Yes, cuddle bunnies of either gender are a good thing. [:D] NBMG Thanks [:)]!

BambiBoi -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 12:23:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it guys. [:)] NBMG (If the thread gets moved, so will my response, so I don't mind responding here.) The Dominant/Mistress I want should be dominant. I know it sounds tautological, but it's true. I want a domme who is confident in taking what she wants, when she wants it, and not bashful/lazy/disinterested in making her desires known. I got a giddy spark in my spine when Lady Pact's response was "I don't really care what they want..." THAT is the kind of confidence I like to see. I can be very compliant when the command is a little more specific than "make me happy." My dominant not being coy and uncomfortable holding the loopy-end of the leash (metaphorically or literally speaking) is so high on the list the "skills" don't matter. I do want her to know when she doesn't know. I don't want to be lit on fire because she thinks this is how firecups work. It's not important to me that she be a shibari instructor, a master of needlework, or a crack shot with the whip. I don't need a dungeon with lots of toys. I just want a woman who isn't afraid to be bold.

MsSylverdawn -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 2:34:04 PM)
CHUCKLES I CAN DO BOLD

Rawni -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 2:36:34 PM)
ROFL... Me too! [:D] We've got this!

MsSylverdawn -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 2:43:09 PM)
high fives RAwni

PeonForHer -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 3:04:44 PM)
quote: I just want a woman who isn't afraid to be bold. What we need, BB, is for some bloke to do the submale's equivalent of this song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VFgDYkTXUQ

LookieNoNookie -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 5:04:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it guys. [:)] NBMG "Here"

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/28/2013 5:56:51 PM)
lol

garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/29/2013 2:20:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl Yes, cuddle bunnies of either gender are a good thing. [:D] NBMG Once again thanks [:)]. All the people I want to cuddle live in the USA [:(].

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/29/2013 3:41:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: garyFLR All the people I want to cuddle live in the USA [:(]. That's a bummer. :( NBMG

Politesub53 -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/29/2013 4:03:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer Just a woman who I find attractive, and who finds me attractive, and who enjoys the idea of dominating me, whatever that means to her. The rest is a journey that we'll take together, hand-in-hand. I'm sure it'll be smooth in some parts but rough in others. We'll tough out the rough bits, because we will love each other. That's about it. Peon has nailed it for me.

summersub -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/29/2013 10:50:20 PM)
If this thread is back on track speaking for myself, I want a woman who loves to dominate her man and finds sub men attractive, mutual attraction on different levels, DS and vanilla, someone who wants to be together in real life not email for more than about two weeks before talking on the phone and is ready to meet in person. What I really want is there to me more dominant women actively looking for submissive males.

LadyPact -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/29/2013 11:02:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BambiBoi The Dominant/Mistress I want should be dominant. I got a giddy spark in my spine when Lady Pact's response was "I don't really care what they want..." Tha tingly power. I gotz it. [8D] quote: It's not important to me that she be a shibari instructor, a master of needlework, or a crack shot with the whip. Two out of three ain't bad. I never was much of one for rope. [:)]

garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/30/2013 5:00:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissReddy Most on here seem to want a quick scratch for their itch and not to serve in any committed way in real life! If someone knows where the real slaves/subs are who are looking for something long term and interesting, please point the way lol I agree with Darkersided, they seem to want their fantasies to be fulfilled only and care little for the Dommes wants or needs. Topping from the bottom [sm=hellno.gif] That's a fairly jaundiced view, there are some very genuine people here, you will find what you're searching for, I promise.

garyFLR -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (6/30/2013 5:03:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl quote: ORIGINAL: garyFLR All the people I want to cuddle live in the USA [:(]. That's a bummer. :( NBMG Yes, & my arms are just not that long [:(].

Darkersided -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/3/2013 9:02:34 AM)
I dont find sub men attractive in the least.They are there to work thats all.Be of use.But if hes playing at being sub he wont see me for dust.I dont take on anyone that fails.

NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/3/2013 10:27:45 PM)
Wow, that sounded negative.[8\|] NBMG

Rawni -> RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? (7/3/2013 10:38:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkersided I dont find sub men attractive in the least.They are there to work thats all.Be of use.But if hes playing at being sub he wont see me for dust.I dont take on anyone that fails. Why do you keep posting your negativity on a thread that is being used for submissive men to have a voice, that we domina's can or want to hear? We all have the bad experiences if you can call them that... they aren't positive and a lot of it is a bit of a pain, but do you need to disrupt so badly because you have experienced it? Why not start your own thread if you just came to bash submissive men? Coming into a peaceful thread with your submissive/male bashing is rather sad and speaks volumes.

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